Ability to "handle" things

In our work and life, we can see that there are such a group of people who can easily deal with things and influence the views and actions of the people around us, the types they present include the following:

1. They have no power, but can influence people with higher positions than them;

2. They do not have professional skills, but they can help people with professional skills;

3. They are considered by many people as "big people" in the group ";

4. They are always able to find a solution to the problem and the problem;

Why do they have such energy? What are the common characteristics of this group? What characteristics can be extracted, learned, exercised, and mastered? The author compares the cases and observed groups. The ability to deal with things is divided into several layers, and the ability to achieve common characteristics has the following points:

1. Ability to think independently;

This group is characterized by the fact that although he does not have a certain position, he is absolutely good at thinking. He is considered a person with an idea and what will happen to him, there will be a decent analysis. It is this kind of independent thinking ability that enables him to always have a particularly good feeling when doing things on his own or helping others do things.

2. Be good at expressing your own ideas and letting others understand your own ideas;

If you have the ability to think independently, you will inevitably have your own ideas. They can give their views and ideas to the right people at the right time and place to understand and understand. They seem so natural and don't deliberately do it, this kind of creation without any trace allows others to understand their own results.

3. Be good at grasping others' ideas as quickly as possible and helping them solve them well;

It is not enough to let others understand their own ideas. They also need to understand others' ideas. They can always let others extract their own thoughts through formal and informal ways, even when others do not express themselves, they can accurately grasp the needs of others through observation and analysis. This is not enough. They are very good at creating all the conditions, help people achieve what they think,

4. They can always pay attention to the subtle feelings of everyone around them and handle them flexibly;

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I used to have an assistant who worked with me for nearly two years. Not only did she have excellent job ability, but she was loyal and enthusiastic. What I told her never needed to say 2nd times. Most importantly, my wedding anniversary, my wife and children's birthday, some of my life's preferences, and the people and information I pay attention to at every stage of my work, she will promptly remind me; therefore, I am not only a good assistant at work, but also a good helper of life. Every time I have a good opportunity, I try my best to help him fight for it. In less than two years, I fell from a little girl to an excellent professional module supervisor.

I have also had such an assistant. Even if I graduated from high school for my family reasons, I came out to work. During the interview, she was very sincere and comfortable, so she recruited me. I didn't expect her to take things to the level mentioned above. I gave her some advice, because she could really pay attention to everyone's feelings, she can take appropriate actions to deal with such things. Therefore, she can easily handle many things, and her colleagues inside and outside the company spoke highly of her.

5. Get along with him with your heart and make others feel comfortable;

They can talk and have a strong empathy. They can also achieve a level of "fuck on me" in their emotional management and will not easily change their emotions as their external emotions change, so it always gives people the same feeling as the spring breeze.

He is good at listening and can make people find a feeling of respect and understanding here. Here, you can feel your importance, and you can feel that he is interested in you, this is a capability that can solve many communication difficulties. It is indeed an extremely important and powerful capability to make people feel comfortable with each other.

6. They are always optimistic and positive;

An optimistic and positive attitude is a dynamic quality of life, because there will always be a variety of difficulties in life, remember some time ago, when talking about Foxconn staff jumping off the building, my assistant said a word that impressed me: they only looked down when they jumped out of the building. If they looked up and looked up, how beautiful it would be! This is a positive attitude. His power is greater than his knowledge, and his power is greater than that of his fortune, because the ability to actively infect is huge, he can even change a person's life.

7. Be good at learning and turn things that make up for your own shortcomings into an opportunity;

They will consult people in a timely manner if they do not understand things. This kind of consultation not only helps them solve their problems, but also establishes good contact with those who help them; because no one will easily reject a person who asks for his/her questions, this process will establish an extremely important relationship, which is an extremely important capability.

8. They always give people a very convincing and trustworthy feeling;

When doing everything above, the other party can perceive his sincerity and build the foundation of trust. From the many things above, the long-term accumulation will, in turn, strengthen this trust, which is an invisible force that can help them do a good job.

Such a group is the initial stage of making a big event, because they have accumulated their own influence and resources after these qualities, and at a certain time, it will be changed from the "little people" who can handle things to the "big man" who can make things ".