Are men happy to have family and lover?

My male care work has been said for thousands of times, so I have to understand how men have grown up to be arrogant or oppressed by this (patriarchal) society until today. In fact, there is no accident, in the original form, there was a small family jointly operated by a husband and wife, which had a very dull life and had nothing to do with. At least the social image was healthy and won't be chased and asked: you are not married yet, no problem! However, if a man meets a good lover for social reasons, both men and women will be excited, but it is easier for a man to take action. The reason is not one or two.

First, "groups of wives" is the old society's tacit acceptance of male success. Women have no livelihood ability and have to attach them to qualified men. Few think that they are male and sorry for her, but are busy fighting for favor, give birth to a son to inherit the family business. If she cannot be a female mother-in-law, she will immediately ask her son (man) for help, just to pass down Zong to the man, it can be said that a bunch of women are serving a man for fear and thoughtfulness, affecting their rights and interests.

As women's rights gradually turn to the opposite, women can earn an independent economic position when entering the economy, however, this also created a group of "professional" women who serve and treat men as their careers. They are soft, pretty, and sexy in the most relaxed entertainment occasions of many men, which of the women at home is sometimes arrogant, sometimes self-pity, and sometimes mother-in-law? It is easy for men to fall, but both ends are manipulated by women.

However, no matter whether a woman is qualified or not, she does not need to look up or worship a man, but still pursues those who become famous and have the right to do so, A man is proud to hunt for and conquer women's gender and cultural traits, and shows Yang Gang charm and skill in his left-right hug. Besides being a wife who is upset about her marital interests, the envy of other men and women is terrible. Of course, if a man has the opportunity to enjoy the perfect fortune, who will pretend to be a benefit?

All of the above are building our society and we look forward to the "sequentions" caused by the success of a man and the temptation of a man. It can be said that a woman is definitely an accomplice, in fact, they are all playing with men in the palm of the head. To be precise, they are more like a zombie in the female group, as long as you have a little bit of confidence in your vanity, it is enough to beat your friends!

Therefore, women may not know how to use men as a respectable competitor, and then tend to treat themselves as weak and play games. If they are not moved, they will use public resources to complain and complain, men do not have a healthy education channel. They can learn to respect women rather than regard women as prey, so our women's educational resources are still used to help stupid women clean up their mess? Or is it better to educate men to respect women in terms of emotional independence?

The conclusion is that a man is happy to have his or her lover, and a woman is absolutely active, but he is just a wife!

Transferred from Phoenix bobao> lanhuai's personal space