Amazing sexual secrets of today's college students

Today, let's take a look at the health education topic of college students. Naturally, we need to be more generous.

A sampling survey on reproductive health knowledge of college students shows that the degree of openness of sexual concepts of college students is not proportional to the degree of sexual knowledge, and the degree of sexual concern and sexual anxiety of college students is getting higher and higher. However, on university campuses, college students talk openly and are still shy. In private, they have a great chat in dormitory or on the Internet.

 
How sex education can be accepted by young people has become the biggest challenge for experts. Because practice has proved that preaching cannot achieve good results.

Dating is not sexual.

In the evening at the end of the evening, Xiaochuan raised a sexual requirement to her long-time girlfriend Lingling. Lingling had been thinking for a long time and declined her boyfriend's requirements. However, two lovers in love have made a strange sensation because of this incident. Is love between two people stagnant because of sex? Lingling, who is young and passionate, does not know what to do.

This is a situational performance. A pair of lovers on the stage were deadlocked, and the audience of college students on the stage also fell into meditation.

"Lingling is right to reject Xiaochuan's request. If a boyfriend asks for a sexual relationship on the grounds that he refuses or does not trust his love, then respecting Lingling's will is part of his love. Because we are still young, many responsibilities cannot be guaranteed, and sex does not represent the highest realm of love ." A tall girl with a bunch of horse tails first stood up to express her support for Lingling.
 
"I think as long as you have a sense of responsibility and take necessary measures, it is understandable that men and women have sex ." A boy boldly expressed his different points of view.

In a classroom in Xiasha branch of Hangzhou Normal University, the reporter attended a seminar named "Peer Education". The students demonstrated how to deal with emotional confusion through situational performances, and how to reject the sexual requirements of lovers.
 

"For students, sex is a very private issue. Peer education cannot stop sex impulse, but we can tell the students: love and sex are not only psychological and physiological experiences and feelings, but also a serious responsibility issue."

Condom blowing in training classes

In this way, individuals are trained to share information, ideas, or behavioral skills with people of similar ages, backgrounds, and interests to achieve their educational goals, it is "peer education ".

Peer education is popular in countries such as the United States and the United States. Peer education is widely used in reproductive health, AIDS education and drug abuse, suicide, alcohol abuse, gender discrimination and women's issues. It has good effects on adolescent reproductive health and AIDS publicity and education.

There are many ways to "peer education. For example, if you want to give a condom to a college student, you can blow it the most out. If you want to use bananas as a prop, You can visually show how to use the condom.

Public discussion is not easy

Lu jianliang, a junior in political and economics at Xiasha branch of Hangzhou Normal University, is not tall. Wen Jing qingxiu, wearing a pair of thin-edged glasses. When I first met, the reporter did not believe it, this is why a young guy who looks a little shy often talks about "what is sex" and "how to face the sexual requirements raised by male/girlfriend.

Lu jianliang is a member of the second phase of the Hangzhou Normal University Youth Health Volunteers Association and occasionally serves as a training specialist. He and his partners have been conducting "Peer Education" spontaneously to preach sexual knowledge.

At the beginning of "peer education", I encountered unexpected resistance. Lu jianliang said, after all, it is somewhat difficult for a dozen girls and young men in their early twenties to talk about "sex" in public.

He recalled that during the first training, a girl was "angrily absent" and she said she could not support hearing so many sexual terms. Most of the members of the association have never understood or even talked. "They may not say anything in front of us, but we can read unfriendly things from their strange smiles ".

Peer education allows people to speak freely

"Our previous sex education was just blank. In high school, the teacher only asked us to read our own books and there were no sex education courses in the university, therefore, almost all sexual topics have a natural tendency to avoid."

Yue Xiaoqu, a 22-Year-Old wenjing girl, said with deep feelings: "Since the school started peer education, the secrets of dormitory seminars are no longer secrets. They talk about sexual topics openly and healthily, obtain scientific physiological knowledge, rather than obtaining fuzzy or even wrong knowledge from the Internet or novels."

"Which of the following has no sexual impulse for young people? However, if the teacher is standing there to talk about this kind of course, we will be very embarrassed to listen to it and will not dare to talk about it if we have any questions. If peer education is good, it is a good exchange between students. We can speak freely ." A boy said this.

Resonate with respect and equality

Love is beautiful, and they need to work together to manage it. Therefore, both sex and love must be healthy and happy.

Generally, people with the same background and common experiences may be associated with people with the same language for some reason. One or more persons (trained) will tell their peers about their experiences and experiences, arousing resonance often achieves a certain effect. This is the advantage of "peer education.

In a simple division, Chinese education and AIDS Prevention Education have roughly gone through three stages: taboo, panic, and rational.

In the taboo stage, sex education and anti-AIDS education are almost blank. Even if people have such a poor one-and-a-half-star knowledge, they will not be confused. In the panic phase, in view of the continuous high incidence of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS in some regions and high-risk groups, some people are filled with extreme fear, and some people look at patients with contempt, discrimination and hostility.

Facts have proved that taboos and panic are not conducive to the prevention and control of STD and AIDS in society. Since the past few years, condoms have been publicly issued in public places in some places, and peer education activities are being conducted in Beijing, Shanghai, Zhejiang, Shandong, Yunnan, and other places, this indicates that Chinese education and anti-AIDS education have entered a rational stage.

 
Sex education and anti-AIDS education should not be a unilateral "infusion" of something for minors by adults, but a variety of forms such as communication, discussion, and games, allow all, including minors, to exchange information, resonate with each other, change their attitudes, and find a solution in the process of mutual respect and equal participation.