Sorrow of software workers from second-and third-tier cities

Last year at home for the Chinese New Year, my family was still old. My parents and friends asked the most about how they would like to work outside and when they would like to come back to work? The first question is a good answer, but this second question has been bothering me. How can I go back? In order to find some ideas, over the years, I have specially added several similar QQ groups and found some forums on the Internet that raised the same questions, I found that many people like me have this idea. Everyone is studying and growing in the second and third-tier cities, starting from working at the bottom of the second and third-tier cities, continuous learning, hard work, and hard work until you are on the right track.

With the accumulation of time, our work ability is constantly improved, and our work can be handled freely. However, we regret that our company's business is not growing as our capabilities continue to grow, this means that our salary is "forever" and we can only stay in the same position. Although we have tried several times to reflect that we haven't got a salary increase for a long time, a better boss may consider adding 100 or 200 to you, we are more indifferent (we can't blame them, but our company's profitability is limited, but what we can't stand most is the repetitive work done by the company. After a website is completed, the next website comes, and they are all super simple websites with no technical content, if you want to achieve something new, it is difficult to improve your technical capabilities. At this time, we have to think about our future and how we can realize our dream in college under these conditions (everyone may be different, however, when we first chose computer science, we thought it was a decent job. At least we could have no worries about it.) The more we thought about it, the less we thought about it, the less we thought about it. So we couldn't see hope, strong Inner dissatisfaction, embrace the beautiful imagination of the first-tier city software companies and the rapid development of software technology, at the same time, in their own young are not afraid of the "impulse", Yi Naturally, I decided to leave the city and come to the first-tier big city with my bags.

When I first arrived in the first-tier city, I found that the pace of life had become faster and faster. I got up at seven o'clock in the morning and took the 1-or 2-hour subway to work, at pm, I was able to return to my nest and suddenly found that the time of the day had been so fast. The biggest feeling was that the software technology here was really good, and there were a lot of cool people, there is a big gap between ourselves and them. In order to keep ourselves up with them, we spend all our time learning besides eating, sleeping, and working, the more books on the bed, the higher the base, the more time we stay up late. Since then, we have no leisure time to work in our hometown. Every day we are busy like a cow, but we never feel tired, because our hearts are becoming more and more enriched.

As time passes, without knowing it, several years have passed, and we have become the core force in the company. Our personal abilities and benefits have also been greatly improved. Although it is relatively stable, however, with the increase of age, our burden has also begun. We need to consider asking our wives to have children. The most important thing is to have a home; millions of housing prices in the first-tier cities are really out of reach for our migrant workers, and there are no relatives here. There is always a feeling of drifting, so we still want to go to our hometown to build a house. If we buy a house in our hometown, we must go back to work, but in the face of soaring house prices in our hometown, the pay-as-you-go (which may be 1/3, 1/4, or less of our current salary), software technologies that have been lagging behind for several years, sporadic software companies, and high prices, how can we get back?

We came to the first-tier cities to endure our family's love, our loneliness, our small space in which we could not live in ten square meters, and our landlord's "country" view, endure the rising rents and prices, and endure the criticism that the best of your youth is dedicated to our international metropolis in exchange for the local "the price is so high that it is caused by outsiders, I can't buy a ticket for one day during the Spring Festival, but I can only purchase a scalper ticket at a high price. I can't accept the daily noodle + lunch, and I cannot eat on time, I have endured the same five insurances, one gold, and one tax, but cannot enjoy the same treatment as the local people ......; In a word, we live like Xiaoqiang.

Even so, what did we get? In exchange, outsiders in Beijing cannot buy a house, 10 million low-rent houses do not have our shares, and the wages (high prices, high rents, high taxes, and high fares) are constantly exploited, the family's apologies for their parents, the characteristics of Otaku and female (more and more single people, more and more dating programs), and the increase in social deprivation (Our increase in income is a bargaining chip ).

Why are we so miserable? It is because we do not have Ma Rui's 80 thousand figure overnight, the 0.3 million annual salary for rural credit cooperatives, and 60 thousand overtime for the Spring Festival. Do we not have an official father or a rich second generation's blessing? However, we don't want to do anything about it. We only pray that we can have a stable home and have a safe job at home, so that we can take care of the increasing number of white-haired parents (not far from our parents ), however, this is hard and difficult.

When can I go home to work? Now, we can only use the words that the ancients asked us to "ask Qingtian for wine "!