A teacher asked a seven-year-old child, "do you like more fathers, or do you like more mothers ?" Of course, this question is very bad. It hurts children to give birth to separation, give birth to evil, and give birth to evil. Children should be very broad-minded, and the results are often misled by our adults. After the teacher asked me, the child said, "I don't like either of them.
A teacher asked a seven-year-old child, "do you like more fathers, or do you like more mothers ?" Of course, this question is very bad. It hurts children to give birth to separation, give birth to evil, and give birth to evil. Children should be very broad-minded, and the results are often misled by our adults. After the teacher asked me, the child said, "I don't like either of them.
A teacher asked a seven-year-old child, "do you like more fathers, or do you like more mothers ?" Of course, this question is very bad. It hurts children to give birth to separation, give birth to evil, and give birth to evil. Children should be very broad-minded, and the results are often misled by our adults. After the teacher asked me, the child did not even think about it. He said, "I don't like either of them. I hate both of them ." The teacher was surprised that his parents were always proud to mention him. "You see my children learn piano so well. You see my children go out to the competition on behalf of the school, and they are among the top ", he is proud of him. However, they have never thought about what their children are thinking and how they feel.
Therefore, adults do not really understand the feelings of their children. Adults only stress the methods they think are good at them. Will a child under such pressure be happy in his life? His life is ill and his thoughts are ill. Even if he received a university diploma from a prestigious university, Will his life be happy?
A third-year-old boy cooked his food for his father. As a result, his father fell to the ground and finally fell to the ground. It wasn't long before his mother died after dinner. Later, when he worshipped his parents, he immediately impatiently poured the worship food into the water ditch. His aunt was surprised to see this scene-the child was not respectful to his parents. Now the child came over and asked his aunt, saying, "Hey, do my parents have insurance ?" When this sentence came out, his aunt suddenly experienced goose bumps and felt that something was wrong. He immediately reported an alarm. The investigation showed that his parents were all poisoned by his own hands. This was done by a 13-year-old child in Sichuan.
Do you know why he killed his parents? He only paid more than 10 thousand yuan in order to get the insurance fee from his parents! The motive is even more frightening to us. The motive is to buy a mobile phone. We heard this case and thought it was the last day. A child killed all his parents to buy a mobile phone! His heart has no meaning, no morality, only desire.
Let's look back and think about the time when the child has such a strong desire for material? From the child desires of the minor education. Who taught? Parent. Nowadays, when most of my parents go to middle age, they will feel that their lives are bitter and busy for most of their lives. The children they teach will make them sleep every day. Therefore, if a person does not understand the truth, his life will really come to an end with a sigh and helplessness.
Let's look at what we use to interact with our children? Material. If you do well in this monthly test, you will take hundreds of ice cream dishes. This is the time of elementary school. When I got into junior high school, if I had a good test, I would be rewarded with a bicycle. What is the motivation for children to study hard? It is not to achieve your own life, but to achieve your own goals. A junior high school student admitted to the high school and said to his mother, "Mom, you should buy me several thousands of famous brand clothes ." His mother said, "Why ?" The child said, "I got into high school and helped my family save tens of thousands of RMB. If I didn't get an exam, my father would go to Zhang Luo and spend a lot of money to help me buy a high school student ." What is in the child's mind? Both desire and money. If a child is pursuing material and money, he does not know how much harm will be done.
I often say to some teachers, "you must teach students well ." Why? In the future, the country and society will be handed over to them. If they have a very bad temper, if they don't even care about others, they will be selfish. When they become pillars of the country, we will be miserable in our later years. Even their parents are not encouraged, let alone their parents. They will say, "If you are old, let them survive ."
Therefore, we are elders, teachers, and elders. We should do our best to teach the next generation, students, and subordinates. Society is a community that is inseparable. When we have this alertness, we must grasp the core of education and never be self-or selfish. This is a dead end.
