Courage to choose

Courage to choose

Due to our life or work, we have chosen a path different from our own ideal. Maybe we will be interested in this new road, and may struggle on this new road....

 

Today, I saw a friend Strong), tells the story of some of his processes, and has some feelings in his mind, but he cannot casually impose some of his thoughts on it. Therefore, I wrote the text in this article. One is to give some replies to my friends, and I also hope that my friends in the yard will give me more information.PertinentThe suggestions are also brainstorming. I hope you can see this article.ArticleWe hope to trust ourselves and support you.

 

Like me, Alibaba Cloud is also engaged in development. We met each other a few years ago, and we can also talk about it. It can be said that it is similar. Later, I was rarely contacted because of my work and other places.

 

Today, I know that I have never continued to develop. For some reason, I have become a test engineer, but I still want to develop technology. In his letter, he mentioned that he is very depressed and is currently working far away. Development is a little far away.CodeIt is rarely written, and it is increasingly unfamiliar with technology. I once wanted to jump out for development, but every time I went to an interview, people had doubts: "Can I do development after I did a test ?", In addition, I have never been on the technical road for a long time, and I feel a little confused.

I think of myself when I see a strong situation.ItAt that time, I entered a very good foreign company with a well-known salary. At that time, I was full of hope and was ready to devote myself to development and realize my own ideas. Who knows, at last, the company arranged itself in the testing position. At that time, I tried my best to persuade myself: to do the test, let's do the test. It is also a software-related job. So I did this, and I could switch to development one day, but I slowly realized that I was not passionate about the test. I didn't learn the technology that I was passionate about.Test Case, test plan.

 

Finally, I was "invited" by the company. MyLeaderHe said to me: your thinking and personality are not suitable for working in foreign companies, and your thinking cannot be opened, nor are you suitableItDevelopment, and other industries may not be able to wait. We can indeed leave you and give you that salary, but you just want that salary every month.

 

At that time, the whole person was really stunned: by a well-known companyLeaderIn this way, it denies all of me, and even the rest of my life. Just enteredItIt is undoubtedly a major blow to me. I began to doubt myself and doubt my path. I think that no matter how tired and unsatisfactory I have been studying technology over the years, I have survived. Is it the end of today?

 

At that time, I was unwilling to live as I said. If I give up here, I will regret it and hate myself in the future....

Finally, I chose development and kept going to the present!

Later, I tried constantly and found that, for the sake of life, I could really support myself by doing things I don't like, but I have never put my mind into it, and I have never been passionate, when the time passes and you want to change it, you will find more concerns. At that time, you can't help yourself. "Where is the heart, where is the harvest?".

Sometimes it is really difficult to make a decision, because once you choose, the consequences of failure are borne by yourself. At that time, I had to get up, support myself, and support my family.

Strong. Everyone's history and thoughts are different. They can be used for reference, but don't imitate it. Because I was still young and can afford to lose in my decision. My personal experience does not explain anything, so I published this article. Everyone has a lot of disappointments, no matter how many people give you suggestions and help, but at last, the decision is yours!

Strong. I hope you will not blame me for publishing this article. I hope my friends in the courtyard will give more comments and give me more references! Thank you!

 

Thank you for leaving the following message:In fact, sometimes you really want to do one thing. When you do it, you may find that, like in the previous test, you have no passion for a long time. Whatever you do, the most important thing is to do a good job in the present, to do it well, and to gain the recognition of others without knowing it, so as to have confidence and determination. We have no way to change the reality. Let's change our mindset. Come on, I believe you will be able to defeat yourself and smile at everything tomorrow!

 

Thank you for leaving the following message:In fact, many people share the same experience with you. It's just that this society allows me to do this job we are not good. Everyone has the truth that he exists in this society. Confusion is only temporary. Come on, bro. Do not give up on yourself. The road will be long in the future. People say that people in their twenties are confused. I started to work hard in my thirds. In his forties, capital was used to make money. I think we have no chance yet.

 

Thanks for the following message:The most important thing in life is choice. Too many choices make us feel overwhelmed. I think everything happens best. Living in the present is the best of ourselves, you are right. Interest can be gradually cultivated. When we are not clear about our real interests, we do not know what we really want! Come on, friend!

 

Thanks to Frank. Liu: the message is as follows:The landlord and your friends should think about the following questions. First: Why is the test so technical? Is it because you have done this thing? Does it mean you have no technology or you have no intention to do it? I think there are still a lot of technical things to be done in depth for testing. If you do not have any technical skills, consider changing a place or position for your long-term consideration.
Second: Why do I want to develop instead of testing? In this case, you don't like to do something, so you don't want to do it with your own care. As a result, you cannot do things well, causing your dislike, eventually formed such a vicious circle. Think about whether this is the case. Think about it. If you do something tedious and error-prone during development, will you give up after encountering difficulties and blows?
If you are determined to like development, you can find other opportunities while working. If you want to transfer jobs within your company, you can. The truth is that simple. If you don't do it, you have to look at yourself.

 

Thanks for the Referer:The message is as follows ~
For the first job, I chose to be Party A. Every day, I am very idle and my salary is very good. however, I always feel that people are very empty and there is no sense of being down-to-earth. I am the kind of things that I like, and I will have two bright eyes and don't know why. Now, I am struggling with whether or not to change my mind and listen to my feelings when I am young and have the capital to spend money.
PS: I am deeply touched
"It seems that each of us limits ourselves and lives in all kinds of pain points. However, the reason why we are stuck in this kind of pain is that this kind of pain actually has great benefits. We cannot leave the pain because we are reluctant to do this ."

 

Thank you, Rain Shan.The message is as follows:After all, it is still a mental issue.
After all, we are no longer a child, and we cannot do anything we don't like when we were young.
I always think that, if you do what you like, you should stick to it even if it is boring. If your current job is not your favorite, do it well.
Remember not to be impetuous. Calm down, think carefully about the following or what to do in the future, and then make up your mind to do it.

 

Thanks, Coby.The message is as follows:Being able to do what you like and feed yourself will always be the happiest, but not many people can feel this happiness at the beginning of their careers. So as long as you determine that you have been pursuing the ultimate, not the extreme, and that the goal is not illusory, you can force yourself to fight together.