The quest to be stopped by failure is a weak pursuit.

A group of psychologists in the United States have done a genius experiment, they went to a primary school to find talent, in advance to ask students to inform parents to school, to test whether the child is a genius.

On the day of the experiment, the psychologist sent the papers down for half an hour and then went to the teacher's lounge to change the papers. As a result, the professors did not sit down and change the papers carefully, but just sat there smoking tea and chatting, as if they had forgotten the existence of the examination papers. Half an hour later, they pulled out five papers from a stack of papers and then went to the anxious parents and students to announce who was a genius. When the fifth place was announced, the parents who had not been announced as geniuses looked at their children with dignity, as if the child had made a big mistake.

20 years later, the psychologists tracked down all the students who had been tested for genius, and the five students who were "gifted" for no reason were significantly stronger than those who were declared not gifted in 20 years. And it was just a compliment that was completely unfounded.

is a sentence to rewrite the fate of these five people, but also rewrite the fate of other people!

To annotate the experiment, there was a girl who practiced ballet from a young age. She wanted to be trained at a formal institution and wanted to know if she had the gift. So when a ballet came to the city where the girl lived, she went to the head of the regiment.

"You danced a dance to me to see." "said the colonel. Five minutes later, the Colonel interrupted the girl and shook her head and said: "No, you don't have this condition." ”

The girl came home Sadly, threw her dancing shoes at the bottom of the tank and never wore them. Later, she married and had children, and became a supermarket attendant.

A few years later, she went to see a ballet performance and met the head of the theatre. I remembered the conversation and talked about my life. She said: "One thing I still don't understand, how do you know so quickly that I am not a dancer's talent?" ”

"Oh, I barely saw you dancing, I just told you what everyone else would say." ”

"This is really unforgivable!" "This sentence of yours ruined my life, and I could have been the best dancer!" she cried. ”

"I don't think so," the Colonel retorted, "If you really want to be a dancer, you won't care what I say to you." ”

Everyone's birth is a result of fierce fighting and standing out from the billions of competitors. In this sense, everyone is a leader, everyone has a broad road and unlimited possibilities. But why some people go the wider, the dream is bigger, and some people are gradually cornered, despair? Of course, there are a variety of practical constraints, there are countless blows, setbacks and tests and other reasons, but when you put all this blame external environment, and complaining, sigh God injustice, you have ever thought: oneself for the dream to do how to stick? How much effort does this make?

Zhou Guoping said: "The pursuit of failure to prevent is a weak pursuit, it exposes the limited power, the pursuit of success can be stopped is a shallow pursuit, it proves that the goal is limited." "Yes, no one can kill your dreams, nor do you have any power to hinder your stride, unless you give up and surrender willingly."

The quest to be stopped by failure is a weak pursuit.