About introverted, how to face their own introverted, here recommend a book "quiet", introverted, really bad?

I am an introverted person, as a child because not love to talk, a guest is also like to hide, my mother more than once said I do not learn a cheerful point. Also, when school, the teacher is also biased with those who are lively, cheerful classmates. Therefore, I envy the outgoing people, they can very naturally communicate with others, make a lot of friends, driving the atmosphere. At one time I didn't like the party or something, go to some lively places, but for these, still very irritable. However, my uncle quite understand me, he said to my mother, "what bad introverted, do not love to speak and how, some people's character is so, do not ask her to change."

　　When looking for a job, our resume on the description of their time, often will write: "Cheerful personality, good communication, organizational skills," such as the word, regardless of whether or not like this. We believe that the mainstream of the business community now is the need for such people, and not like the character of silence, not good at communication, organizational ability is not strong people. Some people say: "From the beginning of the personality culture, we have been forced to develop into an outward character for all sorts of selfish reasons-to stand out in a new and highly competitive society with anonymity." But now, we always think that being extroverted will not only make us more successful, but also make us outstanding. "The quiet people seem to be marginalized. -----Watercress Book Review

In this world, at least one-third of the people are introverts. Rather than talking, they prefer to listen, and they prefer quiet reading to a noisy party, they are committed to creating but do not want to sell themselves; they prefer to work alone and not like to join the brainstorming of the group. Although they are often labeled "quiet", we must admit that they have made a huge contribution to society-from Van Gogh's sunflowers to the invention of personal computers.

About introverted, how to face their own introverted, here recommend a book "quiet", introverted, really bad?