) 18 foxes, 18 mentality

There is an old story at the beginning: in a farmer's orchard, purple grapes are full of branches, which are mouth-watering. Of course, this kind of delicious food cannot escape from the nearby foxes, they have long wanted to enjoy it.

The first fox came to the grape shelf and found it was much higher than its height. It stood down and thought about it. It was a rare opportunity to give up! After thinking for a while, it found the ladder next to the grape frame, recalling that the farmer had used it. Therefore, it also learned how the farmer climbed up and picked the grapes smoothly.

(This Fox uses a solution to the problem. It directly faces the problem without escaping and finally solves the problem .)
The second fox came to the grape frame and found that it was unable to eat grapes for a lifetime. Therefore, he thought that the grape must be sour, and it is hard to eat it. It is better not to eat it. So it leaves happily.

(This Fox uses the "sour grape effect" that is often mentioned in psychology. It can also be referred to as the decorative effect or rational explanation, that is, to explain the failure to achieve self-goal on the grounds that individual needs can be met .)
The third fox came to the grape frame. It had just read "How steel is made" and was deeply touched by the spirit of the hero. It was not discouraged to see the high grape frame. It thought: I can jump up, as long as I work hard, I will be able to get it. The belief that "there is a will to succeed" is supporting it, but it is counterproductive. It is jumping lower and lower, and finally exhausted under the shelf of a grape and devoted itself to fertilizer.

(This fox behavior is known as "stubborn" in psychology, that is, repeating some ineffective behavior repeatedly. Sometimes we call it obsessive-compulsive disorder. It shows that not the best solution for anything is to solve the problem, depending on your own capabilities, the current environment and other factors .)
The fourth fox came to the grape shelf. When he saw that the grape shelf was higher than himself, his desire was lost, and he began to scold him and bite the vine he could get. He was discovered by the farmer, and he shot it dead.

(The behavior of this fox is called an attack. This is an undesirable way to cope with it. It is harmful and beneficial to others .)
The fifth fox came to the grape shelf. As soon as he saw that his height was so small, he cried sadly. Why is it so sad that he is so short that if he is like an elephant, does he eat what he wants? It is sad why the grape frame is so high, and I waited for a year, I thought I could eat, I did not expect this is the result.

(The performance of this fox is psychologically referred to as "regressing", that is, when an individual encounters setbacks, his/her personality develops from a relatively high stage to a relatively low stage of his/her personality development .)

The sixth fox came to the shelf and looked up at it. He thought that since I could not eat the grapes, other foxes would certainly not. If so, I don't have any regrets. Everyone is the same.

(This fox behavior is called "projection" in psychology, that is, assigning his desires and motivations to others and asserted that others have such motives and desires, these things are often beyond their own capabilities .)

The seventh fox came to the grape shelf, standing under the tall grape shelf, in a bad mood. He wondered why I couldn't eat it. Why is my fate so miserable, the desire to eat a grape is not enough. Why is my luck so bad? The more you think about it, the more depressed it is.

(This Fox shows the performance of "depression", that is, persistent depression is a feature of neurological disorder .)
The eighth fox came to the grape shelf. He tried to jump up to reach the grape but failed. He tried to stop thinking about the grape, but he couldn't resist it, it also tried some other methods and did not work. It heard that other foxes were in a bad mood when they got grapes. Finally, it crashed into a grape frame.

(This fox ends up due to its unbalanced psychology. In real life, we often encounter a similar phenomenon of "no problem, no problem. When compared with others, many people choose an inappropriate way to cope with their psychological imbalance .)
The ninth fox came to the grape shelf, and it was also unable to reach the grape. He thought to himself, "the smell of lemons seems to be similar to that of grapes. Since I can't eat grapes, why don't I taste lemons? I can't hang on a tree! Therefore, it left with satisfaction to look for lemons.

(In psychology, this fox behavior is called "substitution", that is, replacing an unfulfilled desire in a way that you can achieve .)
The tenth fox came to the grape shelf and saw the gap between his ability and the high grape shelf. He realized that it was impossible to get the grape at the current level and ability, therefore, it decided to use the time to power itself off, and offered a postgraduate course to study grape-picking technology. In the end, of course, it was expected.

(This fox adopts a problem-oriented response strategy. It can correctly analyze the relationship and nature of itself and the problem, and find the best solution. It is a better way to deal with the problem .)
When 11th foxes came to the shelf, they also faced the same problems. He turned his eyes and cheated several companions. Then, while they did not pay attention, he used a shovel to faint them, stack them together, and step on the body of his companions, get the expected grapes.

(Although the fox finally solved the problem, it was resolved on the basis of harming the interests of others. This approach is not advisable .)
12th foxes came to the grape frame. This is a pretty fox lady. It thinks that a weak woman cannot reach the grape in any way. Why don't I use the power of others? Therefore, he finds a boyfriend. The fox gave the best gift to miss fox with the help of a ladder.

(This is known as the compensation principle in psychology, that is, to make up for your own shortcomings by taking advantage of your own advantages or others' advantages. This method is also a good method in some situations .)

13th foxes came to the grape shelf, and they were very dissatisfied with the height of the grape shelf, which made it unable to taste the sweet grape, so it blamed the vine. Because the vines are too high and too high to climb, the grape's heart is actually not as beautiful as it looks. After venting, it left calmly

(This fox behavior can be called "offset" in psychology, that is, to offset or resist a person's true feelings by engaging in a symbolic activity .)

14th foxes came to the grape shelf and found that they could not eat the grapes they had longed for long. They watched the rotten grapes and other foxes watching the rest of the skins on the ground, as a vomit, the mouth said: "It's disgusting. Who can eat these things ".

(In psychology, this fox behavior is called a "reverse effect", that is, a psychological defense mechanism with completely opposite behaviors and motivations .)

When 15th foxes came to the shelf, they were neither arrogant nor persistently jumping up. Instead, they lamented that beautiful things were always so far away from us, let yourself have a bit of fantasies and what's wrong? As a result, a collection of poems was born.

(This fox behavior is called a "substitution effect" in psychology, that is, replacing another kind of spiritual catharsis with one kind of spiritual catharsis .)
16th foxes came to the grape shelf. It found that the desire to eat grapes could not be fulfilled, and soon it had a stomachache and indigestion. The fox has never understood how the problem occurs in the digestive system because he has always been paying attention to his diet.

(This fox occurs in psychology. We can call it "conversion", that is, an individual converts psychological pain into physical disease .)
17th foxes came to the shelf and found the same problem. He gave a grin and said, "What's amazing about this? We have already eaten some of our Foxes. Who said that only monkeys can eat fruit? The same is true for foxes !"

(This Fox shows his words and deeds as a kind of emotional response. In psychology, we can call it "playing the same role", that is, when the self-value is lower than the value of others, find people related to yourself to realize self-worth .)

18th foxes came to the grape shelf and thought, I could not eat the grapes myself, and other foxes could not eat the grapes. Why don't we learn the cooperative spirit of the monkey and the moon? The previous monkey made a month, and the current Fox picked grapes. It may be a great success! So it mobilized all the foxes who wanted to eat grapes to cooperate and build a fox ladder so that everyone could eat sweet grapes.

(This fox adopts a problem-oriented response. It understands the principles of cooperation and the final result is beneficial to both itself and everyone .)

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