The necessity of active listening: Read "Just listen"-Leo jianshu 25

A friend recently became a manager and complained to me: "employees are so grateful. I took the initiative to contact the lecturers for training over the weekend and offered them various opportunities to attend the conference. But they said they took private time and didn't want to go. I'm so disappointed !" In the final analysis, this is a communication problem. A friend should look at "Just listen" and learn to listen to the voice of his subordinates attentively, rather than just his ears; learn to actively communicate, rather than strong communication-maybe subordinates are not interested in using their spare time to learn this; this is also true in life, and their parents say they are used to "you must listen to me, because this is for you!" I think it is true, and children may not need it. Many parents did not learn to "listen "! The ancients said that "you do not want to give yourself to others." In fact,
"you do not want to give yourself to others. Knowing "people" and then applying it to talents is the right way. We need to learn to listen to the right way.
the book "Just listen" should be summarized in one sentence as "students' empathy and active listening are the inevitable prerequisite for a good life and good work ." The truth may be simple, but it is not easy to do-profound ideas can always find a simple expression, simple truth is very difficult but often difficult to implement, the so-called three-year-old children understand the truth, an 80-year-old man may not be able to do anything. For example, Do not yell at people who love us. Someone will jump out and say, "They make me angry at that moment! I have no patience !" Maybe those who love us will not leave us, but will be hurt. This is still a matter of communication. We didn't learn to fully think about it. The book tells the story of a couple who have been married for 30 years to find a way to communicate and usher in a second love affair. This book provides the "communication rules" and "Communication secrets" (which are the subjects of Chapter 2 and Chapter 3 respectively) for the difficulties in reality, and illustrates how the principles should be implemented based on examples. Each section is followed by two parts: "think about it" and "do it". The former allows us to reflect on our own shortcomings, the latter allows us to consider how to effectively apply the content in the book to practice.
the author has over 30 years of experience in related fields. Many foreign masters are recommended in the preface (although I know few ), the more important part of this book is the author's experience summary and refinement, or the teaching materials of his communication courses. It is absolutely rare to write such vivid domestic teaching materials. The more than 0.2 million words are divided into four chapters, which are very suitable for reading habits. It is more reasonable than some domestic authors with 0.2 million words and 40 chapters. The logical structure of the book is particularly worth learning from.
the conch on the album art reminds us to always listen!

Leo Zhang dazhi