As long as you breathe, there are no balloons that cannot fly

As long as you breathe, there are no balloons that cannot fly

 

It is absolutely impossible to punish children excessively or excessively, He cannot be left alone, Let him go back! Just like "boiling water in a pot ", When boiling, the CAP must be removed to make the vapor bubble out; If it is not covered, the pot will pop up!

Love is too heavy, and the child's heart is bitter!

Wu's mother, who once lived in Hualien, said that many years ago, after school, her first-year daughter was very worried and asked her, "mom, can I kneel down on behalf of one of my colleagues?"

"Why should I kneel down ?" Wu's mother asked me inexplicably.

"Because our class's aqiu didn't hand in homework every day, and the examination scores were all the last. So the tutor told her to kneel down, not just for a class, but for a whole day!" My daughter said with a heavy mood: "Mom, do you know that ah Qiu has been fined by his mentor every day for almost a month ......"

After her mother Wu had a deep understanding, she knew that the male mentor in her daughter's class was very fierce, and she was also handsome in her studies. She forced her class to take exams and hand in homework every day! A Qiu has poor academic performance and cannot keep up with her homework. She needs to do housework and take care of her younger siblings after school every day. She also needs to help her sick mother spread out in the alley and make some money to keep her home. Or even, you need to search everywhere to bring your drunk father home!

However, in school, the girl who is so filial, obedient, and wronged is the "worst and worst bad student" in the mind of the tutor. It is a matter of course to say that she is fined, who told her not to work hard, always the last score! However, when a Qiu was fined every day, no one dared to pray for the girl who was always a dwarf and could not lift her head, I dare not say that the girl with his knees is red and purple.

It is a shame to go to school, a nightmare, and a sentence!

Later, mother Wu started to communicate with the tutor. Some parents also called the supervisor and the principal to complain about the way in which the tutor kneels the students. However, she was angry with the tutor, it becomes more and more difficult to find the "inform parent" child! After continuous communication and conflict with the tutor, Wu said that she had no plans and decided to transfer her daughter to another class. However, her daughter angrily said, "It's not me that it is wrong. Why should I transfer my job ?"

Finally, my daughter endured the "special treatment" of her mentor until she could not afford it, took her time to study at home, and finally transferred her books abroad. Ah Qiu, who was discriminated against and abused by her mentor, I gave up my studies, and I gave up on myself. I have no idea where I want to go when I skip school, play a video game shop, smoke and take drugs ......

When I hear this real story, I feel infinite emotion! Children are "Wet soft clay", not "finalized Clay". As long as they are patient and caring, they can be shaped into excellent products! On the contrary, if a child has been denied, looked down, and has no sense of accomplishment, it is likely to change from "positive number" to "negative number" or even "Super bomb "!

Therefore, it is absolutely not necessary to punish a child for being excessive or excessively heavy. It is not necessary to force him to leave nowhere, so that he can go back! In addition, discipline is like "boiling water in a pot". When boiling, it must be lifted to let the steam leak out; otherwise, it is just a strong pressure, not a lid, the pot will explode!

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When a king was hunting in ancient Persian, he passed by a farm. When he saw a common woman, he told her to take her foot water! The woman immediately took water from the well. The King washed her feet and felt the water temperature was warm and comfortable!

The king said, "I want to wash my face and bring water again !" The woman immediately needs to fetch water in the well. The water is cooler and the face is refreshed! The king said, "I'm thirsty. I want to drink water !" So the woman went to the well to fetch water. The water was cold and refreshing. The King drank the water!

At this moment, the king was filled with joy and asked the woman, "Why did you give me water three times? The temperature is different ?"

The common woman respectfully said: "you want to wash your feet, I want to take the surface water that can be shot by the sun in the well, it is warm; you want to wash your face, I take the middle and cooler water in the well, and you want to drink and moisten your throat, I take the lowest and coldest water in the well!"

The Persian king thought, "This female is the most attentive and suitable for being my princess !" I decided to bring her back to the palace and set her as a princess.

The temperature of the water in the well is different from that in the surface, middle, and lower layers. Everyone knows, but unless there is a "heart" and "caring for others ", otherwise, it would be hard to find the "Wisdom of water!

In the same way, a teacher must have the heart and care for the students in order to make the students feel better!

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Mind Station

There is a first-year boy in China. He is very naughty. He loves to tease his sister every day and also throws toys everywhere. One day, the boy teased his sister and cried again. When his mother was so angry, he grabbed the ball stick in the corner and tried to teach his son a lesson.

The son shouted, "Mom, you're finished. Our teacher said that baseball is used to play baseball, not to beat people. Don't you understand ?"

Xiao jie is a smart child with top scores in the class. But this semester, he was a little lazy. He came back from school and handed over his score to his mother. She was so angry: "You took the first place in the class last semester. Why is this one so bad?"

Xiao jie listened and said to his mother, "every mother wants her child to take the first place. However, if I take the first place every time, what should the mothers of other children do? I always want to think about other children's mothers !"

Of course, my parents are happy to take the first place. However, it is not necessary to strictly require the parents to take the first or one hundred points! As long as the child is "willing to learn, healthy growth!

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Recently, a friend said his son was very happy to be back from one hundred! However, when my mother contacted the teacher by phone, she was surprised to hear the teacher say, "No, James scored points !"

"Why? James said that he scored one hundred points and one hundred points on the examination paper !"

"No, James only scored one hundred points. He must have stolen the score on his own !" The teacher insisted on speaking.

Later, my mother asked her, "Why did you steal your score ?" The son swallowed up and said, "Because... Every time I fail to score one hundred, you get angry and beat me and scold me ...... But as long as I score one hundred, you will be very happy ......"

Sorry, "Love is too heavy, so the child's heart is bitter !"

If the pressure on the parents is too high, the child may lie to the parents! Even learning is no longer of interest.

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In fact, parents do not have to ask their children to "win in everything ". Some parents have always asked their children to be good at English, play the piano, learn Abacus and calculate their minds... It's so bitter! But have you ever taken your child to the playground as a parent? Have you ever taken your child to a children's drama? Have you ever accompanied your child to read fairy tales? Have you ever taken your child to the mountains to climb mountains, watch butterflies, and catch insects ?...! A child's life can be varied, not as long as he takes the first place and scores one hundred!

Therefore, we need to teach our children the ability to "autonomy in life", learn "interpersonal relationships", and cultivate their "reading habits" and "independent thinking "! A little older and mature! It's not too late to develop your own interests based on your intelligence!

What is the purpose of a child's "win at the starting point, but lose at the middle point, or the end!

Give your child a happy childhood, or even give the child a chance to fall, you can train them, in the days after living, bravely stand up!