Are you 30 years old, programmers?

College graduate, Male, 30 years old, the Ancients cloud: 30 stand, look at themselves, suddenly sad from the heart.

Since graduating from 02 to now, has been engaged in software development industry, the original passion and pride seems to be erased by the years.

Remember when reading, in school play much, what football, fiction, internet cafes ah, in short, is splinters to play a mess, there is no solid software programming skills. Graduation is finally faced with the first time of life confused and helpless, although the school even serious study, learned things are not necessarily to the future work how much help, but in all fairness, the kind of confusion and helplessness, really is my years of play deserved punishment.
Recently, the company received large projects, these days the company is ready to recruit, the company size head together to open a number of recruitment meetings, to recruit the main high-level Java programmer, must be several conditions:
1.   Strict written examination, written test about one hours, the written pass rate of not more than 90% will not, do not give me to tell you would use the IDE, will check the document, if even the foundation do not understand, do not come blind mixed.

2. Java experience about 3 years, if the school started in the formal company part-time or internship also count work experience.

3. Must be born 80 years later, unmarried!

30 years of age or older programmers do not, not to say they are bad technology, but the first, they demand a high salary, generally no monthly salary of 12K, do not want to recruit, recruit, also stay soon, and we recruit Senior Java engineer to work 2 years experience of 8K or so, already can recruit very good. Second, the 30-year-old programmer is generally married, even have children, there is a son of the man, will not be like unmarried young programmers like 100% put into work, and not like a young programmer to the company as home, everyone into a group. We are a start-up company, and the 30-year-old programmer is too expensive for us. Just the classmate company is also hiring, a look and our company's requirements almost the same, not 30 years of age and above the programmer. More than 30 years old programmer still stay in a company, the choice of job-hopping is too little. If it is not a special cow, there is no particular place, I think the future career of programmers over 30 years old will be very tragic. 20 years old programmers hurriedly honed into Daniel, or after 30 years old ....
As a 30-year-old programmer, often recalled his past, I am no exception, I believe there will be many it friends and I think the same: when we know how to cherish time, we have found that we are no longer young. 30 years old, just slowly understand ...
Men and women 30, 30 years old should be the turning point in life, it is not the end of youth, but the second starting line of life. One should not live in the eyes of others ' doubts, nor should they be titling in others ' saliva, nor should they live on the weight given by others. Do not be afraid of other people's comments, there is a controversy to prove that you have the act, do not dare to make a bird, will never get out of the opportunity. This is after 30 years old only understand the truth: want to not be discussed is impossible, want not to be jealous, the only thing you can do is beyond, only far more than you around the people, beyond the comparable range, they will not have the confidence to envy you, for those who repeatedly to destroy you, You can only prove that you are the person you want or are most unable to transcend, you should be happy, believe that the bystanders can be at a glance.

The beauty of struggle : After 30 years of age to understand, although life is too short, but too wasted, also equals suicide. People should have to pursue, but also have their own goals and career, busy life is full and happy, there is a goal, will not let us deviate from our course. Only by uninterrupted progress can we continue to see more beautiful scenery on the way forward. After 30 years of age to understand, there are many things to do not do, enjoy is not the only.

Learn to choose : After 30 years old, dare to choose, also willing to choose. When I was young, I always looking too much. But despite the many, real grasp and get not much, with all the bottle is half a bottle, it is better to fill a few bottles, and then throw away the unused bottles, so as to travel light. Don't let the useless things stop the pace of our progress. Don't abandon yourself.
After 30 years old, only then understand, want to be loved, must self-love, do not give up oneself at any time. If you want to be respected, you must achieve yourself. It is nonsense that a man of mediocrity is respected, and no one wants to admire an idiot. Even if the sky is falling down, there is no better than giving up life is not worth it, alive to the possibility of turning the tide, dead, doomed to be forever loser. Nothing is better than to live.

know insufficient and backward : After 30 years old, not only know the time, also have a bit of self-knowledge, know their shortcomings. On the one hand do not think of themselves as the perfect princess, and do not take the perfect standard to demanding themselves. No best, only better.

do not give up responsibility : After the age of 30, only to understand that love and responsibility is still a distance, it will not be so rash. People are mature and experienced a lot. Life will be dull and dull, but there is a bit of stability. Any heart is not willing to drift too long. Responsibility is the highlight of our lives and the point of our success. To abandon the responsibility, to pursue the temporary petty, eventually lose more. Life, is a geometric average.

Learn to be self-reliant: After 30 years of age to understand, do not always put hope in others, the only person who can permanently rely on, only you. Any time, must be self-reliance and self-reliance, strength is the ultimate driving force to overcome all.

Learn to tolerate : After the age of 30, may be fame to see a little bit. Life is barren, we come naked, we walk empty-handed, and no one in material can occupy more than the rest of the land. After 30 years old, learn tolerance and patience, our life is therefore more open-minded. As one song sings: No matter, forgive this world all the wrong, do not matter, why let oneself painful reincarnation. In fact, many times, we seem to be unable to forgive others, in fact, we do not forgive ourselves, take other people's fault to punish themselves, so that they bear the cross for many years, the original is so not cost-effective.

Cherish Friendship : After 30 years of age to understand, people at any time should have their own some friends, no friends of the lonely, can never be an amplifier. Daughter scattered to return, friends go, will not come back. After 30 years of age to understand, oneself is the biggest beneficiary of sincerity.

Let Smile eternity : After 30 years of age, only to feel the life of the course is so short, I hope that their own more happy point, more chic point, but the pressure of life, but let our brows wrinkle more tight, melancholy is never wave of haze. Perhaps, live should have the present wine today drunk heroic, everyday give oneself a smile, very important.
Before 30 years old, if we did not do well, after 30 years old, let us come back again. We can not change the history, but can change the future ...

Are you 30 years old, programmers?