The ideal and the reality of their own

For things that haven't been done, we can imagine how we would do it, or overestimate it or underestimate it, and it's not easy.

Yesterday because of a small matter, I and my boyfriend (we have been betrothed).

Analyze it from the angle of me and him separately.

From my point of view, the first boyfriend brought a bowl of preserved egg meat porridge (boyfriend himself) to me, up before the pot asked how the taste (it is estimated that the taste is not what I want, because in the cooking porridge when the smell of meat), he told me that a bit light. When my mouth together in the past when found porridge is very hot, think of eating mustard, so I let my boyfriend help me to buy mustard. The next boyfriend's first reaction is to buy now, let me do it.

So I heard a little unhappy, in order to show that I really want to eat mustard, and shoes are not convenient to walk around, I put out the bowl. This time my boyfriend took me no way, he can only for me to buy, before he went to buy, I temporarily let him buy me a bag of kelp silk (in the supermarket will see but did not buy, for a long time did not eat, do not know how the taste). When the boyfriend came back, he brought back a bag of mustard and a bag of kelp silk. I said, "Let me finish a bag of my own." "He said yes." I didn't say anything. But this kelp silk is really very hot, eat a few bites can not stand.

Then to slow down, I hold my breath, mouth does not move, simply let the spicy sex has been played, in the process of waiting, the boyfriend and I talk, asked me how, asked me if I was hot, asked if you want to drink water, and then he brought a glass to me, I drink when it seems better. Kelp silk is too spicy, eat a few bites to stop. He in order to cherish me, he took the rest of the kelp silk has passed, at first is unwilling to give him, in the heart of full fire, do not want to ignore him, also do not want him to do anything for me, and finally in his strong request to him. After getting the kelp silk, he said: "Let you give me, why not give me." "Actually think now, to this side of my gas can also be eliminated, but yesterday is not done."

From his point of view, he would judge my thoughts from the superficial language and movements. First came to eat when I remembered to eat mustard, and let him go out to buy, he may be reluctant. Second, he saw me push the bowl of the action, he also angry. In contrast to the same moment above, the egg meat porridge is the boyfriend's heart to burn out, if praise boyfriend's cooking, so he may be happy. Buy back after he said let me eat all the kelp silk, but when I eat a few of the kelp silk spicy to no time, take up the mustard to eat, he said the first to eat kelp silk before you can. At that time my mouth ignored him to continue to eat mustard, he saw this shape took mustard.

In this way, our awkward arose, at the beginning may just be an inappropriate little wish of mine, coupled with the reluctance to explain more, so I have an opinion of him, do not want to talk to him, do not want to ignore him.

In fact, yesterday during the day, I was thinking of my temper, tell myself everything to and for expensive. But in the evening time for such oneself, can not help but let me sigh ideal and reality gap AH. Fortunately, later, when he took me out, I closed my eyes and meditated how we could do this for trivial things, worth it, and a little peace and love in my heart.

On the way to good intimacy, each of us needs to make an effort, I want to do my part and remind him of that part when necessary.