Enjoy without complaint.

1. Answer without arguing

Answer, don't argue.

People get along with each other in harmony, not in disputes. People in the family often defend themselves in order to justify themselves, and arguments are unavoidable when everyone is thinking of proving that they are right. In the end, the controversy did not bring harmony, but the diaphragm grew larger. If you love him, don't argue!

"It is better to have a dry cake than to have a house full of people," morsel.

2. Share without pretending

Share, don't pretend.

If you really care about a person, then share your true self with him. Don't always wear a fake mask and pretend to cater to him. Pretend, and will not let the other side of your liking to add a layer, but in the loss of time, slowly lose trust in you.

Be the true self, hold on to the truth. If you love him, don't pretend! You have to be in the "Love is enduring and gracious, love is not jealous, love is not boastful, not arrogant, do not do shy things, do not seek their own benefits, not easily angry, do not calculate the evil of man, do not like injustice, only like the truth, everything tolerant, all things to believe, everything

3. Listen without interrupting.

Listen, don't interrupt.

Quiet listening is respect for others, but also the expression of inner modesty. If you love him, listen more!

"The first is the corruption, the heart is proud, and before the honor, there must be humility."

4. Give without sparing.

Give, don't keep.

Do not refuse to face the plea of others. When you can help others, don't hesitate. You help others today, and others will help you tomorrow. Even if they fail you, your heavenly Father will give you a hundredfold reward, for he sees everything in his eyes. If you love him, don't keep it!

"There is an insatiable appetite, and the righteous give alms without sparing."

5. Pray without ceasing.

Pray, don't stop.

Love a person, not just give him a little something. Love and not love, is not to do to outsiders to see, but to do to their own heart to see. Please always pray for him in your heart, do not stop. Because you really love him, you will let him live in your heart first. Love him, and always pray for him!

"Therefore, since the day we have heard, we have prayed for you not to pray for you, that you may be filled with the will of God in all spiritual wisdom and understanding."

6. Speak without accusing.

Speak, and do not accuse.

Don't get into the habit of blaming others, especially before you know what's going on. Many people are more eager to be accepted, not to blame, after doing something wrong. Just like what you want after you've made a mistake. If you love him, don't accuse

！ "My dear brethren, this is what you know. But each of you shall listen quickly, slowly, and slowly, and with anger. ”

7. Enjoy without complaint.

Enjoy, don't complain.

In life, people often get into the vortex of complaining. Wives complain about husbands, parents complain about children, students complain about teachers, bosses complain about subordinates. Each person always feel that each other owes himself, everyone feels that they have been wronged. But very few people will complain at the same time, ask yourself, I will also become the object of other people complaining, I have also owed others, let others suffer injustice? Complaining, and not solving things, will only make the small things become bigger and larger. Complaining can make you snort, but in the end it will make your air more and more small, you isolate yourself out of other people's world. If you love him, stop complaining!

"Whatever is done, do not grumble, argue,"

8. Trust without wavering.

Trust, do not waver.

Many times, we lose a person we love, not who took him, but we step by step to push him away. Push away, not because we do not cherish, but because we cherish too much. Too cherish, always want to hold him in his own hands, slowly interference more, less freedom, more bossy, less trust, more hidden, less communication. Love is the responsibility of trust, not the bondage of suspicion. "If anyone destroys the Temple of God, God must destroy that man, because the Temple of God is holy, and this temple is you."

Everything is tolerant, everything is believed, everything is expected, all things endure. ”

9. Forgive without punishing.

Forgive, don't punish.

No one else has done something wrong, it must be punished. You are for his growth, not to embarrass him. Sometimes the power of forgiveness is better than punishment, and the strength of softness is stronger than hardness. When you are old, your teeth are falling and your tongue is still healthy. Do not make mistakes of others, into their own inner revenge opportunity. Love him, forgive not punish.

"Be careful!" If your brother sins against you, exhort him, and if he repents, forgive him. “

Ten. Promise without forgetting.

Promise, don't forget.

Don't forget what you said. Do not be easy to promise, love your people, do not care what you give him something, but care about your promise this behavior. Love a person, do not let him to your hope frustrated, many times wait to see the results, will let him think in your heart has no place. If you love him, promise not to forget.

"The hope of the delay is not, it is worrying, the willing to come, but the tree of life."

Enjoy without complaint.