The Gentleman Nine think

Confucius said: "The gentleman has nine think: depending on the Simin, listen to Crestron, color think temperature, appearance, thinking of loyalty, things to think, thinking, thought, resentment, think of righteousness. ”

To see and hear is to know the things;

Young people's understanding of the world will not be too deep, it will require more reading, more than the elderly exchanges. Old elder and I said similar nonsense words, until now know that is not nonsense, is let me always remember in the heart!

The color, appearance, speech, and indignation lie in the performance of individual behavior;

Young people are more shallow, happy anger in the color, in anger prone to inappropriate behavior, which not only affect their future, but also affect the people around, and even affect the overall situation!

Most of the time, do not think you are too important people, so as to put their own position in the heart, humility to others.

But also must not be satisfied to do an unimportant person, who does not have the jirenlixia time, the hardships party can become the big event.

Things, doubts, lies in the way of doing things;

Action to be cautious, careful, do not know can consult people, but I do not have masterful elder, fortunately I have a good wife, she taught me a lot.

I have a bad memory, and whenever I learn a new, I will write it down.

It is the common heart.

The original intention of Confucius is that gentlemen should not take ill-gotten gains. I understand that as a normal heart, in the face of any harvest, not to be dazzled by joy.

Although no desire is just, but I think people still have to pursue, otherwise and salted fish have what difference.

　　

In general, think twice, do not understand as hesitation, but should be understood as: quick to think of a solution, consider the consequences, and then carefully to do, the anger is not actual performance,

Gains and losses are not seen through, not driven by emotions.

5 years ago, the Chairman of a group of companies asked me to visit his company, I saw a lot of books on the shelves, of which business books accounted for only a small proportion,

The vast majority of books are the Analects of Confucius and the Art of War of Sun Tzu.

I don't understand, is business not the most important?

In fact, business is the cornerstone of making money, not unimportant, but more important is how to do things.

For the age of successful people will be on the shelves of this kind of book?

Some are for the sake of B, others are really falling too much on the road of their career and beginning to understand the truth in these books.

He called me College. There are 2 things that must be done:

First, fall in love; Needless to say, I did it professionally.

Second, look at some similar to the Analects of Confucius, Sun Tzu's Art of War, the Book of economics; I did not look at that time, only studied the social engineering, fortunately, recently I gradually understood,

It's not too late to start!

The Gentleman Nine think