A mature relationship must go through four stages

A psychologist once wrote that a mature love affair must go through four stages: counterdependent (independent) symbiosis (interdependent) the time required for switching between stages is not necessarily time-consuming.

Stage 1: coexistence. This is a time of hot love. Whenever and wherever lovers are, they always hope to get together.
Stage 2: Anti-dependency. When the emotions are stable, at least one Party wants to have more time to do what they want. Then the other party will feel cold.
Stage 3: Independent. This is a continuation of the second stage and requires more independent time.
Stage 4: symbiosis. At this time, the new way of getting along has taken shape. You (you) he (she) has become the closest person to you (you. Together, you support each other and create your own life together. Together, you will not be tied to each other, but grow together. However, it is a pity that most people fail to break up in the second or third stage. A lot of things will be okay if they communicate well. Don't be personal or think too much about mutual trust. In this way, the second and third stages of time will be shortened. It is not easy to fall in love with the person you love. Don't give up. The reason for the two to get together is that they have an affinity and mutual knowledge is because they have a heart. They really have to cherish this blessing and do not say that breaking up is not impossible. I hope to see the above four stages, we can give you some inspiration and understanding, and gradually turn into people we love. You and him are not the same. They are not similar in appearance, and have a similar personality. Once you fall in love with him, you will be surprised that your eyes are a bit like his eyes, his smile is also a bit like yours. The pace and tone of your speech are also similar. There was a mole in his neck. One day, you found that there was another mole in your neck. We would have become our loved ones. You would have liked a down-to-earth person, but he has always been a lightweight person. But if you fall in love with him, he will become an honest person without knowing how to change his mind. He liked lively girls, but fell in love with you. These days, you have become more and more lively, and you almost couldn't recognize yourself. We will gradually become the ideal person of the other Party. This change is definitely not deliberate. Two people love each other for a long time, and their temperament is getting closer and closer. You thought he was not the type you dreamed of. However, one day, you were surprised to find that he has become the type you liked, you don't have to look around. He's the one you're looking. When you love someone deeply, you will lose yourself at 1.1. Why do you still feel happy? This is probably because you are making a profit when you lose it. You have earned both his temperament and his smile .. happiness is simple... therefore, it is easy to obtain simple talents ..... share with my dear friends