When your talent doesn't hold up to your ambitions,

When your talent still can't afford your ambition, you should calm down to learn, when your ability can not control your goals, you should sink to the heart, experience, dream, not impetuous, but precipitation and accumulation, only to spell out the beautiful, no waiting out of the brilliant, the opportunity is always left to the most eager person , learn to talk with your innermost heart, ask yourself, what kind of life do you want, meditation study, patient precipitation, give yourself, mutual encouragement.

People, come to this world, there will always be a lot of unhappy, but also have a lot of injustice, there will be a lot of loss, there will be a lot of envy.

You envy my freedom, I envy your restraint; you envy my car, I envy your room; you envy my work, I envy you always have a rest time every day. Perhaps, we are farsighted eyes, always live in the look up to others, perhaps, we are myopic, often neglect the happiness around.

In fact, there will not be two identical faces in the universe, as long as you look closely, there is always a slight difference.

The same is the Beast, the rabbit petite and green cattle tall, with the birds, eagles soar and Purple Yan low.

People, there will always be the difference between intelligence, luck, always subject to the environment, the reality of the constraints; There will always be someone in your cut a plate of fruit, seconds to kill a math problem; There will always be someone in your sleep, think of the gains and losses of the day, there will be someone faster than you run ... Uneven, it constitutes a beautiful scenery in the world. Bian Zhilin said: "You stand on the bridge to see the scenery, the people watching the scenery upstairs to see you." Yes, walking in the life of the wind and rain journey, when you envy others living in high-rise buildings, perhaps huddled in the corner of the people, is envious of you have a can cover the wind of the thatched house, when you envy others sitting in the luxury car, and frustrated in their own walking on the ground, perhaps lying in bed, people are envious of you can also

There are many times, we often do not know that they are in the appreciation of others, they have become the view of other people's eyes.

In fact, life is a heavy book, some books are not the protagonist, because we neglect the self, some books are not clues, because we lost ourselves, some books are not content, because we bury the self.

A lifetime of tens of thousands of miles, MO asked the success or failure of a few points, to be calm, loss of indifference, and in other people's glory, rather than to light their own heart lights, sailing, grasp the most real self, will be more profound interpretation of their own.

Facing the Sun bar, do not ask the spring, only happy face, because, through the sun-filled windows, suddenly look back, you are not the view of others?

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Because of writing articles, from time to time will receive some invitations, let me do share, there have been loyal readers enthusiastic to send some female influence selection activities, let me go to try, and even have a friend particularly enthusiastic want to organize activities for me in the local, to help spread the idea, expand influence. I am thankful for all these things, but I am declined for all the invitations.

Last year, I took the speech as one of my important activities for development and promotion, actively looking for public speaking and sharing opportunities, as well as figuring out how to systematize what I have learned into a series of courses that can be open to the public. With the popular "iterative" thinking of mobile internet, I launched a course prototype, named Dream Launch Plan, and invited more than 20 friends to participate in the experience when the mind is not mature enough to be self-contained. But in the first phase of the smooth end, many people waiting to enroll in the second phase, I temporarily terminated the project.

When I mentioned these things to my friends, they were puzzled. I am not an otherworldly "saint", nor is it an insulator of wealth, fame and achievement. The reason I'm doing this is simple: guilty, because I realize that I still have no ability or talent to support such plans and projects at all.

I remember very clearly that two years ago, when I met with a friend, I was very conceited and said, "There are not so many books on the market that I can read!" At that time I was so full of people, in fact, just read a few books, but I think I already know a lot. In the past two years, with the increase of reading volume and the deepening of thinking, I found myself more and more small and shallow, naturally began to become humble and low-key.

Kingman Brewster in the book "Beautiful Hay at Yale," there is a saying: "People usually grow up from ignorance to self-pity, to rediscover, to the end with a mature ambition and determination." I really agree. When people are ignorant, they tend to be very conceited, and only when they see their small side, they learn humility, they start to grow. I am now in a phase of self-discovery, a thirst for knowledge, a willingness to subtract from all unnecessary activities, a lot of spare time to read and think, a course of interest on Coursera, and the pleasure of learning and growing in this fulfilling life.

In such a impetuous environment, I can enjoy myself, sinking down to learn, this has to be attributed to one of the things that happened last year: Last year, in the certification of the public number, because of their own mistakes, the name of the public has been changed. In the case of confirmation, I decided to run the public number for one year, starting from scratch. Everyone said they admire my courage, but I don't think so. This is a decision that has been made after rational thinking, and it is not courage but wisdom that underpins this decision. If I understand the truth, it will be easy to understand. Think of the reason why the public is being watched? There is no doubt that the concept behind the article, these ideas for everyone to bring a deep sense of identity, but also allow them to have a positive sense of life and inspiration.

Therefore, the mind and mind are the core, and the thought is transformed into an article, and then the reader is attracted. The article can be written again, as long as the spirit is not dead, the lost readers can be re-gathered through the new writing of the article. When I first read the Rockefeller autobiography, I was struck by a remark in the book: "If I peel my broke in the middle of the desert, I can reconstruct the whole dynasty as long as a line of camels passes by." How could Rockefeller utter such a rant if he had not been so confident in his ability and boldness? Since then, I have not focused on pleasing readers and searching for high-quality articles, but have spent a lot of time reading and thinking because I understand that high quality input is the precondition for high quality output. Such a decision proved to be correct: The new account was launched in less than four months, far exceeding the influence of the original account.

Sometimes, I don't know whether I am in such a time and environment is a kind of luck or misfortune. Although the rapid development of the mobile Internet to connect the whole world together, so that information and information flow quickly, to bring us unprecedented opportunities, but, with it is impetuous, a variety of rapid success stories emerge, giving the public a false illusion that success can not work hard, casually can get, so, Many people give up their origins and pursue some flashy appearances. Today's young people, no one is willing to sink into a specific field and hone a skill. This is very bad for the growth and development of young people, because they do not like their parents to spend time and energy to study and study, so that they have the talent, but the social skills, network development in the most important position, is not lying, what is known as the resources, and then talk about resource integration or platform cooperation.

The man who learns history is best able to understand the power and greatness of time: Time has its own wisdom, and it mercilessly erases all untimely things, leaving only what is truly valuable to mankind. In the short term, we may encounter many opportunities, but after a period of time, it is only a constant "fluctuation" in history. Humanity, in the face of the future is extremely fragile, we can hardly predict the future, because "change", rather than "stability", is the essence of the universe. Smart people will know how to focus on things that are constant rather than changing at all times. They understand, do marketing, should not spend too much time on marketing skills, but through reading and thinking to study human nature, in-depth understanding of human psychological operation Law. Marketing skills are always changing with the market, and these techniques are based on human nature without exception, and human nature is immutable, at least in a predictable future. Do content, do not devote energy to the maintenance of a platform, but to create their own depth of thought and writing.

Don't forget, seven years ago we used a blog, four years ago the fire is Micro Bo, now the mainstream is, what the future will be, no one knows. Similarly, a company must take the time to think about its core values and ideas, and then build a deep-rooted corporate culture and team execution. You can't predict what the next popular pattern and technology will be, but as long as there is a cohesive and executive-strong team, rebuilding the empire is not a problem.

Fortunately, when I was still young, I saw the temptation of this era, from the unreal bustling wake up, began to reject glitz, choose focus and accumulation. I am no longer concerned about networking and resources, nor do I speak and share, because too many opportunities and temptations distract me and make me impetuous, and I am not sure if I have a strong heart to harness vanity. So instead of putting yourself in such "danger", it's better to simply eliminate the possibility of being tempted. I have always believed in a simple truth: it is gold that shines. When your abilities and knowledge accumulate beyond most people, you will surely become the object of resources and capital, and then everything will be there, but only if you have to be "gold" and not just a gold-plated "stone".

At the end of the article, I would like to give this sentence to the young people who are struggling as much as I do: when your talent still cannot afford your ambition, then you should be quiet to learn, and when your ability can not control your goals, then you should sink to experience.

When your talent doesn't hold up to your ambitions