Make the "Energy bank" do its utmost to support the ultimate goal of life

Depending on your ultimate goal in life, adjusting the reorganization to supplement your "energy pool", make sure that the "Energy bank" makes every effort to support the ultimate goal of life.

Third, grasp the heart of the Compass Life Center of gravity, that is, the heart of life, the support point of life. Everyone has a focus on life, even if it is not necessarily consciousness, but it still exists.

The focus of life is generally divided into the following categories: • Focus on the spouse; • Focus on the family; • Focus on money; • Focus on the cause; • Take pleasure as the center of gravity; • Focus on the enemy or friends; • Self-centered.

1. Deep reflection, find out the current center of life, and according to the important degree, fill in the "Life Center of gravity system Ring". Example: My current life focus (please fill in):

2. Compare the focus of your life with the above-mentioned ultimate goal, and see if there is any contradiction or inappropriate. Readjust the disposition of the center of Life according to the requirements of the ultimate goal of life.

3. According to the New Life Center configuration (also refer to the ultimate goal of life), write down Your life principles. A principle is a philosophy of life or basic belief. It is the fundamental law of behavior, no matter how the world changes, how difficult the environment, it is feuds. The principles should include self-expectations and basic values. Please write it down:

Four, enjoy a harmonious life, play a variety of roles: parents, children, couples, leaders, subordinates, friends and relatives, colleagues, but also the corresponding responsibility. Therefore, in the pursuit of a successful life process, how to balance the overall situation, it has become the greatest test. Forgotten how, Pound foolish, will lead to the defects of life.

Too many people succeed in their careers, but feel lonely and empty, and after they gain fame, they find that they have sacrificed something more precious. To the high-level dignitaries, down to the rise of the fight Wang, fruit seller, no one is not pursuing more wealth or higher professional status and reputation, but fame and fortune tend to deceive conscience, to make a stand, often need to pay an expensive price ...

Therefore, only by identifying the main role of life can we clearly grasp the overall situation. The richness of life and the uniqueness of the goal is not contradictory, when the president does not mean that no wife and children, do not have friends affection, the goal of the direction of life, the role of the full structure of life.

"Balance" to have real happiness and happiness, "harmony" in order to perfect a plump image to your life goals. For example, a business director of the main role of life description: Husband-My wife is the most important person in my life, we share the joys and sorrows, join hands. Father--I want to help my children experience a fun life. Son and brother--I do not forget the parents, brothers and relatives, at any time to give them a helping hand. Neighbor--I want to treat others with love. Inspiring-I'm going to be the catalyst for the group's excellent performance. Scholar--I seek daily to be a knowledge. ......

Under the guidance of "life goals" and "Principles of Life", you can identify the major roles in your life that you think will be happy, happy, and peaceful (please think in many ways, not forgotten how):

Five, the development of the route of life three levels: first, the current situation and the conditions of analysis and judgment, the second is the future and uncertain factors of the foreseeable grasp; Thirdly, there are ways to connect the present and the future with the goal.

When we have identified the ultimate goal of life, with a new focus on life, to determine the important role of life, we can use the "thinking all day" approach, depicting the general development of life in the main line. This method is very important and simple and practical.

"Life is 70." The 70-year-old deadline for reaching the ultimate goal of life. 70 years old. According to the ultimate goal of your life, the center of Life and the main role, where should you be at that time? What kind of achievements have been made? What are you doing? Who's around? ......

Then, according to Chinese traditional habits (30, 40 and perplexed, 50 and know the Destiny), 10 years as a level, successive push: 70 years old is that, then 60 years old, should be how? What is life like when you are 50 years old? 40 years old, what should I do? 30 years old? ...... Until--today, what to do, how to act?

Please fill in: 70 years old 60 years old 50 years 40 years old 30 years old at present (years) so, we have a life line (goal):

Thus, we can clearly know where to go, how to go is the shortest way? Do you know if you're on the right path halfway? As a result, you will eventually know if you can reach your destination as planned.

However, in real life, although the future is bright, the road is tortuous, but no matter how inscrutable the way forward, like metaphor, back to our main line "site" up. We often say "road". "Tao" is the direction, is the main line, "Road" is the actual movement of the trajectory, the way. Such as:

Road, life trajectory, life direction VI, life goal pyramid

Good goals should make people positive, confident, optimistic, serene, excited and calm, healthy and kind, with good moral sense. Conversely, it is a bad goal, even a "wicked" goal. The ancients said: "For a good, gas cool section; for a poor, God short an inch." "Bad" goal, make people difficult to feel comfortable, how to talk about the inner peace and happiness, at the same time unjust, success is also the opposite. Therefore, every clear goal must be judged from a "positive" point of view.

The approach is to ask yourself every goal:

1. Is this really my goal? Am I really keen?

2. Is this objective a violation of conscience? Is it fair to other stakeholders? Is it beggar?

3. Does it contradict and conflict with other objectives?

4. Am I willing to devote myself wholeheartedly?

5. Can you imagine a situation where this goal is achieved?

The answers to the above five questions must be positive. Otherwise, this goal needs to be amended or even deleted. And then ask yourself:

1. Will it make me happier to achieve this goal?

2. Will achieving this goal make me healthier?

3. Will achieving this goal make me richer?

4. Will reaching this goal make me more friends?

5. Will it make me feel peaceful to achieve this goal?

6. Will it make me feel more secure to achieve this goal?

7. Will achieving this goal make me happier with others?

If one of the answers to the above 7 questions is negative, then the goal should be reconsidered.

Make the "Energy bank" do its utmost to support the ultimate goal of life