Cherish is happiness [Autumn breeze]

I like this very much: you are not the best, I only love you. After careful consideration, this shows how optimistic, open-minded, rational, and persistent love is! People say that since you were born, there was a destiny for you. But how can we find your perfect partner? Modern people cannot stick to the fate of the day, and cannot hold their breath with the fleeting youth and burning mood, right? As a result, he or she often barely accepts him or her from the wind, but over and over again) compare it with the perfect idea in your mind. They do not know how to cherish what they are and what they already have. They do not know that what they have got is actually the most true happiness and love!
What is love? The philosopher said, love is when you know that he is not the one you worship, and understand that he still has various shortcomings, but still chooses him, it is not because of his shortcomings that all of him is abandoned.
If there is such a person, he is absolutely perfect in your mind, there is no defect, you respect him but want to be close to him, this feeling can not be called "love ", it is "Worship ". Worship requires the creation of an idol, just like a thing without blood or flesh; but love does not need it, love is really cut, can be touched with your hands. Love is really easy to touch and feel with your hands. Love is because you know that he is dressed like an old man and want to show the crowd with him. You despise businessmen, but he is a lovely little merchant; it is a dirty lunch box and sneakers that you are fond of but willing to wash for him.
After graduating from college, a girl in xiuhui double school refused the pursuit of many outstanding boys, but finally chose a humble and short colleague. Many people around us think it is incredible that even her girl friend doesn't understand her. But she was very calm. In the eyes of people who were confused, she put on a wedding dress and walked into the "besieged city ". Many years later, when her classmates were tired of creating their own corners and disappointed with the destruction of their original fantasies, they discovered that: the girl was not as miserable as they had previously imagined, but still brilliant as she was trapped in a mediocre circle, even more mature and profound than before. They walked hand in hand to everyone, and the attachments and calm in their eyes made everyone feel at ease! This lady tells everyone that her man is not the best and has many shortcomings, but she knows this before she accepts him, and she is willing, I want to entrust my feelings to a man who silently helps her when she encounters setbacks, enthusiastically encourages her when she is frustrated, and never asks for any return.
From this, you can think about which one would you rather choose if you have a persistent and lasting feeling and a "feeling" that is instantly lost? -- There are many outstanding boys and beautiful girls in the world, but there is only one feeling for you;
Do not change your love because of others' eyes. Do not live in others' eyes and lose yourself! Feelings cannot be greedy or dream. Therefore, we are waiting for our own, not earth-shattering love. After waiting, we will stay together for the rest of our lives.
Yes, no love is perfect, and no love is flawless. Love and lover can only be genuine. When, so that we can calmly think about these things? Think about the ridiculous and naive pursuit of perfection?
You are not the best. I only love you! The feeling of reading this sentence is like a pair of old people with vicissitudes of life walking in the warm sunshine with their hands in hand, with memories of the past in a happy face ...... The past is far away, and memories are always there.
Knowing how to cherish everything beside you is the greatest happiness in life.