I. Study Notes Turn failure into experience, quickly feedback lessons from failure to the good, and keep curious. The worst thing is that you are in a self-blaming or helpless learning state. You don't know how to make progress, or you start to think about why it doesn't matter whether you work hard or not. You lose your direction because you cannot get the expected results. We should leave this situation. Instead of getting stuck or defeated by things that are not executed as planned, we should find a better strategy or method that can improve the success. We should not get stuck with what we have done wrong. We should also learn lessons, capture positive effects from negative events, and find out what you can do next. In general, we must always maintain a positive attitude to face failures and errors, learn from them, and guide ourselves in the future. Consider failure as a lesson. Don't just ask yourself-why did I fail? I should ask myself what I learned. As you develop the habit of getting experience from failure, you will easily get positive feedback from failure, which can help you quickly recover from setbacks.
Lessons learned No matter what you do, the mistake has already happened. Things always inadvertently deviate from the plan. We can easily think back to the previous things and say that we have long known that we should not do this. Why didn't we make another choice at the beginning. Instead of making a self-conversation based on this disruptive viewpoint, we should change this kind of self-criticism to personal guidance as a feedback on the principle of self-development. Use some questions to help you find some lessons and avoid the next failure: 1. What causes my failure? Where did I fall? Have I made a mistake or have others made a mistake? 2. Is the target feasible? 3. Are there any successes in this failure? 4. What have I learned from what happened? 5. Cultivate a grateful attitude. Have I ever experienced such setbacks? 6. How can I turn it into success? 7. Try to learn from others. Who can help me solve this problem? 8. The past is over. What should I do next to improve the results?
Quick verification failure 1. Discover which jobs can be done and which ones cannot be done as early as possible. 2. divide things into some small executable plans, and immediately start to take action, get feedback from the action and adjust the large plan.
Ii. self-reflection
1. proactively face failures and never blame yourself in the dark of failure. 2. Sum up the lessons of failure to avoid falling behind on the same rock 3. Act if you have a goal. Do not think about perfection. Divide a large plan into some small plans that can be executed, obtain feedback during the execution of the small plan, and adjust the large plan. 4. Summarize the implementation of the plan for this week once a week, find out the persistence of the Plan, and find out the lessons learned to guide future actions.
