Colleagues' relationships must increase in size

Tian jiagen (an employee from a hotel in Shenzhen): As the saying goes, the disease begins with an attack. Therefore, when I go to work, I try to do more things and talk less. In this way, you can accumulate more work experience and take busy work away from unnecessary time to avoid chatting with others. Even outside of my work, I never give my comments to my colleagues, but who is right and who is right. My colleagues have been getting along with each other for a long time, and I will not care about such trivial matters. Even if my colleagues slander and frame me. I just put this unpleasant kind of unpleasant as a spam, and gently erase it, because I firmly believe that the shadows are not afraid of being distorted, and the events will end with days of water. For those colleagues who have hurt me, as long as the storm has passed, they are never worried. It is not to say that "Gold is full, and no one is perfect. It is the smartest choice to get rid of people. And I often ask myself. Are I at fault? A little more reflection, give people happiness, give yourself convenience. If I deal with my colleagues' relationships with such a mentality, why should I ask the guard to escort, and why should I be dealt with by hitting people?

More tolerance and understanding

Tan weihui (employee of a company in Longhua town, Shenzhen): I told a story about "three feet:

In ancient times, a render manager was preparing to build a back garden. He hoped to leave a three-foot Lane outside the garden, but the neighbor was a member. He said that it was his territory and he firmly opposed Lane repair. The manager immediately repaired the book in Beijing, and saw the manager who gave up the original plan after returning the letter from the Prime Minister. unexpectedly, the manager insisted on seeing the back letter from the Prime Minister. In the past, the manager wrote a poem: a thousand miles of books was only for the wall, why not let him take a three-foot view? The Great Wall is still there today, not seeing Qin Shihuang. I was deeply touched and took the initiative to turn the three-foot lane into a six-foot Lane.

Tolerance is ganlu, which can make it easy. If there is more tolerance and understanding between colleagues, the relationship between colleagues will not be so difficult.

Maintain proper distance with colleagues

Liu yuemei (employee of the company): I used to have a colleague, who is a few years older than me. I always treat her as a big sister and say everything to her. I didn't expect that she didn't give a comment when she thought she was doing well at the end of the year, so she decided that I was the personnel director's little girl, and she didn't believe how I could explain it, from then on, we were in a stranger. Soon, I had a lot of rumors in the company. I was so dizzy that I washed my face with tears every day and did not know how to clarify myself.

later, I had to switch to another organization. Now, I only talk to my colleagues in the company about work, not about life, getting to work on time, and leaving on time. My colleagues do not know my private life, but everyone respects me very much, because I have poor working ability. I finally understand that many colleagues are not suitable for being friends. Maintaining a certain distance with colleagues is the most beautiful.