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Everyone wants to be welcomed by others, but it is not easy to do so. Carnegie plus
Based on our own experience, we have put forward his opinions for us.
Carnegie Mellon pointed out that if we only want to show ourselves in front of others and make others interested in us, I
We will never have many real and sincere friends. Friends, real friends, do not interact in this way.
Napoleon tried this method. During his last meeting with Joseph, he said, "Joseph, I am
The luckiest person in the history of the world, but at this moment, you are the only person in the world who can depend on ." And history
Doubt whether he can depend on her.
The late famous psychologist of Vienna, Jeff yadler, wrote a book called "consciousness of life to you.
In that book, he said: "If a person is not interested in others, he has the most difficulties in his life and has the most harm to others.
Large. All the failures of mankind come from such humans ."
You may have read dozens of books about psychology and haven't seen any more meaningful words for you and me, ya
The sentence "ler" is too meaningful.
One time Carnegie card took a short story writing course at New York University.
Compile the lecture in the class. He said that he picked up dozens of novels that he had sent to his desk every day. As long as he had read a few paragraphs, he could feel
Whether the author prefers others. "If the author does not like others," he said. "Others will not like his novels ."
The excited editor said, "what I have told you now
What the priest tells you is exactly the same thing. However, remember that you must be interested in others if you
To be a successful novelist ."
If this is the case in novel writing, you can be sure to treat others, especially people.
Luxury Gerston spent a night in his dressing room when he was last on Broadway.
. Gerston, a magician recognized as a magician, has been around the world for 40 years and has repeatedly created Phantom
As a surprise to the audience. A total of 60 million people bought tickets to watch his performances, and he earned money
With a profit of almost $2 million.
Carnegie please tell him the secret of success. The success of Gerston has nothing to do with school education,
When he was very young, he left home and became a wanderer, taking a truck, sleeping in the valley, begging along the door, and sitting in the car.
Looking at the logo along the railway line, I knew the word.
Is his magic knowledge superior? He told Carnegie that there are already hundreds of books on magic techniques,
In addition, dozens of people know as much as they know.
But he has two things, while others do not. First, he can show his personality on the stage. He is
A performer who understands human nature. What he does, every gesture, every tone, every eyebrow
The rising actions were carefully previewed in advance, and their actions worked well in minutes. In addition, Zhe
Aston is interested in others sincerely. He told Carnegie Mellon that many magicians would look at the audience and say to themselves, "sitting in
The people below are a group of fools, a group of idiots; I can trick them into a group ." But the mode of Gerston is complete.
Different. Every time he stepped onto the stage, he said to himself, "I am very grateful because these people come to see me and they make
I can live a comfortable life.
I want to show them my best practices ."
He claims that he did not repeatedly say to himself when he was on stage:
"I love my audience, I love my audience ." Carnegie Mellon believes that the secret recipe for success is so simple,
This is the secret recipe used by the most famous magician in history.
Mrs. Schuman heenke said something similar to Carnegie card. Even if you are hungry and sad, even if your life is full
Many tragedies once caused her to almost kill herself and her baby -- even so unfortunate, she kept singing,
It has finally become the most outstanding ever. To be honest, one of the secrets of her success is
You are infinitely interested.
If we want to make friends, we must greet others with joy and enthusiasm. When someone calls you
You can also use the same psychology. The voice of your speech should show you how happy he is to call you. New York phone number
The company opened a class and the operator trained them to say "Good morning, please dial the number,
I am very happy to serve you ." Don't forget this when we answer the phone tomorrow.
Show your interest to others not only allows you to make many friends, but also increases the number of customers for your company
Trust. In a publication published by a North American National Bank in New York, it posted a letter from a depositor, mettland loside.
"I really want you to know how much I appreciate your staff. Everyone is so enthusiastic and enthusiastic. In
After a long time, a staff member greeted you affectionately, which was really pleasant.
"My mother lived in the school for five months last year. I often met a staff member, Ma Yi, who cares about me.
Mother also asked her to come and say ."
Whether or not Luo sidee will continue to communicate with the bank does not have to worry about it.
Charles huattel, a big bank in New York City, was ordered to write a confidential report about a company.
He knows that a person has the required materials. So Mr. huattel went to see the man. He was a big engineer.
The chairman of the company. When Mr. huattel was taken into the Chairman's office, a young lady was directed at the door.
Come out and tell the Chairman that she has no stamps for him.
"I am collecting stamps for my 12-year-old son," the Chairman explained to huttel.
Mr. huattel explained his intention and began to raise questions. The Chairman's statement is vague, general, and ambiguous.
He doesn't want to say anything in his heart. No matter how good he is, it doesn't work. The meeting was very short.
Actual Effect.
"Frankly speaking, I didn't know what to do at the time," said Mr. huattel.
. "Next, I think of what his secretary said to him-stamps, 12-year-old son ...... I also remember our silver
The foreign departments of the bank collect stamps-stamps obtained from letters from all over the world.
"The next morning, I went to him and sent a message to him. I have some stamps to give to his children. Am I very
How can I be taken in with enthusiasm? Yes. He was very polite with a smile on his face. 'My George will like this ,'
He kept talking about the stamps. "Look at this one! This is a priceless asset. '"We spent one
He talked about stamps in hours and looked at his son's photos. Then he spent more than an hour to get the information I wanted.
Tell me everything -- I didn't even propose him to do that. He told me everything he knew and told him
And ask them some questions. He also called some of his colleagues and sent some facts, numbers, and reports
And emails, all tell me. In the words of a journalist, I have made a lot of achievements ."
To express your concern, it must be sincere like other interpersonal relationships. This not only causes concern
People have some achievements. The same is true for those who receive such concerns. It is a two-way channel, and both parties will benefit from it.
One Martin kingsport, who took a Carnegie Endowment course on Long Island, New York, mentioned that a nurse gave him deep concerns.
It has profoundly influenced his life:
"It was Thanksgiving Day, and I was only ten years old. Because of my social welfare system, I live in a municipal hospital. I want to book tomorrow.
A major orthopedic operation is required. I know there will be some restrictions and pains in the next few months. My father has died, I
I live in a small apartment with my mom and rely on social welfare to survive. My mom couldn't come to see me that day.
"That day, I was totally overwhelmed by the feeling of loneliness, disappointment, and fear. I know my mom is worrying about me at home,
It's also a single person, no one with her for dinner, or even no money to have a Thanksgiving dinner.
"Tears turned in my eyes. I buried my head under my pillow and secretly cried, but all my body was suffering.
Trembling.
"A young intern nurse came to see me when he heard my cry. She took the pillow out of my head and wiped it.
My tears. She told me that she was very lonely because she had to work this day and could not be with her family. She
Asked me if I would like to have dinner with her. She took two dishes in: chicken slices, potatoes, strawberry sauce, and ice.
Ice cream dessert. She chatted with me and tried to eliminate my fear. Although she should have been off work at four, she's always been with me.
It will only take place at around 11 o'clock. She has been playing and chatting with me until I am asleep.
"I had a lot of Thanksgiving before I was ten years old, but this Thanksgiving Day will never disappear. I still remember the frustration,
The feeling of fear and loneliness suddenly disappears from the warmth of a stranger ."
Carnegie Mellon pointed out that if you want others to like you or cultivate true friendship, you need to help others and
Help yourself and keep this principle in mind.
"Expressed sincere concern for others ."
A person's facial expression is more important than wearing it. Smile can shine on all people who see it, like the dark clouds
Yang brings warmth to people.
Carnegie was given a banquet in New York. One of the guests-a woman who was given a heritage leave
Each person has a good impression. She wasted a lot of money on the black mink coat, diamond and Pearl. However,
She has no efforts on her own face. Her face is sour and selfish. She does not find what every man sees
What's important: a woman's facial expression is more important than the clothes she wears.
Charles Shi kaobo told Carnegie that his smile was worth $1 million. He may be just underestimating it.
Because of the character and charm of Shi kaobo, his talents that make others like him are almost all about his remarkable achievements.
The reason for the success. One of his favorite factors in his personality is his touching smile.
One afternoon, Carnegie was with Morris kelai. Carnegie Mellon was disappointed. He was unhappy and silent.
It's totally different from what Carnegie Mellon expects. It's just like the sense of being changed when he smiles.
The sun broke through the clouds. If it wasn't because of a smile, Morris Mille might still be a furniture maker in Paris.
Like his father and brother.
Carnegie Mellon believes that action is more powerful than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy.
I'm glad to meet you ."
That's why dogs are so popular. They are so happy to see us, so we will
Nice to see them.
A baby's smile has the same effect.
Have you stayed in the hospital's waiting room? Look around the patients and their gloomy faces. From reton, Missouri
Doctor Steven shibao mentioned that there was a spring in which his waiting room was crowded with customers and pets.
Prepare for vaccination. No one is chatting, maybe everyone thinks more than one thing, instead of sitting
It's a waste of time. About six or seven customers are waiting, and another female customer comes in and takes her nine
A month old child and a kitten. Fortunately, she was sitting next to a gentleman who was waiting impatiently.
. But he noticed that the child was looking at him with his head up and smiling at him with no evil. How did this gentleman respond?
Like me, of course, he smiled at the child. Then he talked to the female about her children and his
Sun Tzu is here. After a while, the people in the entire waiting room chatted, and the entire atmosphere changed from boring and stiff
Pleasant.
An unsincere smile cannot lie to anyone. We know that laughter is mechanical and annoying. Card
Basically speaking, it is a kind of real smile, a kind of warm smile, a kind of smile from the heart, this kind
Smile can sell well in the market. Professor James mcnell, a psychologist at the University of Michigan, talked about his
Smiling people are more effective in management, teaching, and marketing, and can cultivate the next happy person.
Generation. A smile is more appealing than a frown. This is why we should replace punishment with encouragement in teaching.
A New York department store personnel manager told Carnegie we that he would rather hire a person with a cute smile than finish reading
The school girl does not want to hire a philosophical doctor with a poker face.
Laughter has a big impact, even if it cannot be seen by itself. A telephone company in the United States has a project called "voice
"In this project, the telephone company suggests that you keep smiling while answering the phone, while you" smile"
It is transmitted by sound.
The manager of a computer company in Cincinnati, Ohio, told us how he could find a hard-to-fill gap.
An appropriate candidate.
"I almost had a headache finding a computer doctor for my company. Finally, I found a very good candidate, just
I want to graduate from Pudu University. After several phone calls, I know that there are several other companies that want him to go
The company is big and famous. I was very happy when he accepted the job. When he started working, I asked him,
Why choose our company by giving up other opportunities?
He paused and said, "I think it's because the managers of other companies are cold on the phone, and the business is very bad,
That makes me feel like another business transaction. But your voice sounds like you really want me
Become a member of your company. You can believe that I laughed while listening to the phone ."
A chairman of one of the largest rubber companies in the United States said that according to his observations
I am very interested in my career, otherwise it will be difficult to succeed. This real-industry leader can answer that sentence by just a decade
The famous old saying does not have much confidence. "I know some people who have succeeded because they started their own business.
Waiting for high spirits. Later, I saw these people become slaves of work and bored. They are not interested at all,
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You must have a good time when you meet others, if you want them to have a good time to meet you.
Carnegie Mellon encourages thousands of merchants to spend a week, twenty-four hours a day, all focusing on others.
Smile, and then return to the class to talk about the results. What is the situation? This is one written by William stanja.
He is a member of the New York securities OTC market. His example is not unique. In fact, he is
Typical examples of hundreds of people.
"I have been married for over 18 years," stanja said in the letter. "during this time, I got up in the morning,
When I am going to work, I seldom smile at my wife or say a few words to him. I'm the most unhappy man on Broadway.
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"Since you want me to share a conversation with a smile, I decided to give it a week. Therefore, the second
When I combed my hair in the morning, I looked at my face in the mirror and said to myself, 'You want to frown on your face today
Empty.
Smile. You start smiling now. 'Good morning, dear, when I sit down for breakfast
'Say hello to my wife and smile at her.
"You said she might be surprised. You underestimated her response. She was stunned when she was confused. Me
She said, since then, she has seen my attitude as usual. And I do this every morning, there are already two
The month is over.
"This has changed my attitude. In the past two months, our family has gained more happiness than last year.
"Now, when I go to work, I will smile at the elevator administrator in the building and say" good morning "to me.
Greet the guard at the door of the building with a smile. I smile at the cashier of the underground train.
When I stand on the exchange, I smile at people I have never seen before.
"I soon discovered that everyone smiled at me. I treat them with a pleasant attitude
People who complain. I smiled while listening to their complaints, and the problem was easy to solve. I found
Smile brings me more income and more money every day.
"I shared an office with another broker. One of his employees is a very cute young man, I
Tell him the philosophy I learned recently, and I am very happy with the result. He admitted that when
When I first shared my office with him, he thought I was a very unhappy person-he didn't change it until recently.
Change your opinion. He said that when I smile, I am full of kindness.
"I also got rid of the habit of criticizing him. I only appreciate and praise others, not despise others. I have stopped
Talk about what I want. I am trying to look at things from others' points of view, and this really changes my life. Change
A completely different person, a happier person, and a richer person are rich in friendship and happiness --
These are really important things ."
Keep in mind that this letter is written by a sophisticated stock broker who has traveled all over the world.
Trading securities in foreign markets for a living-this line is too difficult, with failures each hundred.
What if you don't like smiling? There are two ways: first, force yourself to smile. If you are
A single person, forced yourself to whistle, or hum a song, shows that you seem very happy, it is easy to make you
Happy. The following is the statement of the late Professor William James of Harvard University:
"Action seems to follow the feeling, but action and feeling actually work side by side. Action is at will
But we can indirectly control the feelings that are not directly controlled by the will.
"So if we are unhappy, the active way to be happy is to smile happily and say
It seems like you are enjoying yourself .........."
Everyone in the world is pursuing happiness. There is a reliable way to get happiness, that is, to control
Get your thoughts. Happiness does not depend on external situations, but on internal situations.
It determines whether you are happy or unhappy, not what you have, who you are, where you are, or where you are
What you do, But what you think. For example, two people may do the same thing in the same place; both parties may have
The same amount of money and prestige-but one may be sad and the other may be happy. Why?
Because different people have different ideas.
In the hot tropical area, the poor rural slaves farm with their original farm tools, and on them I
We see a lot of happy faces. But these happy faces are just like us in New York, Chicago, and La.
What I saw in the air-conditioning office.
"There is nothing, either good or bad," Shakespeare said. "But thoughts make it different ."
Read the Sage's advice from ABB Hamad:
"Every time you go out, your chin is indented, your head is raised high, and your lungs are filled with air.
With a smile and greeting your friends, Every handshake is powerful. Don't worry about being misunderstood. Don't waste a minute.
Think about your enemies. Try to be sure what you like to do in your mind; then, in a clear direction, you
Will directly reach the target. Think about the great and beautiful things you like to do, and then, when the time passes
Wait, you will find that you have the opportunity to realize your hopes. Just as coral worms need to extract from the tide
The same material. Imagine the one you want to be, the one you want to be honest and useful.
Every hour will turn you into a special person ...... The idea is supreme.
Maintain a correct outlook on life-a brave, Frank, and pleasant attitude. Correct thinking is equal
Is creation. Everything comes from Hope, and every sincere prayer will come true. In our hearts
What you think will become. Indent your chin and raise your head. We are the gods of Tomorrow ."
The ancient Chinese were so smart that they had a thorough view of things in the world. They had a motto,
We should keep it in our hats. Then the motto says, "make a fortune ." (A person without smiling faces,
You cannot do business .)
Your smile is a good messenger. Your smile can shine on everyone who sees it. For those seen all day
For those who frown, frown, and turn a blind eye, your smile is like the sun that passes through the dark clouds; especially for those who
People who are under pressure from their superiors, customers, teachers, parents, or children can smile to help them understand that everything is promising.
Hope, that is, there is joy in the world.
Speaking of doing business, frankman Frech has made a wide range of projects for oppenpenpenpenhus and Karin.
We have provided us with a practical philosophy. This is a compliment to a smile.
The value of smile in Christmas is nothing, but it creates a lot of results.
It enriches those who accept, and will not make those who give poor.
It is generated in a flash, but sometimes it gives people a permanent memory.
No one needs it, and no one needs it.
It creates happiness at home, creates goodwill in the business world, and is a password between friends.
It is the best medicine for nature to rest tirelessly, the day of the depressed person, the sunshine of the wounded and the wounded.
But it has nowhere to buy, nowhere to purchase, nowhere to borrow, nowhere to steal, because before you give it to others,
There is no practical value.
If our shop assistant is too tired to give you a smile during the rush shopping in the last minute of Christmas,
Can you please keep a smile?
Because people who cannot smile need to smile the most! Therefore, if you want others to like you, follow
This rule:
"Smile ".
Carnegie Mellon emphasizes the importance of remembering others' names. Remember the name of the other party and call it out.
A clever compliment. However, if he forgets his name or writes it wrong, he will be in a very bad position.
Sometimes it is really difficult to remember a person's name, especially when it is not easy to read.
Most people do not want to remember it, thinking: Forget it! It's easy to remember. Side Lee
Wei visited a customer with a very difficult name. His name is nigoudemas palaphan, and others only call him "Ni
". Li Wei told us: "Before I visited him, I carefully read his name several times. When I use
The full name called him: 'Good morning, Mr. neudás paraphan ', he got stuck. After a few minutes
No answers. Finally, tears rolled down his cheeks. He said, 'Mr Li Wei, I have been in this country for 15 years,
No one will ever try to name me with my real name. '"What is the reason for the success of anzu Carnegie card?
He is called the steel king, but he knows little about steel manufacturing. He has hundreds of people
He knows about steel.
But he knows how to behave. That's why he made a fortune. When he was a child, he showed organizational talent.
And the genius of leadership. When he was ten years old, he also found that people were incredibly important to their names. He used
This discovery won the cooperation of others. Example: when he was a child in Scotland, he caught
A rabbit. That is a mother rabbit. He soon found a nest of rabbits, but there was nothing to feed them. But he has
A wonderful idea, he told the children nearby that if they find enough alfalfa and dandelion to feed them
Some rabbits, he named them by their names.
This method is too good for you.
Several years later, he earned millions of yuan in the business world using the same human weakness. For example, he wants
Sell the steel track to the Pennsylvania railway company, and agg Tomson is the chairman of the company. Therefore,
Anzu Carnegie had built a huge steel plant in Pittsburgh named "IgG Tomson steel plant ."
Anzu Carnegie is a secret to his leader's talents by remembering and attaching importance to the names of his friends and business people.
He is proud to be able to name many of his employees. He proudly said that when he was in charge
The steel plant has never had a strike.
The Chairman of Texas Commercial Corporation Limited, Bandon Lavo, believes that the bigger the company is, the colder it will be. He thinks the only
To make it warm, remember a person's name. He said that if a manager told me that he could not remember others
The name tells me that he cannot remember a very important job and is doing his work on quicksand.
Karen Cosi from Rocky verdis, California, is a global airline flight attendant who often exercises
Remember the names of passengers in the cabin and call them when serving them. This made her highly praised and told directly
She also told the company. A passenger wrote to the airline saying, "I haven't been on Global Airlines for a long time.
The plane has arrived, but from now on, it must be a global airline plane. You make me think your airline
It seems to be exclusive, and this is of great significance to me ."
On the other hand, pydski makes the black chef on the pup gate train very important because he always calls
He is Mr. Cooper ". Five or five times, passski traveled to the United States and played performances before enthusiastic audience in various regions.
Once he had a private compartment, the cook prepared supper for him after the concert. In all
In the past few years, Paterson never called him "George" in the traditional American style.
The old official method called Mr. Cooper makes Mr. Cooper very happy.
People are proud of their names, so they will survive at any cost. Even if
The grumpy RT banan, who was also disappointed to inherit banan's surname and was willing to give it to his grandson
Ch Xi Li is $25,000, if the latter is willing to claim to be "banan" Xi Li.
For centuries, nobles and entrepreneurs have supported artists, musicians, and writers in order
To them.
The most valuable collections of libraries and museums come from those who are worried that their names will
People who disappear in history. The New York Public Library holds collection of books from the family of asdu and the family of Lee zhukes; saved at the Metropolitan Museum
The names of benjiming ARTMAN and JP Morgan are added to almost every church with colored glass windows to commemorate
Donor name.
Most people do not remember others' names, just because they refuse to spend the necessary time and energy to concentrate, repeat, and
The names are planted in their hearts, and they create an excuse for themselves: they are too busy.
But they may not be busier than Franklin Roosevelt, but he takes the time to remember, and says that every
Man's name, even the car mechanic he saw once.
Franklin Roosevelt knows that the simplest, most obvious, and most important way to get a favor is to remember
Others' names make others feel important --
But how many of us are doing this?
When we were introduced to a stranger, talking for a few minutes and saying goodbye, we were not even sure
Party name.
The first lesson a politician wants to learn is: "Remember that the name of a voter is political talent.
It is not running ."
Remember others' names. The importance in business and social networking is almost the same as in politics.
The Emperor of France is also the nephew of Napoleon-Napoleon III proudly said that even if he is still able
Remember everyone he knows.
His skills are very simple. If he didn't hear the other party's name clearly, he would say, "Qian. I do not
." If he encounters an unusual name, he says, "How is it written ?"
During the conversation, he will repeat the name of the person several times and try to keep it consistent with the characteristics of the person,
The expression is associated with the appearance.
If the other party is an important character, Napoleon will go further. When there's no one next to him, he just takes that
My personal name is written on a piece of paper. Take a closer look and remember it deeply in his heart, and then tear the piece of paper away.
In this way, his name is not just an eye or an ear.
It all takes time, but "courtesy" Emerson said, "It is made up of small sacrifices ."
It is not the privilege of a king or company manager to remember others' names and use them.
This is true for all people. Ken nodinghan, an employee of India's General Motors factory, usually eats lunch at the company's restaurant.
Meal. He found that the lady who worked behind the counter was always sad. She has made sandwiches for almost two hours,
He is another sandwich for her. He said what he wanted. She called a piece of ham on the scale and then gave it
A few slices of lettuce and a few slices of potato chips.
The next day, he went to the queue again. The same person has the same face. The difference is that he sees her famous brand. He
Smile and ask her: yunisi, then tell her what she wants. She really forgot what scales don't scale. She gave him a bunch of ham,
Three slices of lettuce and a bunch of potato chips are about to get out of the plate.
We should pay attention to the miracle in a name, and understand that the name is totally related to us.
No one can replace this person. A name can make a person stand out and appear independent of many people. Our Institute
The requirements and the information we want to transmit are especially important as long as we start from the name. No matter
As a waitress or General Manager, when we interact with others, the name will show its magical effect.
Therefore, if you want others to like you, remember this rule:
"A person's name is the sweetest and most important voice in any language ."
Carnegie Mellon believes that the best way to impress people is to talk to him about his most precious things. When you do this,
It will not only be popular, but also extend life.
Anyone who once visited Roosevelt will be surprised by his erdition. Whether you are a cowboy, politician, or
A diplomat can talk about your expertise. In fact, this principle is very simple. When Roosevelt knows the special interests of visitors
After interest, he will study the materials in advance as a topic.
Roosevelt knows that the best way to grasp the hearts of the people is to talk about what the other party is interested in.
Mr. duwino, the New York banking giant, said: "I have carefully studied the series on interpersonal relationships and found that
I decided to find out this person's interests and find a way to arouse his enthusiasm ."
Therefore, if you want others to like you, you must grasp the following secrets:
Learn about each other's interests and chat with him about his favorite topics.
Carnegie Mellon pointed out that everyone you meet thinks that he is better than you in some aspects.
The way to make him happy is to make him understand that he is an important character without any trace.
There is an important principle in human behavior. If you follow it, you will bring happiness to yourself. If you violate it
It will fall into endless setbacks. This rule is: "respect others and satisfy each other's sense of accomplishment ."
As Professor Dewey once said: the most urgent desire is to pay attention to it.
Carnegie OLA has repeatedly stressed that this force has prompted mankind to create civilization.
After thousands of years of meditation, philosophers realized the mysteries of human behavior. In fact, this is not a new invention,
What the ancient sages and Chinese and foreign philosophers once and again taught us is: do not do what you want. Others, also applied to people.
You want people around you to like you, you want your opinions to be accepted, and you want to hear the real praise, you
I hope others will pay attention to you ......
Let us observe this rule first: How do you want others to treat you and how do you treat others first.
Don't start to stick to this rule after you become an official or take a big career. As long as you follow it anytime, anywhere,
It will bring you amazing results.
In fact, each person has his or her own advantages and merits worth learning for others,
And express sincere praise to resolve many conflicts and tensions.
If you want to be happy every day, you must not blame your lady for her family instinct, nor take her or your mother as an alternative.
. On the contrary, you should always praise her for managing her home in a well-organized manner, and make it public that you are lucky to marry
A woman with both inner and external beauty should not complain even when the steak looks like sheepskin and the bread looks like black charcoal,
Just saying that these things are not as good as she is, she will work hard in the kitchen to achieve what you expect.
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Of course, don't start doing this suddenly-otherwise she will doubt.
You can buy a bunch of flowers or a box of sugar from this evening or tomorrow night.
Smile gently ...... If every couple can do this, will there be so many divorce in the world?
Therefore, if you want others to like you, the other solution is:
Respect others, let the other party think that they are an important person, to satisfy his sense of accomplishment.
Dr. Charles ilitt, president of Harvard University, can become an outstanding university principal because he does not
Limited respect and interest for others. One day, a college student named cranton went to the principal's office to apply for a student loan.
He was approved, and he was very grateful to ilitt for giving thanks. As he was about to exit, ilitt said, "Do you have time?
Please sit down for a while ." Then the student was surprised to hear the principal say, "you cook in your room,
Yes? I did it when I was in college. I have done beef and lion heads. Have you ever done it? If it's a bad cook
What about delicious food !" Next, he told the students in detail how to choose beef and how to cook it with the spark.
Sample chopped, and then put it cold to eat again.
"You must have enough food ." The principal finally said.
An amazing Harvard University Principal! Who will dislike such a person?
Anyone, butchers, bakers, and kings like those who appreciate and care about them. World War I
At the end, Emperor William fled to the Netherlands to save his life. The people hated him.
Few want to let him down, or burn him to death, but a little boy wrote a simple and sincere letter
This emperor dehuang. The little boy said, "No matter what other people do, I will always like William as my emperor ." This one
The letter moved the Emperor dehuang deeply. He invited the little boy to visit him with his mother. Soon, dehuang was even a boy
The child's mother is married. This is a legend of the truth. We can't figure out a way
Why? People need to be interested in them.
We strive to learn how to work for others and do things that do not hesitate to spend time, energy, and sincerity on imagining others.
To get real friends.