Do not envy others

Author: Source: article reading Network Time:

 

There is a fable: The Pig said that if I had to live again, I would have to be a cow. Although I was tired of my work, I had a good reputation and a good pity. The Ox said that if I had to live again, I want to be a pig, eat, sleep, do not contribute, do not sweat, live race fairy; e said If let me live again, I want to be a chicken, thirsty water, ele. Me, I live in a room, and I am also under protection. The chicken said that if I want to live again, I would like to be an e, And I can soar in the sky, swim around the world, catch any rabbit and kill the chicken. This is an interesting phenomenon. It can be said that the scenery is elsewhere.

We never envy what others own, envy others' jobs, envy new houses bought by our friends, envy others' cars, and so on, but ignore this, we are also the envy of others.

In fact, people always envy each other. Some people often dream that they will become the same person one day when they wake up. It may be because we are well aware of our shortcomings in our own lives, so we will compare those we think are perfect, and use them as the coordinates of our lives. In fact, there is no perfect world in this world, and those we envy are still suffering from their bad luck. The so-called family has a difficult Sutra, And the vanity nature of people enables them to present their own scenery to people. Who can truly see the scenery behind others? Most of the time, what we get is what we accept. Everything is like a coin. There are two sides, and there are positive and negative sides.

People, especially women, often like to compare themselves with others. The result is "people are more popular than dead people". In fact, they may wish to compare themselves with themselves to see if they are getting better and better, whether it is closer and closer to your desired goal. Encourage yourself from time to time and you will do better. Maybe you envy others while others envy you.

Of course, some people really deserve our envy, not simply because they get more, but because they are good at operating.

Envy others because we look forward to perfection and expect a better life. However, we have neglected that everyone is in a different situation and others will never be able to imitate it. However, we can correct our weaknesses by observing others' strengths. Instead of looking at others' happiness, we should pay attention to others' ways of managing happiness. Instead of envy others' good luck, it is better to learn from others' efforts.

Do not envy others for how they are doing, and calculate the grace God has given you. You will find that you have more than nothing. Although the missing part is not cute, it is also part of your life. If you accept it and treat it well, your life will be happy and open-minded.

Therefore, you do not have to envy others. Keep what we have and think about what we really want, so that we can be truly happy.