Applicable to marriage-laws of all stages

Applicable to marriage-laws of all stages

　　Food buying Law: When I arrive at the market, I don't know what kind of food is better than my wife. When I arrive at the market, I find that most of my husband's food is what I buy.

　　Law of speech: The more people speak between husband and wife, the less words they have.

　　Outgoing Law: The wife is the most worried about going out, and the last one is the wife.

　　'S Law: The more she talks, the more she is, the more she talks about her husband.

　　Home Law: My wife wants to go home as soon as she leaves the house, and her husband does not like to go home when she leaves the house.

　　Quarrel Law: The more the husband and wife quarrel for no reason, the more fierce the quarrel.

　　Temper Law: The amount of money between husband and wife determines the size of temper. People who do not earn money have no temper.

　　Spending Law: The wife spent the money on dressing (beauty, dress), and the husband spent the money (smoke, wine ......) Addiction.

　　Something to say when you get married in 1-3 years

Case:

Miss Li: looking at my sleeping husband, I feel a little strange in my heart. When I fell in love with him, he was so familiar with me that everything made me take the lead. He can only get married for one year, and he wants to "Equality" and "respect his opinions ". Is marriage the grave of love?

Mr. Zhang: It's not a long time to get married, but his wife's temper is getting bigger and she needs to listen to everything. I am still chasing my question every day: "How come I get off work so late ?" "How deep do you love me ?" I knew that getting married would turn my lover into a "manager", and I wouldn't even promise to marry her.

Applicable law:

　　Equality Law: Both husband and wife consider themselves as parents, but they cannot decide what is important.

　　Law of communication: We should discuss all things and discuss any unhappy things in our hearts.

When the sweet relationship officially enters the marriage life of rice, oil, and salt, the romance and warmth seem to disappear overnight, but the rest are complaints and regrets.

Wang Yuru, director of Shanghai Zhiyin Psychological Counseling Institute, said in an interview with the life times reporter that 1-3 years after marriage is a critical period. "At this time, the first thing couples need to do is to learn to communicate ."

Wang Yuru said that newly married couples must face many problems. For example, a wife must learn to get along with her mother-in-law to prepare for a baby who may arrive at any time. Her husband no longer enjoys the freedom of a bachelor. If she is pregnant, she must endure physical loneliness. "Foreign Studies show that couples at this stage should always remember a golden law:Everything should be discussed, and there is nothing unhappy in your mind. It should be said that major things cannot be decided by one."For example, if the husband and wife have different opinions on the color of the furniture, they can write down their ideas and explain their reasons. Then, give your opinion to the other party and ask him/her to comment.

In addition, the husband and wife should not feel guilty. To say everything in their hearts, it is best to give the other party a "vaccination ". Wang Yuru added that many women have such a psychological gap: before marriage is the queen, after marriage is the servant. She may be unhappy, but she won't say anything. In fact, if the wife can tell her husband in a coquetry tone, it may give the other party a little excitement, and then take the initiative to worry about her feelings. "This is also an important part of communication, especially for newly married couples ."