Green Internet is urgent, parents how to do the child cell phone control?

How easy is it for a child to access XXX information now?

The internet has been an indispensable part of their lives for the children of the internet age. "Everything on the Internet, online search", has been their first reaction.

Recently, the gray box received feedback from a parent:

Two days ago I caught my son actually watching xxx video, I really want more and more angry, my son this year is only 13 years old. The day before yesterday, my father and I had to deal with something, because it rained, go home to get an umbrella. When I got home, I saw my son watching xxx videos on the couch, and the action was a bit unsightly. The more I wanted to get angry, his father rushed up and threw the computer on the ground. I am angry want to cry, small age, son usually special good, how to see this kind of thing, he may also be frightened, into the house will not come out. His father at the door scolded: The recent decline in performance because of these things, to let me find again, I put your eye beads buckle. Are these things you should see? Do not know shame ...

I knew his father was talking angry words, but I really didn't know what to do. I am afraid this will affect the child's physical and mental health, what is the more appropriate way to deal with it? Is it useful to install green Internet filtering software? ”

In fact, in families with adolescent children, the parents ' situation is very common. Due to the development of the Internet, children now access to the network more and more, the flooding of xxx information (xxx patch ads, xxx Web pop-up windows, jittery XXX website news, etc.) will lead to child misuse, so that children access to the XXX content. At the same time, if the child wants to search, the network of XXX resources can easily be searched. and affected by the current living environment (children spread about "sex" things), children are likely to sprout to search for XXX movies, novels and other content ideas.

So, children browse XXX information, what should parents do?

Experts say inappropriate treatment methods will lead to a child's sexual sense of shame, so parents should be cautious to deal with this problem.

1. It is not emotional proven itself to find this situation first.
Parents are too emotional, and inappropriate treatment may lead to confusion, anxiety and sexual feelings of shame. After both sides have calmed down, you can talk to the children about the heart, listen to their thoughts on the problem, more exchanges, less criticism, if necessary, can also buy a regular publishing house published sex education picture book, and children study together.
2. Can't turn a blind eye
Many parents in this situation, may feel embarrassed, so choose to silence, avoid. This is a way of making children suspicious. By the parents caught up with their own behavior, parents but say, the children will guess how the parents will punish themselves and whether it is right or wrong, so worried, careless learning.
3. Let your child read articles and books about sex
If parents are embarrassed to open a direct sex education, in the case of children can read independently, can let children read related articles or books, let children understand the "sexual safety", "sexual health" knowledge, so as to protect themselves, and responsible for their actions.
4. Installation of secure Internet access software
This software can intercept bad page pop-up and insertion from the page, such as green Internet butler Gray box recently added PC yellow interception function, can monitor the screen in real time, in the monitoring of suspected XXX pictures or videos, will be the first time to notify parents; after the child has a criminal record, the parents can also open the strict management mode, Strict management mode the gray box not only actively intercept, lock the screen, but also notify parents and parents decide whether to unlock immediately.

NET interception, a key control, with the children's green access to the magic weapon, and gently give children a green and safe internet environment, parents no longer need to control children's ideas to try to fight with children guerrilla warfare.

Conclusion: Educating children is a big event, should be sparse should not gamble, face the problem, the front guide the child will be better! I hope that every parent can properly handle this matter, especially the parents of adolescent children, do not create a gap between children, to know that at this time the children need to communicate and guide yo.

Green Internet is urgent, parents how to do the child cell phone control?