Feeling of the cold door and noble son

Hanmen nobles ------- super Speaker: Liu xiaoyuan, talented girl of Peking University

 

Some days ago, a senior HR (Human Resource Manager) who has been working in a bank for ten years posted a post on the Internet called "The cold door makes it difficult to get out of your child". it means that the cold child in our society now wants to succeed, which is more difficult than the generation of our fathers. This post has aroused a very wide discussion, do you think this sentence makes sense?

First, let me say that our family is born from the cold door. Our family is not a cold door, and our family has no door, I don't even know what a common rural couple my dad and my mom were, how did he provide my three children and my two brothers from the countryside to go to college or graduate school? I have always felt very lucky. My father and my mother have never read any books, my mom never even went to the first year of elementary school. She thought it was very important to study, and she had to take the three of our children to college even if she had suffered a lot of hardships. I have never compared myself with wealthy children, for example, to say what is different between us or what is inequality, but we must admit that there is some inequality in the world, they have many superior conditions, and we do not have many shortcuts, but we cannot complain that every person's life is different. Some people are born with a golden key, some people are not even born with their parents, and there is no comparability between life and life. how our life is completely determined by our own feelings, if you are complaining all your life, your life is the life of your complaint. If you are feeling touched all your life, your life is the life of your complaint, all your life is determined to change this society. Your life is the life of the fighters.

There is a documentary named "seven years of life" in the UK. The documentary visits Twelve seven-year-olds from different stages and returns to visit these children every seven years, at the end of the film, we found that the children of the rich are still the rich, and the children of the poor are still the poor, but there is a poor child named Nick in it, in the end, he became a university professor through his own struggle. It can be seen that the palm of his destiny contains the fish that have missed the net, and there are countless examples of reverse attacks against the cold boys in real life, therefore, when we encounter failures, we cannot attribute all the causes to birth, let alone complain about why our parents are inferior to others' parents, because his family environment is not good, he has not cut off all the possibilities of his success. When I encountered a lot of difficulties in my life, I would walk around on the street in Beijing and look at people. At that time, I thought, "Liu Yuanyuan, in this city, you really depend on everything. You only have yourself and you have nothing. What you can do now is to take a single shot in this society."

This speech is now the last time. In fact, when I was just asking, I found that most of us are not from a great family. We have to rely on ourselves, so you have to believe that, destiny gives you a starting point that is lower than others. We want to tell you how to use your life to fight a Jedi counterattack, this story is about independence, about dreams, about courage, and about perseverance. It is not a pure fairy tale. There is no bitterness in the world. It is a story of lofty ideals, bai 'er Qin Guan is Chu, and this story is a bitter story. He is brave enough to swallow Wu.

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Post reading:

What makes it possible for everyone to feel the illusion that "it's hard to get out of the door?It is actually a direct link between the education system and the bureaucracy.We believe that if you are recognized by the education system and have achieved good results in the imperial examination, you will actually be recognized by the bureaucracy. In this system, knowledge = social status is true. In this case, you only need to take a good test to gain a social position. There is almost no uncertainty in this relationship,To some extent, this gives people the illusion that their fate is completely in their own hands and can be obtained through hard work.This kind of system does not require personal choice, or even requires families to reduce malformed labor force, which makes us feel that the rising social channels are exceptionally stable.

In addition, it is really difficult to generalize the standard of your son.For example, some people think that the second generation of the rich generation is called the child, some think that the child is called the child after their own efforts, and others think that the child is the child who succeeds by their own efforts.At this point, we are all at the bottom.

 Status determines vision and mood determines the world.

In fact, we can look at it optimistically: today we are in a new era of information technology, and the popularity of the Internet provides us with a lot of opportunities and resources. O (partition _ partition) O

 

 

 

Of course, we still need to acknowledge the original accumulation of wealth and indeed bring a sense of superiority to a group of rich second generations. It is like: Some starting points of life are far from the end of life for many ordinary people!

However, we really cannot attribute all factors to the origins, because you can interpret a story that is more exciting than the rich generation. It is not a one-stop fairy tale. It contains the will, courage, and persistence.At leastThe Internet industry is more rewarding than traditional industries, such as coal and electric power, as long as you are willing to learn, beat a line of code, and patiently debug it!