Thoughts after listening

Zi Yue: Do not know people, do not know people

Confucius said: "Don't worry that others don't know yourself, just worry that you don't know others ". Sometimes, if you are always worried that others do not know yourself, you will talk a lot and do a lot of things, and the results will always be counterproductive. Masters are always lonely. Just like Marquez's "Hundred Years of loneliness", this is not alone. Experts may not talk much about it, but think much about it. They can grasp the key points of the main contradiction in doing things accurately.

I am worried that others do not know myself and say a lot about it. If we say that the quality is very high, we should talk differently. On the contrary, if it is all nonsense, as my boss told me, we should think about it and talk about it again, no one can quickly reply to others' questions. Too much nonsense and cannot grasp the key. It may represent an impetuous mentality. The calm old man, the so-called master, not only embodies the charm of the language, may tell us through facts. At this time, the only thing we do is to listen!

Listening is a way to understand others, and it also means a kind of respect. Theoretically, it is very simple. In the actual operation process, there will be errors with different ports. All, you must warn yourself to use your own hearing first, and then use the function of your language organ.

Well, the philosopher said: "speed is not up to speed". do not violate the rules. After listening, we need three provinces, just as Confucius: "You can see the sages, but you can also see your inner province ". It is actually thinking. We need to constantly analyze ourselves. This is a personal task. We don't want others to dissect you. A friend told us two days ago that he was confused and hoped someone would tell him what to do, I told him to beg for help.

It is really important to give yourself some space and reflect on yourself. Come on!