Article Mai Yili interview: We have a good life (figure)

The article Yili and the article Mai Yili several years ago "struggles" time, many people began to understand the article, or said still did not call his name, only knew this big boy called "southward".　　Later, the Big Boy and Jet Li in the "Ocean Paradise", but still a pair of not grow up. As a big boy, it's not surprising to do something shocking. So, we knew he had the guts to marry his 8-year-old Yili, and then he had children. Then, we suddenly found that this married man has become a pure men-during the Spring Festival, an adaptation of the network novel "special War Pioneer" TV series "Snow Leopard" has become a popular object of many viewers. Following in the "struggle" "dwelling" and other urban rich flavor of the hot play has been wonderful performance, the first time in the play in the military uniform starred in a soldier, and won the audience and netizens alike. But the article is not particularly clear, because after a year he went to the "Naked Marriage era", and even forget the Valentine's Day. That day, someone asked him, "How are you today?" The article was also surprised: "Why do you ask?" What's the difference? "Today is Valentine's Day," the journalist reminded him.　　Said "Only own past, the wife and children all went to Shanghai." "Living in a Twin Cities" has been a wrap, Yili is temporarily in a state of rest. Drama, Yili and the true "Twin Cities of Life" is also in progress.　　Valentine's Day, the article in Beijing filming "Naked Marriage Era", Yili in Shanghai with his daughter, asked the article Valentine's Day to send what gift to his wife, the article smiled and said "she wants to send what", as for the MAI Yili the gift is what, she smiled and said, or pay attention to micro-blog bar. Article I am smart Yili is the great Wisdom Nanfang daily: The recent filming of the "Naked marriage era" seems to be the topic is very attractive, how do you treat the naked marriage attitude?　　How did you get the part? Article: "Dwelling", Teng told me that Beckham is his idea of a man, I played after the discovery was cheated, because the female audience all like siming, the male audience are very sympathetic to Beckham. So this time he came to "repay" me, it is said that this time the role must be a female audience, the role must be successful, so I came. As for the naked marriage, I know what the naked marriage means, no car, no room, no diamond ring, nothing.　　I personally do not agree with this behavior, love can be impulsive, marriage is not, marriage means responsibility.　　Nanfang Daily: According to your previous screen image, it is difficult to imagine you will receive the "Snow Leopard" such a military role. Article: Which turn to get I think Ah, is the director of the initiative to find me. In fact, when I received this script, my wife had taken the battle of marriage, the director of Zhaobaogang. So I started I want to push off, but later turned over the script, more and more excited to see, and even looked at to take himself into the, so he talked with the director, also put their own concerns told him, and then the director can not stand me , he ran to Shanghai, personally to talk to Yili, and finally she agreed. Because I explained to her that I was acting in a sense.The big boy who is hurt in love, Snow Leopard is a man's play. From the boy to the man's metamorphosis, not only I hope to get a breakthrough in the role, but also in life want to be more mature.　　So hopefully this role will be interpreted.　　Nanfang Daily: Remember the love years between you and Yili? Article: This ... It feels natural and nothing to say. is to feel special admire oneself is, in fact, I often encountered no money before, but no matter how poor have not looked for Mai Yili money. I graduated from China, there has been a period of time can not be photographed, only 7 dollars a week of living expenses, at that time even not willing to take the bus, afraid of the cost of tickets.　　After filming the struggle, and Yili together, in fact, there is a long time did not work, but even then, also did not let Yili invited me to eat. Nanfang Daily: What do you think of teacher Ma?　　What do you think your similarities and differences are? Article: Teacher Ma, I think the thing we have in common is cleverness. But I am small and intelligent, but she is a man of great wisdom.　　I am actually a very lazy person, especially lazy brain, the most unwilling to think, and MA teacher is the best at this point, this is our differences, so, I think she is more than I live tired.　　Nanfang Daily: Do you think that after getting married and having a child, what has changed before marriage? Article: The concrete is not good to say, character aspect I feel oneself peaceful a lot. began to be a little afraid of death. Go everywhere will think about, hey this building so high, once collapsed how to do? What if I die, my wife and children?　　Presumably because of this concern, resulting in other aspects of personality also began to calm up. Nanfang Daily: It is said that Yili at home is also a shrew?　　As if you were in the defense of marriage, she said, she's at home, and she's a real performance. Article: Ah, we can not engage in marriage defense at home. If it is so, it will not go on. In fact, we don't quarrel at home.　　To say the natural performance, "dwelling" in the Beckham is my true character performance, we met in the home basically to discuss the main, and not mutual interference, especially in a small things, such as what to wear clothes ah, what to buy things like, it is her decision, I admit that my vision is indeed inferior to her.　　Nanfang Daily: After the struggle, is there a chance to see the two of you working together? Article: This can not be said. But in recent years it should not be possible, it is necessary to have a person to stay at home with children, so together out of the shooting may not be big.　　In addition to doing charitable activities.　　Who does the love horse look like? Article: Have nothing to do with her!　　All like me!　　Yili: Love Horse is the same as the article, only a mouthful of awl teeth can see my inheritance, but my daughter and I more pro!　　Who usually takes the child? Article: Our family chapters, can not go out to take a piece, can only have one to go out, the other at home with the child.　　So, we all take love horses. Yili: These two years like chicken blood! DayFilming, "Jingwei World", "The Battle of marriage" and "adolescence hit menopause" are taken in the postpartum, the evening with the daughter, including breastfeeding, coax her to sleep, change diapers ... Many things, although the father can be completed, but the mother is irreplaceable after all.　　And the two-year article in the outside filming more, so the most of the work with children I completed.　　What's Hermès like with mom and dad? Article: Speaking of this I am angry ah, because we are filming the length of time is not the same, these two years I take the daughter's time is relatively little, the result for a long time, the daughter has anything to cry to find a mother.　　However, I am proud that the last few days on TV I played the "Snow Leopard", the daughter pointed to the TV called: Dad, Dad! Yili: The article is very painful to the daughter, but certainly with me more pro. If let her choose "Father hug" or "mother hug", she definitely choose "Mother hug"; if I go out with my girlfriends, love the horse shook his head and waved me off.　　And, in the case of a television or a magazine, Hermès recognized mom in any state. Yili never thought of looking for a younger southern daily before he went through marriage: How did you and the article start?　　Remember early in the year, you and the Tiger ("bullfighting" director) between the feelings of a very high profile. Yili: The earliest ... Is hit, hehe. In the 2005, we worked together "the Guard", when I and he to play, I think his eyes particularly attracted me. It can be said that I have collaborated over the years in the actor, in addition to Huang, the article is the best play.　　After that we started.　　Nanfang Daily: I heard that you two have made the underground love for the struggle. Yili: Also do not calculate underground love, is to deceive Zhaobaogang director just, other people, like Tong greatly, already knew. And he warned us not to let the director know. Then we both thought about it and try not to show it in the play. If shown, the other half of the play will be burdened. I want my personal feelings to be far away from the media and not to be exposed to personal life.　　But then the director knew.　　Nanfang Daily: It is estimated that you have been asked countless times about this question: the idea of sibling love. Yili: Yes, I've talked about it many times, but I've been asked countless times. And younger than their 8-year-old man married with a daughter, I was once as a monster to see, in any interview, do show, will be asked "your husband than you 8 years old", "mother-in-law to you have any views" ... At first I was patient and was taken out of context for a long time, so I chose to shut up. Although I am now a mother of the people, but I still that point of view, love, just find the right person on the line. I never thought of finding a younger one before I went through marriage. Many women experience different emotions, such as older men who are older than their fathers, and others who experience married husbands. But these are the experiences that may be the most appropriate marital emotional state, and the key is whether that person is right. Some of my friends are in love.Like a married man, then he divorced for her, two people's life is particularly good, so that is to touch the people.　　I think the mentality is very important in this circle.　　Nanfang Daily: As if you have kept a low profile from the very beginning, is this the most important pingzhang you have come to this day? Yili: Low-key is necessary ah, I do not want to let so many people know. In fact, until we got the marriage certificate, our brokerage company did not know. Even the parents were under the prohibition of our password, can not disclose half sentence. And we didn't do the wedding, no ceremony, just registered. Because I am an actor, the actor in the process of filming will wear wedding dress, I do not value this ritual. I think marriage is a matter for both of us, we feel very happy is enough, do not need to tell everyone. Also, I particularly see the parents at the wedding of the daughter to the other side of the moment, I think parents very sad, very uncomfortable.　　I do not want my parents to accept this kind of scene, I feel insipid, simple and good, see not sad tears scene.　　Nanfang Daily: There are rumors in the circle that the two of you are married to your son. Yili: It's a bit confusing to pull it off. Because we really are not married to the son. It was a certainty that we decided to get married, and we decided to have a baby. We decided early on the January 31, 2008 Day to register, but two days before the registration, I found out that I was pregnant. But I didn't tell anyone. So this account is a bit muddled. I only remember when I entered the "Lock Spring" cast, the play was robbed in 1.5 months to finish. I always vomit, and someone to laugh at me: "You are not comfortable to go home with your husband Lisp, do not!" "I was so irritable that I deleted all the contacts on the phone and I was so impatient that I didn't want to talk to him," he said.　　Interestingly, after the birth of the child I went completely to another extreme, nothing to do, just want to take care of the children, postpartum depression, a mess, and finally my mother persuaded me back to work. Nanfang Daily: As a star couple, it is difficult to avoid being media rumors that marriage something, Chen Yao years ago divorced.　　I thought you said you were ready for a divorce. Do you think these rumors are going to be a problem for your marital life? Yili: I never said to be ready for a divorce. Life I and the character of the article is not exactly the same, we learn a lot of things, each other to remind each other. I don't think gossip has any effect on me. For outside comments, I think it would be hard to care what people say. And I do not care about other people's claims, I always think that their days too good on the line. And we'll take these rumors as a motive ——— you wait for the show, and we're going to have a good time. (Thematic article: Nanfang Daily reporter Zheng)