Career planning starts from freshman year: 12358 life planning model

 

 

"Career planning" does not aim to make plans for every step of the future. Instead, it is necessary to first understand the reality and conduct the most targeted learning and training in terms of action. I gave a speech "What is a real college student" at Hefei Normal University. This speech only caused a great response on the Internet, because it is a great life plan.

Many college students wrote to me every week, involving various problems, but in general it is a growth issue. Each person's growth varies widely, with different starting points and levels. Is there a common model that helps college students develop their best plans?

Focus on a core
Many college students like to discuss the value of life with me. That's right, it's very important. This is a strategic issue, but we can't stay here. We're stuck in thinking, and we need to refine it to tactics. What value do you have? Where is your value? Your value is something that can be used by others! The exploitation by whom is the value to whom, and the exploitation by the whole world is the value of the world.

What is your most likely to be used by others? Expertise! Whether you are a college student or not, you have to have expertise. In the past, you used to call learning skills. Therefore, the core of life planning is that the major is king. The major is king, not your admission major or your teaching material major, but your own major, expertise, and special skills. A science student may have a major in writing. A Chinese student may have a major in finance or economics. A normal student may have a major in planning and marketing. Remember, it is rare to know the art of the 18 th martial arts. In the present age, you will attend the conference, and you will have more to stand out than others.

In addition, our university does not work hard on the profession, and we do not know whether it is for research or professional skills. As a result, students have nothing to gain after four years. As a result, some college students had been wandering in the society for two or three years. Finally, they went back to the Technical School and came to a "Local School". The results quickly found a job. Why? Our social occupational structure is pyramid-oriented, rather than the olive type in developed countries. This requires a large number of occupational staff to engage in simple or repetitive technical work at the middle and lower layers, the creation, planning, and management of high-end products are not yours, and so many people are not needed. So don't think how amazing college students are. It's not surprising to drive taxis for doctoral students in the United States or Canada. It's best to think of yourself as a technician with a college diploma, this avoids the trap of being overly confident.

Casting two pivot points
There are only two ways to succeed: interest and responsibility. Why? Because only Motivation determines how far a person can go, and there are only two situations that can arouse passion to provide lasting motivation. One is self-developed, namely interest, and the other is organizational oppression, that is to say, an organization has given you a mission, a stage, and a responsibility. I have compared more than one hundred students in high school and university. One is that people who insist on interest develop better, and the other is people who have been given responsibilities, whether they are big leaders or small leaders, as long as they work as cadres in the university, they develop better. There is no pivot, far from success, or even embarrassment.

Cultivate interest
From the beginning, you need to immediately change the passive learning status of High School, release yourself, and allow yourself to travel in all fields that may be of interest. The wider the information you have access, the more likely it is to resonate with the brain, the more interested it will be. Only interest allows you to find a professional for life. If you are interested in the same profession as you are looking for in the future, it is best. If you cannot match the subject for the time being, it does not matter, do not give up on both professional and interest, because interest can make you excited, increase your sensitivity, and make you more boring. Those who have not developed a major must be of little interest.

Take responsibility
The responsibility is not entirely for the Organization, but for others. The first is to take responsibility for yourself and do what you want to do, and to exercise yourself in small matters. At the same time, we actively participate in group activities, starting from organizing an activity, starting from doing something that others or others think cannot do well, starting from learning ourselves and starting from conquering a learning problem, trying to do something that I thought I could not do is to hone my sense of responsibility. It is an opportunity to start a group or take the initiative to become a student cadre. However, it is a matter of attitude. When a student cadre is not only an opportunity to exercise his or her abilities, he or she is more likely to return additional opportunities, including more opportunities for display, information, and employment. This is equivalent to a second diploma, it works better than the first diploma.

Remember: No paranoid interests, no strong responsibilities, no drama in life!

Three steps
Employment → career is the three major steps of life growth. Major is for employment, interest is for career selection, responsibility determines the success of the career, no matter which step, in fact, all jobs are in different States. This is the principle of survival, and employment is the core of life.

When talking about my college life, one of the students said that my freshman year was very passionate and followed the lifestyle of my senior high school student. But when I was in my sophomore year, I lost my interest in learning, three meals a day are good. Almost all college students share the same life model: fantasy and passion of freshman year, confusion and agitation of sophomore year, blindness and loss of junior year, and helplessness and regret of senior year. They have also made career plans. Why are they still at this point? Their plan is too broad and empty, and they have not gone through it!

How can we put the major steps of life into daily life? This is a major issue for career planning. Career planning only solves three problems.

First, the direction is the career goal. Wrong direction. Wrong person's life. Where can I find the direction? Interest, interest, and competitiveness. We should try our best to find the trend of social development. In the agricultural age, we must cultivate fields, develop machines in the industrial age, and use information tools in the information age. We have recruited many college students and said that they will work on the software. The result is none, but they only know that many companies lack office experts, it took four years to master a utility, but few did.

Second, the starting point is the specific occupation point. I like distribution for sales. This is the direction. What is the sale of tangible products? Sales of intangible products? It is subdivided into selling a lecture ticket and a small toy.

Third, strength, that is, how much energy is spent on vocational training. Daily, weekly, and monthly?

In comparison, I am interested in literature-I want to earn a career in text work-I want to start with a short story-I practice a pen every day. So far, your plan is clear and operable, so that you will collect data like a thief and never let go of every valuable inspiration, from writing a pen to submitting a contribution, post articles, train your abilities, and accumulate evidence of your abilities. Your career goals in words and the dream of life writers are the true dreams. Otherwise, your life is just a fantasy.

In order to make your life dance wonderful, you must repeat the three steps every day!

Hone five qualities
The focus of career planning is not only career, but also the growth of one person. It is difficult for you to have the opportunity to do things if you do things professionally but do not solve the problem of being a person, or it cannot be long. The personality of college students is not mature yet. It takes four years to truly grow into a social person. First, let people believe that you are a person, and then believe that you are a material, personality Training is more important than skill training. There are five types of personality qualities:

True or false: integrity, honesty, loyalty, fraud, and hypocrisy

Good and evil: kind, gentle, kind, fond, fierce, cruel

Beautiful, harmonious, refined, clean, scattered, and rough

Time Extension: patience, perseverance, impulse, procrastination, and laziness

Space Expansion: Adventure, openness, fraternity, narrow, and selfish

The so-called honing quality is a painful experience, from hypocrisy to weakness to laziness to procrastination to narrow to selfish! Just like a solid foundation, it can free us from loose, frivolous, ethereal, bubble, and other things in our bodies and forge us into an indestructible cast iron, in this way, we can assume all responsibilities and expectations.

Among the five qualities, college students lack perseverance in particular. The founder of McDonald's chain stores, Ray locks, said: "What is the only thing in the world that is irreplaceable-is it talent? Talent is everywhere, but it is useless. Is it a genius? There are even more talented people without compensation than stupid people. Is it education? How many of the countless sentient beings are educational waste! The only irreplaceable thing in the world is perseverance. Only perseverance is omnipotent ."

Accumulate eight Resources
All ideas of mankind must be based on materials. Similarly, only sufficient materials can be used to complete the construction of life buildings. Materials come from resources. Resources are your capital. There are only eight types of resources you can operate on in your life:

I. wealth resources. Money is not omnipotent. Your tuition fees consume most of your parents' painstaking efforts. It can be said that your growth, your education, and all the gains in your life are the result of wealth investment. It is wise to learn about investment, financial management, and finance in a university. No matter what kind of major you are in, it will be helpful to your life and even make you look at your life more rationally and productively.

II. Information Resources. The primary school is our core, and we also need to be extensive. It is impossible to achieve you by just a few textbooks. The University should read at least 120 books in four years, and keep close social affairs information such as newspapers and periodicals online. Only when the amount of information is large can you really find interest. However, the current affairs information can make you have an accurate grasp of employment. In the information age, it is inevitable that you will not search for the information you need. Some students are really poor, so they only have a bit of outdated information and intermediate information that is spread between students.

3. Capability resources. There are eight smart people, and all kinds of capabilities depend heavily on the training and exploration of the day after tomorrow. It is just as inexhaustible as all external resources. What can a person do, you don't know if you don't explore it.

But when society uses you, it always starts from instant judgment. How can we increase others' judgment on ourselves in an instant? Diploma and certificate, efforts should be made to obtain evidence of competence, such as computer certificate, Mandarin certificate, technical level certificate, CET-4 certificate, tour guide qualification certificate, Award Certificate for various competitions, social exercise or training certificate, etc, they are issued by credible departments and have significant social evidence.

4. quality resources. Sharpen the five major qualities, practice the sunshine mentality, instead of simply blaming others, blaming their parents, and blaming the school!

5. interpersonal resources. All undertakings are interpersonal relationships. In college, it has the greatest impact on students, not teachers. They are friends with you! Take the initiative to join the group, take photos with dormitory partners and class students, respect for different opinions, learn teamwork, learn to deal with various people, and practice Mandarin and a foreign language.

6. health resources. Health is the material and energy resources that support our life. Our success is guaranteed only when health resources are continuously available. Develop a physical exercise plan and never touch drugs. Never be infatuated with online games. It will make your body and mind Rot slowly. Please be sure to know that no company like employees who have been ill for a long time, and no one is willing to choose a person who has been ill for a long time as a partner. Girls must pay attention to personal safety at any time.

VII. Time resources. Where is your time, where is your success, learn time management, and study, Major, interpersonal relationships, emotions, health, and leisure, reasonable Allocation of energy for self-growth, social work, and part-time jobs.

8. space resources. Not everyone can realize that space is his resource. "Don't tell me how many talents you have, just tell me where you have been. Do not have to spend four years in a city, but stay in three places: dormitory, classroom, and canteen.

Life is like sailing in the sea, and life planning is the basic route. I wish you a good start! China University student employment magazine