The farthest distance in the world, is we sit together, you are playing mobile phone

On the internet you can often hear the phrase "the furthest distance in the world is when we sit together and you are playing with your mobile phone." ”。 Spring Festival is a rare opportunity for family reunion. But it can be found that at the table today, most of the young people only to play their own mobile phones, the elderly to wait until the children are back, family reunion, but found that children rarely communicate with them, they are only playing mobile phones. In Qingdao, there has been such a scene: In the face of the grandson of the mobile phone, the elderly rage, fell off the plate and went.

The various emotional crises triggered by mobile phones have never stopped. What we should reflect on is that, while enjoying the convenience of mobile phones, is it too reliant on mobile phones to ignore the reality of interpersonal relationships? Recently, the China Youth Daily Social Research center through the survey network and public opinion of China Network, 12,098 respondents to the survey showed that 71.8% of the respondents People think that it is ubiquitous to rely too much on mobile phones and ignore face-to-face communication.

More than half of respondents, in addition to phone calls and send and receive text messages, the average daily use of mobile phones in more than 1 hours

"Can you take your attention away from your cell phone and lend me some?" After a friend has suggested or even got angry, Zhang Jia, a junior student at Wuhan University, began to rethink his "annoying" behavior.

The survey showed that 36.8% of people have heard the phone ring, 36.4% of people said the phone never leave the hand, 30.2% of people say often aimlessly to the mobile phone, 24% people have heard "stop playing mobile phone" similar advice.

Now, the function of the handset has already overflowed the pure communication meaning, becomes an omnipotent terminal. Research shows that the Internet has become an important function of mobile phones, including: Browsing the Web page (56.7%), Internet chat (41.4%), Brush Weibo (25.9%), search (29.3%) and so on. Other: Playing games (34.6%), reading novels (34.2%), listening to songs (33.4%), watching Mobile newspaper (19.5%), watching video (17.7%) and so on.

According to the survey, 57.1% of respondents in addition to phone calls and text messages, the average daily use of mobile phone more than 1 hours, which use mobile phone 3 hours or more 19.6%.

"Sometimes I wonder if I should go to a shrink," he said. Zhang Jia recalls his day: 7 o'clock in the morning wakes up, brushes in bed for half an hour micro Bo, with mobile phone music to get up, wash, in class, as long as the hand is free to pick up the mobile phone, not to mention the class. Other times, the phone will never leave the body, on average 5 minutes to open to see, for fear of missing anything.

Why do people use mobile phones more and more frequently? 65.2% of the people said it is convenient and fast, 64.1% of people say that the mobile phone function is more and more comprehensive, 64% people think is the life needs, 36.5% of the people are blunt modern life monotonous, inner emptiness.

Liu Shuqing, a national two-level psychologist, said in an interview with the Chinese youth Daily that the mobile phone as an information channel is the product of the Times. With the emergence of a large amount of information, we increasingly want to know their own information related to changes in order to timely response. The fear of being abandoned by a rapidly changing modern society creates a sense of anxiety that must be temporarily appeased by the brain's incessant movement and search, causing excessive reliance on the phone.

"' Can't live in the present ' is a common problem for modern people, high-tech means to provide a ' not at this moment ' approach. "The more people rely on this high-tech means, the easier it is to create alienation between people," Liu Shuqing said.

55.7% of people think that over-reliance on mobile phones will make the real communication ability worse

Chedin, an enterprise worker in Sichuan province, talked about his colleague Xiao Zhang. Xiao Zhang is diligent and honest, but the overall evaluation of his work is not gregarious. "He was idle to play with his mobile phone and never talk to others." Once, he forgot to bring his cell phone, and the result was a day. He is really isolating himself. "Chedin said.

When it comes to the dangers of "mobile dependency", the survey shows that 55.7% of people think it will make people's real communication ability worse, 46.1% think it will narrow the circle of life, 29.9% of people say they will fall into deeper loneliness.

"Over-reliance on mobile phones is an addiction that feeds people's laziness. Rose, a professor of social psychology at Wuhan University, says mobile Reliance is only a microcosm of modern high-tech dependence. Now, the car family walk a few steps feel tired, this will affect people's health.

In the survey, 57.1% said cell phone dependence could affect eyesight, and 52.3% thought it would be detrimental to physical health. 41.1% of people further point out that cell phone dependence can cause loss of thinking power and ability, and 35.7% of people think it will cause attention deficit.

"If the opponent machine and other electronic products too rely on, small will cause a feeling of loneliness, big will affect work learning." In particular, some minors, it is easy to indulge in the unreal world, will produce a ' self-centered ' consciousness and a strong sense of loneliness, which is very detrimental to their future growth, will hinder their integration into society. "Public opinion China net Netizen Liu said.

Let the phone return to the tool nature

When do people usually take out their cell phones? The survey shows that the first is "call, send and receive messages" (57.8%), followed by "boring" (54.1%), the third is "waiting for people or waiting for a bus" (46.7%). 13.2% of people take out their mobile phones at a lot of people's gatherings, and 17.5% take out their phones during meetings or classes.

"Mobile phone is a tool, life and work can not be separated." Mobile phone is also a toy, can eliminate loneliness and boredom. But nothing can be too much. Everything is in Split, see how you use it! " A public opinion Chinese net netizen leaves a message.

Psychological analysis of South China Normal University Dr. Chen Zanlui said that the Chinese people's feelings are more introverted, not very good at direct face-to-face expression. and mobile internet to identity, make the expression of emotion more unimpeded. But whether it is network communication or cell phone communication have limitations, because these ways shielding the expression information, intonation information. Too much attention to "man-machine dialogue", to some extent, ignores the reality of interpersonal communication. Chen Zanlui thinks, we usually still should put down the mobile phone more, leave the computer, go to the outdoors more and more, communicate with friends, find some interesting things to do, do not let oneself indulge in electronic products, mobile phone and computer generation dependence.

Liu Shuqing suggested that the "mobile family", set a shutdown time to force themselves back into a state of peace, the role of attention, "This will ensure that you at this moment, focus on the work at hand." ”

"The key to solving the problem is to cultivate the willpower of self-control and the temptation to be a slave." Rose.