Torture is a different kind of gift (for people struggling in the IT industry)

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It seems that everyone will encounter such a person in their lifetime: He is always difficult for you, everywhere to embarrass you, constantly deny you, picky you. In front of him you will feel uncomfortable and you may resent him: why do you always torment me? Why do you always have a hard time with me? However, in his demanding, you also unknowingly grow, become more excellent, if not they, you may become lazy, slack, and ultimately away from success. If we look at the long-term, from the perspective of the whole of life, those who torment you are precisely the people who make you.

When butterflies are still larvae, they live in a cocoon that is very small in the exit. To break out of the cocoon, it must pass through the small export, the process requires it to do its best, many larvae lost their lives, did not become a beautiful butterfly. Some people think that the butterfly is too pitiful, why not make the exit of the cocoon bigger, so that the larvae do not have to suffer that kind of torture. So they used scissors to cut the cocoon on the export, the larvae can easily come out from the cocoon, but they have lost the ability to fly, can only drag a pair of wings on the ground awkwardly crawling. Originally, the small export is to help the butterfly larva growth of the key wings, only after the export of the squeeze, the wings can be smooth congestion, the larvae can become a flying butterfly wings. Artificially cut the cocoon on the export, butterfly wings lost the chance of congestion, will never fly. This is the saddest thing for butterflies.

In fact, like butterflies, but also to experience the process of breaking the cocoon, only in this way, can increase the toughness and thickness of life. So, if you meet the people who torture you or torture you, do not complain, do not flinch, these are your opportunities to grow, is the only way to success. If life is smooth, it may be like those who get the "help" of the butterfly, shrinking wings, unable to fly.

Remember when I was in high school, there is a very strict teacher, almost every question will ask me, other students can not answer the time, he will be very gentle to say "sit down", if I can not answer, he will let me stand there until the end of class. As for my homework, if there is any mistake, he must let me correct it and then take it to his office and see it again.

At that time we live on campus, night Lights out after the students are not allowed to chat, but the teenage child is lively, we often secretly chat. This is not a serious matter, many students have been caught by the teacher, but many is to say "go to sleep" on the past. I've been caught once, but things are not that simple. The teacher first punished me to write a review, and then asked me to invite parents to school. At that time I was very unconvinced, think this teacher must be with me have revenge, just so deliberately difficult for me, torture me.

When I grew up, I realized that this kind of harshness was actually a preference for me. It is because of this strict, I can get better grades, to enter the ideal university. It can be said that without this teacher, my fate may have to rewrite. I will always be grateful to him. In the journey of life, if the road is always flat, smooth sailing, you may feel comfortable and easy, but also lose the opportunity to experience, you can see the scenery may be dull, if you have experienced some rough, may feel pain and tangled, but these will become your life valuable wealth, will be an important asset in your future success.

Luo Roland once said: "Only to complain about others and the mood of the environment into the power of progress, is the guarantee of success." "Indeed, only to thank those who have tortured their own people or things, we will understand the meaning behind the torture, to the peace of mind to work hard to learn, and thus make a difference."

No wonder some people say: "After some setbacks, a long experience, a smooth circumstance, add a tolerance." ”

Torture is a compulsory course of life, only the people who have read this university will pursue success and happiness in the end, because they know the taste of it, so they are most eager to get rid of this feeling.

Voltaire, the French Enlightenment thinker, said: "Life is full of thorns, and the only way we know it is to tread swiftly through those thorns." ”

This article from "Tangjilinux" blog, declined reprint!

Torture is a different kind of gift (for people struggling in the IT industry)