Can you be angry effectively?

As we all know, Genghis Khan is a great historical character who once built an empire across Eurasia. He was able to make such a great achievement, which was related to his anger-making experience. The reason why he was so angry was related to his legendary experience.

On one occasion, Genghis Khan went out hunting with a team of people. They set off early in the morning, but there was still no gains at noon, so they had to return to the tent. Genghis Khan's heart was unwilling to go back to the mountains with his leather bag, bow and arrow, and the beloved flying e. In the hot sun, he walked down the yangchang trail to the mountains. After walking for a long time, he felt more and more thirsty, but he could not find any water source. For a long time, he came to a valley and saw a drop of water flowing down from it. Genghis Khan was so happy that he took out a metal cup from his bag and tried to pick up a drop of water from the cup. When the water was full, he happily took the cup to his lips and wanted to drink it. At this moment, a fierce blow broke the cup from his hand. The water at the edge of the mouth was spilled, and Genghis Khan was anxious and angry. He looked up and saw his love e hovering above his head to know that it was a ghost. Although he was very angry, he had to pick up the cup and try again. When the water reached the limit again, another storm turned the water cup over again. It turned out to be a good thing for his flying e! Genghis Khan was so angry that he was surprised: "Good! Since you are an e, you don't know how to find trouble, so I will fix this guy !" As a result, Genghis Khan picked up the water cup without a sound, and then waited for a drop of water from the beginning. When the water was full, he quietly took out the knife, put it in his hand, and slowly moved the cup closer to his mouth. The e flew at him again, and Genghis Khan quickly took out a sharp knife and killed the e. However, because he was too focused on killing the e, but neglected the cup in his hand, the cup fell into the valley. Genghis Khan could no longer take water, but he thought: Since water drips down from the mountains, there may be water storage areas, probably lakes or springs. So he endured the thirst and tried his best to climb up. After several hard times, he finally climbed to the top of the hill and found a pond where water was stored. Genghis Khan was excited and immediately bent down to get a full drink. Suddenly, when he saw the body of a poisonous snake on the side of the pool, he suddenly realized: "The Flying e helped me save my life because it repeatedly overturned the water in my cup just now, so that I did not drink the water contaminated by the Viper." Genghis Khan knew that he had done something wrong. With his self-blame, he gave up his mouth and returned to the tent. He said to himself, "from now on, I will never make a decision when I get angry !" This determination helped Genghis Khan avoid many mistakes and brought great help to his overlord.

"Anger hurts others, but the biggest harm is yourself," he said ." Once a person is angry, he or she will lose his or her mind and make wrong judgments. As a result, his or her chances of doing wrong or stupid things are greatly increased.

Many smart and accomplished people have repeatedly warned people not to be surrounded by anger. Kant said: "angry is to punish yourself with others' mistakes ." Bidaras said: "Anger begins with stupidity and ends with regret ."

No one will get angry with one who will not be able to get angry and get hurt. Therefore, Mencius said: "The sudden arrival is not surprising, and it is not angry for no reason. This is the big husband ." In fact, learning to make anger effective is not only a high degree of accomplishment in life, but also an essential capability for people to survive and develop in society.