27 stories that must be viewed in life

1. The dilemma is to give
2. Success is not as hard as you think
In 1965, a Korean student majored in psychology at Cambridge University. During afternoon tea, he often goes to the school cafe or teahouse to chat with some successful people. The successful figures include the Nobel Prize winners, academic authority in some fields, and those who have created economic mythology. These people are humorous and cool, it is natural and logical to see all your successes. After a long time, he found that he was cheated by some successful people in China. In order to let those who are starting a business know the difficulties, they generally exaggerate their entrepreneurial hardships. That is to say, they are using their successful experiences to scare those who have not yet succeeded.

As a psychology student, he believes it is necessary to study the mentality of successful Korean people. In 1970, he took "Success is not as difficult as you think" as his graduation thesis and submitted it to Professor welden, the founder of modern economic psychology. Professor breden was pleasantly surprised to hear that it was a new discovery. Although this phenomenon exists in the East and even around the world, no one has proposed it and studied it before. In addition to the surprise, he wrote a letter to his Cambridge alumnus, Park zhengxi, who was sitting in the first chair in South Korean political arena. He said in his letter, "I dare not say how much help this book has for you, but I am sure it can shake you any other command ."

Later, this book was accompanied by the departure of South Korea's economy. This book inspires many people, because they tell people from a new perspective that success and "work their bones and muscles, starve their bodies", "three more lights, five more chickens", "head suspension, there is no inevitable connection between the cone and the slogan. If you are interested in a career, you will succeed if you stick to it for a long time, because the time and wisdom God has given you can complete one thing. Later, the young man succeeded and became the president of Korean pan-industry Automobile Company.

Tip: it is not because we dare not do things, but because we dare not do things. Many things in the world can be done as long as they want to do it. The difficulties to be overcome can also be overcome. As long as a person is still living in a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the Creator's arrangements for the world are successful.

3. Self-forgetting
4. Break the arrow-never believe in your own will, and never become a general.
5. Try again
A young man has applied for a job at Microsoft but has not published any advertisement. Seeing that the general manager was puzzled, the young man explained in less skillful English that he happened to pass by here and rushed in. The general manager felt very fresh and made an exception to let him have a try. The interview results were unexpected and the performance of young people was poor. He explained to the general manager that he was not prepared in advance. The general manager thought that he was just looking for a token to go down the stage and said, "Wait for you to prepare and try again ".

A week later, the young man once again entered the door of Microsoft, but he still failed. But he performs much better than the first time. The general manager still gave him the same answer as the previous one: "Wait until you are ready to try again ." In this way, the young man step into the door of Microsoft five times and is eventually hired by the company, becoming the key training object of the company.

Tip: What is harder or softer than water? However, soft water has penetrated the Hard Rock and persisted. Perhaps, our journey of life is full of swamp land and sea of thorns; maybe the scenery we pursue is always mountain, not dark; maybe, our progress is always heavy and stumbling; maybe, we need to explore the dark for a long time before we can find the light. Maybe, our devout belief will be entangled in the dust of the secular world, and we cannot fly freely. Maybe, our noble soul cannot find the Pure Land in reality for the moment ...... So, why can't we say "try again" to ourselves with a strong and confident spirit of the Creator !"
Try again, and you will be able to reach the other side of success!

6. Draw a leaf for life
American writer ou; Henry told a story in his novel "The Last Leaf": a dying patient in the Ward saw a tree out of the window, falling down in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the fallen leaves of Xiao, and the health of the patient went from bad to worse than a day. She said: "When all the leaves fall, I will die ." After learning it, an old painter painted a green leaf on the branches.

The last leaf never fell. The patient miraculously survived because of the green color in his life.

Tip: As long as you believe in it, there will always be a miracle, although the hope is slim, but it will survive. Life can have nothing but no hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!

7. crossing yourself

One day, the lobster and the crab meet in the deep sea. The Crab sees that the lobster is taking off its hard shell and only revealing its delicate body. The zombie said nervously: "How can you give up the only hard shell that protects your body? Aren't you afraid of a big fish eating you? According to your current situation, even the rapids will rush you to the Rock. Then you will not die before it will be strange ?"

Lobster calmly replied: "Thank you for your attention, but you don't know. Every time we grow our lobster, we must first take off the old shell to grow a stronger shell. Now we are facing the danger, it is only to prepare for better future development."

While thinking about it, you can only find a place to avoid it all day, instead of thinking about how to make yourself grow stronger and live in the shade of others all day, it is no wonder that our development is always limited.

Tip: dangerous people are everywhere. Everyone has a certain security zone. If you want to overcome your current achievements, do not leave yourself Limited and be brave enough to accept the challenges and enrich yourself. You will certainly develop better than you think.

8. Always lesson
9. Always get a ticket
10. Stubborn stones in the heart
Once upon a time there was a huge stone in the garden of a family with a width of about 40 centimeters and a height of 10 centimeters. The person who arrives at the garden will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or bruised.

The son asked, "Dad, why didn't I dig out that nasty rock ?"

Dad replied: "You said that stone? It has been in the age of your grandfather since now. It is so large that you don't know when to dig it. It's okay to dig a stone. It's better to walk with caution, you can also train your response capabilities."

After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, his son married his daughter-in-law and became a father.

One day, my daughter-in-law angrily said, "Dad, the big stone in the garden. The more I see it, the less pleasing to the eye. Please move it another day ."

Dad replied, "forget it! The big stone is very heavy. If I can move it away when I was a child, how can I keep it for now ?"

The daughter-in-law's heart is not a taste, and she does not know how many times she fell.

One morning, my daughter-in-law poured the whole bucket of water around the big stone with a hoe and a bucket of water.

Ten minutes later, the daughter-in-law loosened the dirt around the big stone with a hoe.

The daughter-in-law had a mental preparation and may have to dig for a day. No one had imagined that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes to see the size of the stone, which was not as big as imagined, they are all fooled by the huge appearance.

Tip: What hinders us from discovering and creating is only a mental obstacle and an anchor in our thoughts.
You can't climb a mountain with the idea of going downhill. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mindset.

Donkey's Philosophy

One day, a farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well, and the farmer racked his brains to find a way to rescue the donkey. But a few hours later, the donkey was still crying bitterly in the well.

Finally, the farmer decided to give up. He thought the donkey was too old to save it, but in any case, the well had to be filled out. Then the farmer invited his neighbor to help bury the donkey in the well to avoid the trouble.

The farmer's neighbors had a shovel and began to shovel the dirt into the dry well. When the donkey learned about his situation, he began to cry very miserable. But unexpectedly, after a while, the donkey was quiet. The farmer looked at the bottom of the well with curiosity, and the appearance of the scene surprised him:

When the Earth in the shovel falls into the back of the donkey, the donkey's reaction is amazing-it shakes the soil aside and then stands on the earth heap!

In this way, the donkey will shake all the dirt on it and shake it to the bottom of the well, and then stand up. Soon, the donkey rose to the wellhead with pride, and then quickly ran away with the surprised expression!

Tip: you must go through the current flow to go to a higher level. The most important thing is to always be able to stand up to yourself. Just like a donkey, sometimes we will inevitably fall into a "dry hole" during our journey of life, and will be dumped on us by all kinds of "sediment, the secret to getting rid of these "Dead Wells" is to shake off the "sediment" and then stand on it!

12. Success means simple things are done repeatedly.

the famous sales promotion master in China is about to say goodbye to his sales promotion career. At the invitation of industry associations and all walks of life, he will be in the largest Gymnasium in the city, give a speech to say goodbye to your career.
on that day, people waited eagerly and anxiously, and the greatest salesman of the present gave a wonderful speech. When the curtain opened slowly, a huge iron ball was hanging in the center of the stage. For this iron ball, a tall iron frame was built on the stage.
an old man came out with a round of applause and stood on the side of the iron frame. He was wearing a red sportswear with a pair of white rubber shoes under his feet.
people look at him with amazement and do not know what action he wants to make.
at this moment, the two staff members carried a hammer and put it in front of the old man. The host then told the audience: Ask two strong people to come to the stage. Many young people have stood up and two of them have been quickly on the stage.
at this moment, the old man spoke to them about the rules and asked them to use the hammer to beat the hanging iron ball until they were shaken up.
A young man grabbed and picked up the hammer, opened the frame, picked up the hammer, and threw all his strength at the hanging iron ball. With a sound of shock, the ball was not moving. He gritted the ball one after another with a hammer, and soon he panted.
the other person did not show weakness. He took the hammer and jingled the ball, but the iron ball remained motionless.
the audience gradually shouted, and the audience seemed to think it was useless, waiting for the old man to explain.
the venue calmed down. The old man took a hammer from his coat pocket and seriously faced the huge iron ball. He knocked on the iron ball with a hammer, paused, and knocked again with the hammer. People looked at it strangely, and the old man knocked on it like that, and then paused, and continued to do so.

Ten minutes later, and twenty minutes later, the conference room had already begun to stir up. Some people shouted at it, and people vented their dissatisfaction with various voices and actions. The old man is still working with a hammer, and he does not seem to hear people shouting. People began to leave suddenly, and there was a big vacancy on the venue. The people left behind seemed tired, and the venue gradually calmed down.
About 40 minutes after the old man went on, a woman sitting in front of him suddenly shouted, "the ball is moving !" At the time of the brakes, the venue was immediately speechless, and people watched the iron ball with concentration. The ball moved with a small degree of swing, and it was hard to detect it without looking at it carefully. The old man was still hitting with a hammer, and people seemed to hear the hammer hitting the ball. The higher the swing of the ball in the old man's hammer, the more powerful it is. It pulls the "squeaking, squeaking" on the iron shelf. Its great power is a strong shock to everyone present. Finally, a burst of applause came out on the court. In the round, the old man turned around and slowly carried the hammer into his pocket.
When the old man spoke, he only said one sentence: on the road to success, you have no patience to wait for the arrival of success, so you have to face failure with patience for a lifetime.

Tip: Many people think that success is very difficult. If you have to pay too much for success, it will be very painful and you don't want to pursue it. In fact, as long as we observe, we will be surprised to find that those who live in poverty online are really patient and hard-working, they are enduring the unsuccessful reality and life with such amazing patience. You may not think about success, but your life will not be relaxed. If you pursue success, you will live a better life.

13: methods are more important than ideas

In Aesop's fable, there is a story: The mouse is in a meeting together to discuss how to avoid being caught by the cat. One of the mice suggested hanging a bell around the neck of the cat. All the mice thundered-"That's a good idea !" However, when a mouse asks how to hook the bell to the neck of a cat, all the mice are in silence.

Tip: methods are more important than ideas, or there is no value for ideas that correspond to methods.

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19. Ships in the sea

No ship sailing in the sea is harmless.

British Lloyd Insurance bought a ship from the auction market. The ship was launched in 1894 and encountered 138 iceberg, 116 reef access and 13 fires on the Atlantic Ocean, the mast was broken by 207 storms, but it never sunk.

Based on its incredible experience and considerable benefits in terms of premium, Lloyd insurance finally decided to buy it from the Netherlands and donate it to the country. Now the ship is parked at the National Museum of ships at the Port of Sharon, England.

However, the ship was famous as a lawyer for sightseeing. At that time, he had just lost a lawsuit and his client committed suicide not long ago. Although this is not his first failed defense, nor the first suicide event he encountered, he always has a sense of guilt. He doesn't know how to comfort these unfortunate people in business.

When he saw the ship at the sarun ship museum, he suddenly had an idea: why didn't they let them visit the ship? So he copied the history of the ship and hashed it together with the photo of the ship in his law firm. Every time a principal from the business community asks him to defend, no matter whether he wins or loses, he suggested that they visit the ship.

It makes us know that no ship sailing on the sea is harmless.

Tip: despite repeated setbacks, it is the secret of success to be able to stand strong and indomitable.
Flying spider

Faith is a kind of force without a strong urge. When you believe that you can succeed, you will be able to succeed.

One day, I found a black spider had a large network between the two eaves of the backyard. Does a spider fly? Otherwise, from the eaves to the eaves, there is a gap in the middle of the width, how is the first line pulled in the past? Later, I found that the spider had taken a lot of detours starting from a eaves, knotted, moving down the wall, crawling forward step by step, carefully, and tilted the tail, do not let the silk touch the sand stone on the ground or other objects, walk through the open space, and then climb the opposite side of the eaves, the height is almost the same, then tighten the silk, the same will be true in the future.

Tip: the SPIDER will not fly, but it will be able to link the Internet to the air. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent, and tough insect. Its net system is well-crafted and well-disciplined, and it is opened in the form of gossip, as if to be assisted by God. This kind of achievement reminds people of those who have no words and some wise men who have no secrets. As a result, I remember that the spider would not fly, but it still closed the net in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people.

21. Be adventurous

For those who are afraid of Danger, danger is everywhere.

One day, the lobster and the crab meet in the deep sea. The Crab sees that the lobster is taking off its hard shell and only revealing its delicate body. The zombie said nervously: "How can you give up the only hard shell that protects your body? Aren't you afraid of a big fish eating you? According to your current situation, even the rapids will rush you to the Rock. Then you will not die before it will be strange ?"

Lobster calmly replied: "Thank you for your attention, but you don't know. Every time we grow our lobster, we must first take off the old shell to grow a stronger shell. Now we are facing the danger, it is only to prepare for better future development."

While thinking about it, you can only find a place to avoid it all day, instead of thinking about how to make yourself grow stronger and live in the shade of others all day, it is no wonder that our development is always limited.

Tip: everyone has a certain security zone. If you want to overcome your current achievements, do not set your own limits and be brave enough to accept the challenges and enrich yourself. You will certainly develop better than you think.

22: juansiwei

When the flood is not yet before the embankment is built, the wolf will first sharpen the knife in the future.

When the fox saw the wolf, he said, "The weather is so good that everyone is resting and entertaining. You should join our team !" The wolf did not speak. He continued to grind his teeth and sharpen his teeth. The fox asked strangely: "The forest is so quiet that the hunters and hound have already returned home, and the tigers are not near and there is no danger. Why are you so eager to grind ?" The wolf stopped and said, "I don't grind my teeth for entertainment. You think, if one day I was chased by hunters or tigers, it would be too late for me to grind my teeth. I usually grind my teeth and then I can protect myself ."

Tip: you should plan your work in advance, so that you will not be in a hurry when the danger suddenly falls. "When books are used, they hate less." If you are not fully knowledgeable, it is too late to stick to your feet temporarily. Some people complain that there is no chance. However, when the opportunity for promotion comes, they sigh that they do not have enough knowledge and ability at ordinary times, so that they are not competent and have to regret it.
23. Good study
24. optimistic and pessimistic

The optimistic person sees the opportunity in every crisis, and the pessimistic person sees the danger in every opportunity.
25. Shadows are paper dragons
26. Tiandao rewards

No one can rely on talent to succeed. God gives talent, and diligence turns talent into talent.
27. Value of life

Don't let yesterday's frustration overshine tomorrow's dream!
 

At a seminar, a famous speaker did not make an opening speech, but held a $20 bill in his hand.

In the face of 200 people in the conference room, he asked: "Who wants this $20 ?" One hand lifted. He went on to say, "I plan to give this $20 to one of you, but before that, please allow me to do one thing ." As he said, He kneaded the money into a group and asked, "Who needs it ?" Some people are still raising their hands.

He said, "What if I did this ?" He threw the money to the ground, stepped on another foot, and ran it over with his foot. Then he picked up the money and the money had become dirty and wrinkled.

"Who need it now ?" Someone raised their hands.

"You have taken a meaningful lesson, my friends. No matter how I treat that bill, you still want it because it has not depreciated and it is still worth $20. On the road to life, we will be overwhelmed, bullied, and even crushed by our own decisions or adversity. We feel we are worthless. But no matter what happens or what will happen, in God
You will never lose value. In his opinion, you are still priceless if you are dirty or clean and neatly dressed ."

Tip: the value of life does not depend on what we do, nor on the people we make. It depends on ourselves! We are unique and never forget this point!

The subjective Source of Life is its own code of conduct.

The goal of a behavior is its own way of thinking.

The value is derived from its own full benefits.