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First of all, my answer is: the high-class lifestyle, compared with the civilian classes and the new rich, the core difference is that
due to their physiological reasons, they will naturally be extremely fastidious about the quality of eating, wearing, using, degrees, living, doing, and ritual.。 In some regions (such as East Asia), the characteristic of collective culture makes "publicity" a Bad thing. Therefore, the high society in these areas, the "clothing" and "line" and so on may be "outsiders" to see, will maintain a superficial low-key. But low-key does not mean that they do not pay attention to the quality of clothing and lines.
Looking at all the answers, only Mr. Sato's description of the lifestyle of the high society in Japan coincides with what I said above. and other people's answers, I can clearly say, are not the essence of the high society lifestyle.
But it's not enough to just give the answer above. I believe we are still waiting for my explanation: physiological reasons? You're not kidding me!
I'm not joking. In fact, simply explaining "physical causes" is not enough. To make this answer truly perfect, we have to explain two big questions:
Question 1: By what definition: this group because of physiological factors and extremely pay attention to Chichuanyongdu people, is the upper class society. What other people say is not.
Can't there be a different way of defining it?
For example, we define BAI Fangli old people, Master Yan, Mother Teresa, who has the lofty moral sentiments, is the true high people, and why not?
And the great rich Cao Dewang such philanthropists. Not only has a strong economic strength and lofty social status, but also charitable, respected, simple life. He does not pay attention to the quality of life of Chichuanyongdu and other individuals, which is also a clear advantage, explaining his plain living. Why would he not belong to the upper class?
What is it that defines the upper society? At this point, we tend to draw some specious conclusions. such as inheritance, descent, accomplishment, upbringing, social circle, and so on.
Even Mr. Sato made a mistake at this point. such as the last paragraph of his answer:
Perhaps, the newly-prosperous wealthy will be extremely wealthy, but they have never entered the "upper rung". Because, "show off their wealth", and "without nourishment", is the most undesirable of the burrow.
Mr. Sato mistook the humility and understatement of East Asian culture as the label of the upper class. That's not right. If you follow such a standard, then
there's no upper-class society in the Arab world.。 According to this standard, the Arab world's most prominent Saudi royal family is not considered high society. Because in their dictionaries, there is no "low-key" word. They are the world's most extravagant and extravagant show.
If there is a definition of "high society" standard, the family of Mr. Sato is defined as a high society, but the Saudi royal family excluded. That standard should obviously be abandoned. Should we have no objection to this?
So it is very important to make the definition clear. It helps us to understand the nature of the life style of the upper society profoundly. But trying to figure it out is not so easy, and everyone is too easy to take for granted.
Question 2: Why should the high society adopt this kind of extreme fastidious chichuanyongdu to live a salute way of life.
If you don't understand the problem, it's probably two senses to read Mr. Sato's answer.
Yearning to think: Wow! So mysterious! All right, there's pie! It's so big! Behavior is not general, and when I have money, I also want to do such a fastidious person.
Despise the feeling: tedious! Sentimental! Contrived! Put it on! It's going to puke! I have seen some super-rich, assets XX billion, others so rich, also live ordinary life, not so loaded!
These two views, in fact, do not understand the nature of this way of life: not to pretend, not to make themselves look very pie, not to flaunt wealth, but also not much noble. Just because of the physiological reasons, naturally formed.
Next, allow me to try to explain the two issues clearly.
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First of all, I want to exclude the discussion of the following two kinds of special cases.
The first case: the group (or stratum) is defined externally by certain criteria. It is meaningless to the members of the group.
For example, there is an academic organization that studies the changing curve of the total population over time in the Shanghai administrative area. For the purpose of this study, the organization has been in the Shanghai administrative Region of the people, a code name, called "Shanghai people." Then the definition of "Shanghainese" is only meaningful for the study of the organization. And for those who are defined, there is no point in it. I am in Shanghai now, I am Shanghai people, I go to Beijing tomorrow, it is not Shanghai people, and I returned to Shanghai the day after tomorrow, I became a Shanghai people. It doesn't make sense for me to be a "Shanghai man".
The second case: the group (or stratum) is a spontaneous social circle and a circle of friends. It is meaningful and social for group members. But it is unattractive to people outside the group.
For example, people who study Oracle have spontaneously formed an academic circle. In this circle, we share experiences, learn from each other and discuss and grow together. The significance of its existence is to help and promote the academic research of everyone. If you do not belong to this circle, your research on Oracle will be more difficult. But, after all, Oracle is a niche interest. This group is unattractive to outsiders. Most of us do not study Oracle for a lifetime, and we live happily ever after. We don't want to join any of Unwinnable's Oracle academic circles!
And we are here to discuss the "upper class", it cannot be the above two cases. The reasons are as follows:
You can take for granted some conditions to define "high society", such as "rich but not show off", immediately by the Saudi royal family to be drilled. You can also continue to better debater said, "according to my definition, the Saudi royal family is not a true upper society", other people also take you no way. But I think, in this way, the discussion of this whole question will be meaningless. Eventually will be reduced to say each words, the respective definition, each loaded force, each show I know xxx. In fact, many of the answers to this question are exactly what they do. Have said that I know a rich is high society, have said I know a red second generation is high society, have said that ancestors have inheritance is high society, there is said that China has no upper-class society. Anyway is to give a definite definition, neither prove the rationality of this definition, also do not prove its meaning, not to ask the client how to see. Are the rich and the red two generations mentioned that they feel they are high society themselves? If so, what is the reason they think they are a high society? What are the benefits of being a member of the upper class? Wait, wait. No one says that, no one cares about the opinions of the parties ...
So, if this discussion is to make sense, the "high society" we are discussing cannot be the first case: its existence is meaningless to its members.
I assume unconditionally
"Upper Society" is not an imaginary external definition, and the existence of this class itself is meaningful to its members., I'm looking for this meaning. Even if the final conclusion is: such a meaningful high society does not exist. But at least, the process of pursuing this conclusion is meaningful. Can you see what I mean?
Let's look at the Chinese word "upper society" and the English words "High life" and "upper class". Although vague in definition, we can only rely on the business of hope to be clear,
It must be something that most people aspire to.。 It is definitely not the kind of circle that the Oracle academic circles entertain and outsiders have no interest in.
Therefore, "upper society" can not be the second case.
Why should I exclude these two cases at the outset? Because I read all the answers and comments on the subject. There are a lot of people to the pure pedigree, living habits of inheritance, family name inheritance, good education and cultivation, noble moral sentiment, modesty and so on, and so on, as is the definition of high society important factors.
In fact, the high society defined by these factors will only appear in the two excluded cases.
Let's imagine someone is an ordinary white-collar worker in Beijing, and his parents are working. But his ancestors were the people of the Republic, and then the ancestors of the Qing aristocracy. This person has a pure "noble blood", even the family has inherited a lot of ancestral habits, and retains some of the ancestors of some of the goods (in the antique market, but also to sell not old and young money). But if we were to define him as a high-class society, he might be amused by himself. If he agreed to be defined as "rogue" can get 10,000 dollars, I think he will not hesitate to agree. Anyway, you give me money, I don't take white. You say I am a high society, I am really upper class? You call me a gangster, I'm a gangster? You're insane, you!
Let us assume that the clerk of an advertising company is a direct descendant of Prince Gong. The janitor of a steel factory is a direct descendant of the Prince of alcohol. They are all proud of their royal lineage. A day to meet, feel more than the relatives still kiss. In their efforts, together with the Manchu 12 big iron hat King including the green Hat Wang's direct descendants. Everyone can see each other happy, together formed a group of QQ, called "Dick Fried Days of royal descendants!" "It's a pleasure to talk in there every day." They did spontaneously and formed a closed social circle, with pure Royal blood in the circle. However, no outsider is interested in this circle and wants to join in.
Besides the noble moral sentiment, the good education level and the accomplishment. These things, a person possessed is to have, and what circle, group, stratum unrelated. You define him as the "upper class", which means nothing to him. The upper class could not bring him anything. So, this definition belongs entirely to the word game. Instead of defining them as high-class people, they can be defined as noble people, great people, stupid people, and fools. Depends entirely on the mood and vocabulary of the person who defines it. 10,000 step back said, even with these qualities of people, in order to avoid the low-quality crowd, and spontaneously formed a "high circle." The circle is also unattractive to outsiders. Vulgar people, no upbringing, no moral sentiment, the same life is very good, they do not aspire to what "noble people's Circle"
Therefore, pure descent, the inheritance of living habits, the inheritance of family names, good education and cultivation, noble moral sentiments, modesty and low-key, and so on appear to be related to "high society" factors, because only lead to the above two cases, all are excluded from the definition of upper society.
A liberal arts student may be unaccustomed to my exclusion. If we look at various documents from the library, we can restore the so-called "aristocratic life" from all angles. There will always be a similar picture: good economic conditions, lofty social status, ancestral identity and lineage, excellent education, in the details of the quality of life is very fastidious. Wait, wait. What is the reason for most of these factors, you say the exclusion is excluded?
The reason is simple.
From ancient times to modern times, due to the high degree of social stratum solidification, blood, education, morals and other factors have always been and wealth and status firmly bound. They make sense in the past for people in the upper classes of society.
First of all, pedigree. The Eastern Han Dynasty, selling straw sandals Liu Uncle is relying on the Han room pedigree, to maintain their own revolted of the justified. In the feudal period of Europe, the descent of the royal family and nobility means that the real interests of the throne, title, and lands have been guaranteed by law. Virginity Queen Elizabeth I even if her cousin Mary Stuart, also had to follow the legal succession sequence to designate Mary's son VI as heir to the throne. In The Lord of the Rings, an aerial magical work based on European history, Aragon, who had nothing, was able to claim the throne of Gondor only by virtue of his ancient ancestry. -This is the real benefit that descent can guarantee.
Therefore, in ancient times and even in modern times, descent is a relationship of almost forcible binding with substantial interests. A person of descent will naturally have a motive to concentrate and form a circle or even a stratum, and this circle or class is conducive to the continuation and expansion of lineage and substantial interests in the circle. So, whether the name of the circle or class is called "high society" or "nobility" or "bullshit society", it has great significance for insiders, and isa good meaning。
Besides education, upbringing, morality. The so-called "granary Real and know etiquette, food and clothing enough to know honor and disgrace", the past thousands of years, the world's civilian almost the only goal of life is to granary and food and clothing, is safe to live! What literacy, education, upbringing ah, etiquette ah, and so on, and the vast majority of civilians have nothing to do. Therefore, if a person is a civilian, he is extremely difficult to have a good education and the spirit of chivalry such moral sentiment. (A digression: In the Sui Dynasty of China, the civilian population can also receive education, to participate in the imperial examination into the career.) So some people say that after the Sui Dynasty, China would have no family. -means a group of nobles, such as Europe and Japan, that have monopolized the right to education and state domination. ）
In today's world, the factors of descent, education and morality have lost their strong bond with wealth and status. Unless the father is a rich or senior official, the descent will not bring any real interest. A circle formed by descent has no meaning to its members, nor is it attractive to outsiders. And the civilian population can also have a good education, breeding, noble moral sentiment. So, if we still hold these outdated factors to define the high society of today's world, it is obviously Kezhouqiujian.
Some friends may ask, bloodlines and other factors, can not be used to define the "upper society", but, if they and wealth, the status of the combination of it? Can you play the
icing on the cake's role? For example, a group of senior officials of today's society, wealthy, it happened that ancestors were royal. This group of high-ranking officials of pure royal ancestry, with their common ancestry and interests, made each other, forming an organic circle and stratum. Does that bloodline play a role in the middle?
In this case, the circle is exactly there. But no matter what you define as the circle of the high-ranking billionaire, the so-called "noble bloodline" is meaningless for the circle, and it is just an excuse for the high-ranking tycoons to find each other. Even without pure descent, these high-ranking officials will find other excuses to get to know each other. This is with the senior officials of the rich to worship Lee do master, in fact, is not in the heart of how much worship and believe Lee, just to meet Lee other senior officials rich apprentice, is matter. Always play the social circle, all understand what I mean. I'm not going to start the argument here.
Now that we've ruled out both of these special cases.
It means that the "high society" we are talking about is not only meaningful to its members, but is also coveted by the vast majority of outsiders.
The meaning is not difficult to come to, the chemical has told us: in addition to better survival and reproduction, namely "Rich life" and "preferential sexual intercourse right and spouse right", no other things are most people aspire to. and "rich life" can directly lead to "preferential sexual intercourse right and spouse right", female also is so, the emperor's daughter does not worry to marry. "Rich life" will naturally lead to higher levels of education, good parenting, and so on. Therefore, we simply simplify the terms of association directly to "rich life." The significance of the existence of "high society" is to help its members to maintain, continue and consolidate the "rich life".
In this way, we can draw the first axiom:
Axiom 1: Assume that there is a single or a series of factor X, so that people with X can be called top-level society. Then, if from a person from birth has always been with the top of the rich life, then this person can never have X Factor. Even if he has any other conditions, such as noble descent, aristocratic inheritance, good education and accomplishment, noble moral sentiments, and so on.
Then, we see, whether it is ancient times or modern. Keep the top two generations of rich and prosperous life, can be without exception to the new rich class into a top class society. Like Morgan, Rockefeller and the Ford family have entered the top-class society, but the three founders of George Pibodi, John Rockefeller, Henry Ford, are all born in the poor "nouveau riche."
At the same time, we have such a broad consensus: "High society" is not just the same as living a rich life of people. P.S., a true high-class (though we have not yet explored how specifically to define it), even if the loss of wealth and status, lost the rich life, he is still the upper class. The down-and-down nobles are still nobles.
In this way, we draw the second axiom:
Axiom 2: Continuing to have top-notch wealth is a sufficient condition to produce an X-factor. And when someone has an X-factor, even if they lose the top of the rich life, TA will not lose the X Factor.
Finally, let us consider one of the most important broad understandings of the "upper class": "High society" should be strictly differentiated from the new rich. is the so-called three generations of a noble!
It is this consensus that puts the answer at @ Matthew: "Upper Society is
the vested interests of the society to grasp the resources of political power and the distribution of natural resources, and the upbringing of a half-word relationship did not "in my answer to the cut off." Because the rising stratum of white hand, it is also possible to grasp the political power of social resources and natural resources distribution rights. Otherwise, his answer is the most I would like to agree with.
The so-called new rich, at least from the birth of a period of time, and the top of the rich life is not.
In this way, we can take an equivalent representation as a third axiom:
Axiom 3: If a person is not able to have x before a certain age (25 years old), TA cannot have x in this lifetime.
The statement of this axiom is equivalent to: high society is not produced by a generation. If you don't understand, please think for yourself.
(Because the word limit of 10,000 words, the big popular Cui flower story was deleted by me, sorry.) If you want to see it, you can read my column. I posted it: The story of Cui Hua-Liu Nian's essay
The above-mentioned axiom, which includes not only the basic consensus on "Upper society", but also the specious factors unrelated to the essence of high society.
According to this axiom, we can draw two important conclusions:
1. To make a person have an X Factor, need, and only need, he has enjoyed a continuous top-notch life from birth, and has continued to produce an X-factor for him.
2. The X-factor will not be lost once it has been possessed by someone. If someone does not have X, the older it is, the more difficult it is to have it. It is not available until after a certain age. (Physical muscle memory coincides with the situation, and if mastered, it will not be lost.) The older you get, the more difficult it is to master. It's true whether you're riding a bike or swimming or learning a language. )
From the above two conclusions, combined with my observation of real life, I came to the final conclusion is:
High -class people will be born to enjoy the top of the rich life, and each dimension of physical touch, the overall form of top-notch sensitivity. As the famous fairy tale "The Pea Princess" metaphor:A pea under the 20-ply mattress and 20-bed eiderdown, she could still feel it. No one can be sensitive to anything other than a real princess!
and this is the essential reason why they live a lifestyle that is extremely fastidious about Chichuanyongdu. Not pretending, not sentimental, not "because I am high, so I have to live this way." It's a natural way to live like this. Otherwise, it is physically intolerable.
Some people may not really understand what I'm talking about. He may have read my answer think "good", while still feel @ GE towel sister said, "when traveling, no matter how upscale hotel, all have to sleep their own pillow", is a very troublesome thing. In fact, no trouble at all, not with their own pillows can not sleep. It's that simple. It's not a pretend force, it's not a mental weakness. Some people might think this head is too delicate, right? In fact, imagine yourself crossing into ancient times, even as emperors, and you will not be physically able to tolerate that harsh living environment: no air conditioning, no lights, bumpy carriages, damp quilts ... It was the most luxurious life in the eyes of the people at that time. In the same way, you can sleep on the board bed of a guest house, which, in some people's opinion, is really a rough, physically intolerable quality of life.
The true elite, it is by this physiological characteristics, and the new rich class will be separated forever. And when they meet the same people, they can find each other right away.
A tricky, secondary school graduate of the Shanghai middle-class housewife. She may not be able to afford a tens of thousands of-dollar pillow at all. She had only two pillows, one for 5000, one for 3800. They are used for winter and summer pillows, and with different quilts, she feels comfortable.
And a hearty atmosphere, elite graduates of Shanxi coal boss, assets of several billion. Ordinary life is always simple. One day, a sudden whim, bought a lot of tens of thousands of dollars of pillows, each room put two. But if you mix more than 10 dollars in the middle of these pillows, he can't sleep at all.
We can say that this Shanghai housewife is more "high" than the Shanxi coal boss. And this Shanxi coal boss, if a certain age, perhaps he has been in this life "high" not up. Though he could afford anything, he could not feel it. One day in his life, he may think: "Money is really boring." The real high-class people, in fact, will not send such feelings. Money is really important, no money, life is a torment. It is far from enough to eat and sleep alone.
A person of a civilian origin who, if in the life of a special secondary school, can develop a particular sense of detail in the project. For example, there are experts on wine tasting, different wine must be with different glasses. For others, this kind of behavior seems to be very forced, no matter what kind of cup we drink, even if it is a bowl of wine, taste is the same. For him, there is a big difference, the cup is not suitable for the best taste. He has the highest level of physical sensitivity on this one, but he may not be so fastidious in other aspects of life. And the most comprehensive, the most sophisticated, most sensitive to the full range of physiological sensitivity, only from the birth of life in the top of the rich environment, can have. One of the four Childe of the Republic, Zhang Boju such a collection connoisseur, book painter, poetry, Peking Opera art researcher, clearly is a childhood play out!
Here, let's look at Mr. Sato's description of the lifestyle of the high society in Japan: What is the life of "high society" in reality? I believe there will be different feelings.
The high Society of Japan is humble and unassuming, and the Arab elite shows off. But for the top quality of life of the attention, is consistent. This is the most essential common denominator of the upper class lifestyle.
Such physiological characteristics, but also represents the long-term to maintain the ultimate result of rich life. Decades ago, we could say that high society represents the ultimate way of life. But this is going to be broken today. Countless young talents would rather imitate Silicon Valley's way of life, because the idols and spiritual leaders of Steve Jobs, Laripegui, Chergues-Bling, Elonmasch are truly changing the world. Even America's newest bestseller, Social Animals, has called Chergues-Bling, a typical new rich, directly known as the "upper class". But it doesn't matter that the "ultimate goal of being imitated" is lost. As long as Steve Jobs, Laripegui, Chergues-Bling, Elonmasch always had a huge fortune and passed on. Regardless of their own way of life, their children will eventually in the rich life of the nourishment gradually formed the extreme pay attention to Chichuanyongdu to live the real "high social life." It's as if there are so many people who are rich in low education, and they don't seem to see a lot of highly educated people, but their children's grandchildren are sure to take advantage of the best schools in their wealth.
Let's talk about the significance of this physiological sensitivity--it's not as simple as spending money like running water.
the first is its meaning for the individual. Every one of us, both civilian and upper class, experiences the same amount of things in this life. But the life span of the upper class is far more than that of civilians.
The life of the civilian is like this hexagonal shape, the area represents the things he experiences in this life, the circumference represents the breadth of the external things that he touches in this life.
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And the life of a high person is the following pattern:
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The area is about the same, maybe a little bit bigger. But the perimeter is ...
Every pillow, every glass is a different life experience. How can civilians be compared with it?
In addition, this physiological sensitivity can bring the most tangible, insurmountable status symbols and superiority (if you care about this).
What's the money in your family? I can also become very rich in my efforts. What did you donate to Stanford? I can go to Stanford, too.
But...... This kind of all-round physiological sensitivity, but how hard work is useless. If you don't have it, you probably don't care. But everyone who really owns it has a great psychological superiority.
this sense of superiority is not easy to detect, because it leads to behavior, not to despise others, but to sympathize with others. Think of the sound you see a disabled person feel it.
It is often said that the real upper-class society is not to despise people, the upstart only despise people. It is true, because they are more condescending than the upstarts who despise others.
This is more sensitive, easy to cause controversy and readers unhappy, donuts, not much to say.
and this physiological sensitivity is much more important to society .-It creates a whole pyramid-like luxury industry. The luxury industry has formed a nearly closed-loop business system in the upper class. Both sellers and buyers are high-class people. The civilian population usually does not have a luxury business (the reason is soon). As a result, the entire class is more meaningful to its members and continues to extend the life of the upper class.
Do not simply think that the luxury industry is just to meet the two forces to show off their desire to produce. If you think so, you probably don't even know the nature of luxuries. The man who has two falls may be yourself. Not that you don't use luxuries, so two. Instead, you don't know the nature of luxuries, you can't make money for the rich.
The Ford T-model represents a large scale, standardised industrial product that satisfies only the needs of the civilian population. And the higher the person, the more chic the demand, the better the quality of products, not to install force, just to meet the most basic needs of life.
In another question what is a luxury? , the High Representative Sato said:
For
Many people, towels, T-shirt, glasses, plates, ash cylinders, poker, 0 money pallets, leather straps, small keys spoons puller, pillow sleeves, beds, these are probably the
necessities of life . Even if not all, there must be a tael is necessary for your life. And these are the main products of Hermes. They are just good quality and can be used for a long time.
A summary of Sato's full answer is: the commercialization of what is called "luxury" products, only those who are very fastidious about the life of the people's necessities. In Sato's view, the term "luxury" should not be used to describe the necessities of life.
and the civilians on behalf of Spinach Sister @ Zhu Yixian said:
I define luxuries just without him I don't feel the obvious decline in quality of life, but the cost of owning him is significantly higher or troublesome time and money.
Spinach sister to the quality of life is significantly lower than Mr. Sato, Sato's necessities, in the eyes of spinach is a luxury. And why is the price of luxury goods so expensive? Really is "a penny a cent goods, a dime two cents, a piece of money three cent goods." In this sentence, we usually think that one penny, a dime, a piece of money, is the price. In fact, it says cost. High costs have led to high prices. Those goods do not change, the price directly add two zero, but sold a good story, there are fabricated ingredients, to cheat also can only cheat new rich. Real high-class buyers are not fooled by these tricks. In the top quality, geometric multiples of the cost increase, often only bring 1% quality improvement. This small quality difference, the civilian buyers can not feel, and it is high-priced buyers at the most expensive price, but also to pursue. Because, they can't tolerate the rough physically. That's it.
So, some of the business is really ordinary people do not come. Because they do not know what it means to increase quality by 3 times times the cost of 0.1. Even if they did, they dared not set the price high. Because they do not believe that someone will be willing to use 5 times times higher prices, to buy this quality 0.1 of the product. In their view, this is purely money burn more panic.
Take our home cake shop for example. Since last year's fire, Wuhan's baking enthusiasts have followed suit and then collapsed. In fact, it is not our technology how great, it is other people simply can't imagine how expensive we use the raw materials. The imitators, the products made with cheap ingredients, taste a little worse than ours. But it is the difference that makes them less priced, because the low-end market has been made into the Red Sea by a baking giant like the crown and the Thousand-Gil. And for high-end consumers, this point of the taste gap is exactly what they are physically intolerable.
As for my brother, our cake shop's chief cake division, just took my sister to the taste of food from Shanghai back. Listen to my sister says, he eats cake in Cova, eats a mouthful to throw. He has been physically unable to tolerate the quality of Cova. If it hadn't happened to my family, I would have thought it was a load of force. The only person I met who could rival my brother was the boss of a French big cream maker (our supplier). He came to Wuhan, eat cakes in our home, every kind of cake to eat a mouthful can say all the ingredients, even the proportion is said to be sorta.
talk about the full range of physiological sensitivity, the significance of the progress of all mankind.
In my opinion, it has promoted the continuous progress of human society to a great extent. I have an example above, you are now crossing into ancient times, even if the emperor, can not endure the rough life. It can be seen that the direction of our human society development is more "high" than before. If humans can always enjoy the nascent, rather than the pursuit of better food quality, where is it possible to develop so many culinary techniques? If every one of us can sleep soundly in the haystack, there will be no mattresses or Simmons. It is our sensitivity and relentless nit-picking in every detail of life that promotes the advancement of life. High-level people with the highest levels of physical sensitivity are well-deserved leaders in pursuing this progress.
Finally turn to my old line, talk about chasing girls. Do not say thoroughly, we realize.
In the same income situation, women's lifestyles are usually more "upper" than men. They will pay more attention to Chichuanyongdu than men. Why is it easy for most wealthy people to attract women, and a handful of rich men don't love or just give a woman a job? It is one of the most important factors to attract women because the rich have the condition to be higher in their lifestyle, that is, the quality of every detail of life. But if you're just a local tyrants, it doesn't really appeal to women (except for the country goddess).
If you have the heart of a high person, there is a spirit of exquisite life. Even if you do not have a few money in your pocket, it is also very attractive. I have lived in China for four years. All campuses add up I have eaten 31 canteens. I have eaten at least two times per dish in every canteen. I know which canteen is the best dish, and the difference between the same dishes in different canteen tastes.
If you are a Chinese science son, can you do it? This has nothing to do with money, the canteen is very cheap, it is only related to the exquisite life attitude. If I were a huake student, I would like to have a sister with you. You take her to the optics valley to eat, maybe you spend more than I, but I am likely to have a higher chance than you. Because she can feel the natural pursuit of detail in every aspect of my life. I am more "upper" than you.
I'm not that much of a figure. We can take a look at @ Xie Panda's life attitude in the diet. That's the absolute upper.
At last. To the @ GE Towel elder sister to say a word. I deny your "pedigree", "Official theory" and so on. But in my heart, you are one of the most fashionable people. The reason is not that your seven aunts and aunt are all celebrities. But you are fastidious and fastidious about the quality of life details.
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After all updates have been completed. I read the commentary, basically, if there is criticism, focus on "you equate high society with material pursuits, ignoring the spiritual dimension".
This is really a big misunderstanding.
First, I did not overlook the spiritual dimension. On the contrary, I attach great importance to it, so I spend a lot of space, and strive to rigorous argument: from the spiritual level, you can not strictly distinguish between different classes and groups. A great and noble man can appear in any class. However, due to the enjoyment of material life and the formation of physiological sensitivity, but can strictly distinguish between different people.
Second, the most rich material life, can be quite effective cause: the top level of education, the highest level of literacy, noble spiritual pursuit (because no longer worry about survival problems), and so on the spiritual level of things. and vice versa. Again noble spiritual pursuit, also can not effectively lead to rich material life. Since A and B together determine the upper class, and a can cause b,b not to cause a, I call a a more essential factor. This should be no problem.
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