Do not fight vindictive, I have been reminding myself repeatedly

　　 http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/6918.html "style =" line-height: 1.6; "> At work , we are surrounded by all kinds of non-encircling; in the office, we are likely to become Others gossip topic; in front of the boss , we are frightened and cautious; hard to boil until six o'clock in the evening, but also be endless endless overtime attack ...

The same scene, staged again and again; the same encounter, over and over again; the same helplessness, numerous times to be talked about; the same anger, how can we vent ...

These days, read the post about the office, but also saw the raindrops for money, helpless persist in the post, in the emotion of how a living person at the same time, but also gave some insights. In order to succeed, in order to buy a house to buy a car, in order to earn money to support their families, to live better, in order to give their parents to support their old age, in order ... ... All of this, after all, not all is a "money" word !

In work, we will meet unhappy. Why are you unhappy? Scolded by the boss, I feel uncomfortable; my salary is lower than others, I feel unfair; colleagues do not get along well, feel crowded; Endless overtime every day, feel too wronged ... Too many reasons for happiness, a closer look, but the basic are some vindictive psychology at play.

People live breath, so some people say: I do not bow for five meters, this broken job, I quit! However, your departure will be able to preserve your personality on the ice and jade it? Some people say: I can not understand In the company of intrigues, this broken job, I quit! However, your behavior for justice can go in exchange for the respect of others do? Some people say: Why he 8000 per month, I will every month 4000, this is not fair, this broken job, I quit. However, your departure will bring you higher income, more wealth? So, I said, people in the workplace will inevitably involuntarily, those of our gas, good-natured, good-natured, Have to converge, the workplace is not a vindictive place, after all.

Why does it mean "fighting money does not mean to vindictiveness" because the most fundamental purpose of our work is still for a financial word. Someone will ask: I am going to have a better experience, not for the sake of money so vulgar. So, I ask you, what you have to do to experience, not for the next job can have a better income. Moreover, this pursuit of behavior, but also for money, but this is an intangible capital only.

Do not fight vindictiveness, all those who have the gas may wish to make money as the highest guide, will be placed under the interests of gas, and thus take it lightly. Such people, is the ultimate winner in the workplace.

The ancients have the "good fortune" statement. Not only applies to business ventures, but also applies to the management of your relationships. In the workplace Sutra, I wrote a sentence: "Good connections can help you prosperous," which is the usefulness of harmony.

At work, everyone will have a bad time, me too. However, most of the time, I will choose to indifferent and tolerant attitude to come. As the saying goes, "soft can just K", when their mentality can become calm, treat anything less critical, but more inclusive. Of course, people are not saints, what can be no gas? We may wish to transfer these periods into the life, some minor vindictive life is not harmful, will not break your "money way."