Do your best to listen to your destiny. Be worthy of the heart, perplexed in love

I immediately to middle age, perhaps my life has already passed half, this means to be from the Idol faction to become the strength, well, that is so don't face ah ^_^ woke up yesterday midnight, recalled the road, I think there are a few things very important, body to maintain the basic things like this I will not nag. I would like to say a few other things, as a good-natured advice from a big brother, hoping to give some inspiration to the young people who are running towards my age.

1. Reading is very important

A person who is good at reading can accomplish the need of self-learning. Of course, no reading and no harm, but too addicted to the real world, easy to let people Dog. For example, you can read a biography and a glimpse of someone else's life. You can read a book of psychology and get a sense of your situation. You can read a book of history, see swords Understand that the glorious life will also be dust settled. Reading, let you in the history, the future, reality, empty Air Shuttle, and then found that their lives more possible.

So reading for a person is always done, not when it is done.

Through reading to improve themselves, to enhance their own will meet better people, the level of communication is determined by their own quality. You never read, naturally, most of the people are superficial and material person, chat is nothing but a little Prada Al Jazeera feed. Even a better person, you will be frightened to run, nothing, meet a smile saygoodbye. What kind of person you are, decide what kind of friend you will have, and decide what kind of lover you will have.

2. Learn to get along with loneliness

A person who cannot enjoy loneliness is actually very lonely. Many people attend various party salons every day, he can not let himself quiet, because he is afraid of loneliness, afraid to get along with himself. Because as long as you get along with yourself, you need to talk with your heart. So he needs a lively environment in which to find his own sense of existence, so he is actually very lonely. A person who cannot be alone with himself will not have much wisdom in general.

Loneliness, in fact, is a very high attitude of life. Because you know how to take care of your inner needs.

One day you will understand that no matter how hard you try, in fact, not many people care. More people just want to see the results, how hard your process is, and it doesn't matter to them. I have been a few flight luggage lost at the airport to after midnight and then take the bus to Shijiazhuang sleepless, eight o'clock in the morning to nine o'clock start class, only for the customer's commitment, I feel very great.

Customer leisurely said: You so gaunt really should not.

In the heart immediately 1000 grass muddy road in passing by incidentally to his eight life fathers expressed greetings.

So, you climb the mountains, no one understands your hard work. You effigy, and few people share your joy.

In the final analysis, life is self-salvation for loneliness, the sooner you learn the better.

3. Find out what you really like to do

Hurriedly short life, if did not do oneself like of thing, not is Bai Bai busy this one? Do what you like to really inspire your potential, but also to complete the mission of life. Some people say I want to open a flower shop, then why don't you open it? And said the conditions are not mature. Then why don't you create the conditions?

Can't write good article, I used to think that my computer is not beautiful enough. I used to think that I didn't get my favorite sneakers when I didn't go jogging every day. Too lazy to travel, I thought I had not bought my favorite camera and lens. Give yourself a lot of excuses for not going to start something. In fact, there is a lack of a bite to stomp the beginning.

A lot of things, just start taking the first step, will not stop at all.

4, make a few real friends

Don't try to please everyone, and it's not stable to please the relationships you get. Only by being good can you attract real friends, and this relationship can really last. To anyone who is good, is doomed to have no real friends, no one can sin, there is no principle. The same reason, to everyone who loves, there is no true love, true love a person is, I love the world's people, but give you a different. So meet the people who love you, don't be excited, maybe he is so ambiguous to everyone. Love a person, will be different, is to divide the world into others and you.

Do not treat everyone as friends, many relationships do not have to rely on too close, every day contact so many people, not everyone to become friends, many people are dragonfly water, hello I call someone very happy to meet you goodbye. The gentleman's turn is like the water, does not have to exchange the privacy also does not have to add, most of the enmity love and hate are because is too close, near it is inferior, originally the polite relations, began to become enigmatical, each other is uncomfortable. There is a distance, there will be respect.

Who is the bosom friend of oneself? Values are consistent, there are some same hobbies, together there are words, it is best to be interesting.

To make friends, interesting is a very important measure, interesting can be reflected in a field of professional, can be reflected in the mastery of food, can be reflected in the unruly secular some courage, can also be reflected in the chat of the fantastic thinking. Because it's fun, it's relaxing, because it's fun and it doesn't have to be ferocious for fear of being avoided. Interesting, perhaps can be summed up as a point, because find yourself, so do not bring pressure to others.

5, mature to deal with the emotional things

As you grow older, you have to understand the truth that you can't take possession of anyone. You like a person, like to go crazy, you can not take her, even if you crazy sex with her, seven times a night, the next day to put on clothes, she is still her, she will never become part of you. Everyone belongs to her, and all you can do is accompany. Any attempt to declare possession of the other, will eventually be defeated and become a prisoner of affection.

After falling in love, no one can guarantee that they will never meet more exciting people, richer, better looking, more gentle, more in line with expectations, more understand you, you are disarmed surrender, or unyielding? So love is not only impulse and passion, but a promise. Fall in love with you so have a commitment to you, because this commitment, and then the heart will be rippling, control of the waves in addition.

I think this is a mature personality. See a heart love one, this kind of person is excessive affection, and the result of excessive affection, the end is into nihilism, because to who all love, will not be able to get focused on the return, no such return, can not talk about happiness.

6. Accept the person or thing that left you

People are old, and gradually have to be psychologically prepared to accept some reality, such as parents will be old and leave. Before that, ask yourself if there is a return to parenting, no matter how proud you are, as long as your parents come back to them and feel like a child. If one day push away the door of parents, have no familiar face to you smile, also means that the world, no longer people with life to your selfless love.

Friends may leave you, except their parents. In the life forward this road, will continue to have old friends leave you, they may not keep up with your pace, may also choose other road, do not grieve, they must have a good home. Of course, there will be new friends near you, they are attracted by your firm pace and unique temperament. Different stages of life have different friends accompany, cherish the time of the peer, can go together to the end, why forced.

A friend will leave, and a lover may also. If the person I love to leave me, I will only say two words: OK. Said nothing don't ask why? How could you do this to me? What did I do wrong to make you so? Since you decided to leave, there must be a reason for your preparation, I do not want to listen to your plan for a long-sounding excuse. Always leave the inevitable this does not belong to me, wish you good luck, from this cloud light wind light, past written off. Life is short, I don't live in memory.

Finally, I summarize my current attitude to life, is: To do their own, listen to the destiny. Be worthy of heart, perplexed in love. The flow of the flow and the flow. A precipice is a change of knowledge or mistake. In the people who like their intentions, in the people do not like their forgetfulness.

Such a life, very good.

Do your best to listen to your destiny. Be worthy of the heart, perplexed in love