48 basic principles for human affairs (Abstract)

Principle 1: adherence to good faith is the foundation of your world and achievements. To do what you have done, you must dare to do what you have done. To do what you have to do, you must do the best. If you can do this, congratulations, you are half done. A person who cannot keep his promise will see him as worthless. To achieve your career, you must be honest and trustworthy. This is the so-called "Wild Goose swordsmanship, rename. The greatest wisdom of human beings is nothing more than this.

Principle 2: modesty helps you gain good fortune. Learn to be modest, so that you can get the favor of each other while learning and improving yourself. In a word, modesty is one of the most important qualities for success and respect. The arrogance will only make you a lone man and fall into the abyss of failure at any time.

Principle 3: Stay calm and stand out in the long run. There are many hardships in life, and you may be at risk at any time. Perhaps the current situation is still very good, and it will be hard to do anything tomorrow. If you don't think about it, you will be deeply immersed in it. The only thing you can do is to be able to cope with your own dangers.

Principle 4: Keep a low profile at all times. The low-key operator looks humble, but they have extraordinary wisdom and efficient execution. They have the mind of Haina baichuan, the skillful and wise strategy, the spirit of persistent pursuit, and a hard-working style. They kept a low profile and gained sufficient wealth; they kept a low profile and gained sufficient accumulation of spiritual realm. Therefore, they have made achievements and created the Golden Avenue of life. They have created a miracle once and again!

Principle 5: do not cherish your praise. Praise allows a lost person to regain his or her self-confidence. Praise allows a lost person to find his or her way forward. In your life, discover the advantages of others and tell them out loud to let others know your concern. In this way, more people will be willing to contact you.

Principle 6: the human mind is indispensable. It is a matter of self-defense, not that you can't trust others, always guard against others, and be suspicious of what others say and say. If you do, there will be no friends around you, no one is willing to associate with a person who has doubts about his friends. Treat your friends with sincerity, but keep your guard in your heart. This is the right way to prevent people.

Principle 7: seize the opportunity and make decisions decisively. Napoleon said: The art of war is to concentrate the maximum strength at a certain point. The art of life is to choose a breakthrough to attack, and then make every effort to impact. If we are able to choose a target as soon as possible, and persistently strive to achieve the goal, success will not be far from us.

Principle 8: the notification is always grateful. When we are born to the world, from an ignorant baby to an intelligent and energetic adult, we are enjoying all the things given by nature, our friends, and countless strangers every moment. We are surrounded by love, many people have contributed and paid for our growth and life. We should always remember all the people and things, all the love and grace, and appreciate all this.

Principle 9: brave enough to say "no" and learn to refuse. When you need to say "no" in your life, you must say it out loud. Rejection is sometimes the best way to solve the problem. It won't put you in the dark. But you must pay attention to the method when saying "no. A proper method can bring you the best results.

Principle 10: Remember that silence is gold. When you interact with people, you must be cautious. If you don't want to talk to anyone, you will get lost. This will bring you a lot of unnecessary trouble. Learn Silence. Silence is gold, wisdom, virtue, and sometimes miracle.

Principle 11: face up to the reality and never cry for the overturned milk. Don't cry for the broken milk. It's a philosophical statement. Those who enter the world cannot be reached, but those who come here can still be chased. Let the past pass it. No matter what we do, it is impossible to change it. But the future is still in our hands, and we still need to create it. Do not regret the past, or delay the present, so that our future can only regret.

Principle 12: Do not blame people. "No gold, no perfect people ." No one in the world is perfect. Everyone has some shortcomings, shortcomings, or bad problems. However, as long as it is not a matter of principle, we should treat others with a tolerant attitude. If you are harsh on others and are picky about their shortcomings, you will not get the favor of others, nor have any friends, or even bring you trouble.

Principle 13: Do not hurt others' faces at any time. In interpersonal communication, if you want to establish a harmonious relationship with others, you must take into account the faces of the other party, and do not hurt others' faces. Respect others and give others a face, but they also leave room for themselves.

Principle 14: Learn to endure and make money. Patience is the training of the will, and the accumulation of explosive power. It is the silent struggle to break through the Internet and melt the ice with an invisible flame. Angry in patience, fighting in patience, stubborn soul suffering in patience, life can shine brilliantly. The burden of life is often the glory of life-the towering monument in the world; brilliant achievements are born in patience.

Principle 15: independent thinking is required. Never live in the opinions of others. You must have your own opinions when doing anything. others' opinions can only be used for your reference. From others' opinions, you can extract things that are beneficial to you, those things that do not have value or are even harmful must be abandoned. Do not make them a stumbling block to your success.

Principle 16: Be a person with sufficient capacity. People with a wide mind and a high volume of data may fall in favor of others. People with a narrow mind and a small belly can avoid it. Tolerance is a kind of wisdom in life and a magic weapon to establish a good relationship between people.

Principle 17: Leave room at any time. Talking to others leaves a little room to talk about it. Such communication is flexible, rational, and easy to achieve good results. Otherwise, you can leave no space for your speech. Instead, you can easily get stuck by blocking your path. When doing things, leave a little room to avoid forcing the other party to the Jedi, and give others the opportunity to rethink and come again. This is also an opportunity for themselves.

Principle 18: sudden changes to power. Those who once had brilliant people, those talented people, who have mastered others, all have the power to overcome all obstacles to their development, but they are the first to defeat their own emotions, because they have overcome their emotions, they will be able to face everything in front of them and make the right decisions at the crucial moment.

Principle 19: justify your rights. As long as you can complete your work and do better, you should "compete for profit ". A valuable person and an accomplished person can compete for their own interests in a fair manner without any psychological burden.

Principle 20: grasp the bottom line of life. Keep your moral bottom line so that you will not go astray due to small mistakes. Draw a bottom line of your ability and do what you can, so that you will not get nothing. Grasp the bottom line of life, be good at reminding yourself with the bottom line, and plan your own life. Your life can be more lasting and beautiful.

Principle 21: do not reveal the secret. Playing the cards is the key to your success and a powerful means to defeat your team when you are in danger. The bullet after the exit is not terrible. What's terrible is that the bullet is not yet loaded, because you don't know where it will be hit. Uncertainty makes people confused, so they will bring trouble to your opponent and win the opportunity for your victory. Only by hiding your cards on the road will you be in danger of sailing your boat at any time.

Principle 22: to achieve great success, we must be able to expand. "Ability to bend and stretch" is always said together by people. We can see that they cannot be separated. This is also true. People who cannot bend, just but not soft, are easy to break; people who cannot stretch, soft but not just, cannot stand on the ground. You must be able to bend and stretch out to make your life smooth and smooth.

Principle 23: Never trust anyone. If you want to be neutral in this society, do not trust others. Trusting others will allow you to make decisions blindly, and allow you to "bet" when your feelings govern your mind or your mind is unclear. This situation will lead you to lose yourself, go into the trap of the conspiracy.

Principle 24: to be a person, remember to expand. To be a person, do not expand. The desire is too strong, arrogant, will not bring you any benefits, but will push you to the steep cliff, make you lose your foothold, or even die.

Principle 25: do not lose your temper easily. Anger is like a time bomb in the human body. This is what the ancients said: "anger starts from the heart, evil to the courage. So when you lose your temper, you 'd better endure it and think about the consequences. If you cannot calm down and think about the consequences, but let your anger flow out, it may bring you a disaster.

Principle 26: Do not speak ill people behind the scenes. One of the biggest taboos in interpersonal communication is that people and right are based on people. If you have any opinions, you can communicate in good faith in person and avoid negative comments. Otherwise, it will give you a feeling of being a pseudo-gentleman and a dual-face hacker. No one can be perfect. Others may not mind your criticism in good faith. However, no one can tolerate "Talking about people and making mistakes.

Principle 27: to communicate with others, you must be polite and contact others. Etiquette goes first. Etiquette is one of the most important criteria for others to recognize you. Gentle and elegant, sincere manners and manners will bring a pleasant and friendly feeling to others, and those who behave vulgar and have no manners to speak shall not be welcomed or liked.

Principle 28: Never give up on the horns. People often refer to those who do not have an open mind or have the right to recognize them. In fact, it is easy to get out of the horn, so you only need to change the direction. However, this alone makes it difficult for many people to look back, and countless people have been hitting the wall. However, it is too late for most people to look back. Even more sadly, many people do not know how to turn back when they hit the south wall ".

Principle 29: Good friends should keep a proper distance. Leave a gap when you are doing a wooden job, and keep a little distance when making friends. This is the correct way to deal with relationships with friends. Friendship is like a spring, maintaining a moderate distance and a moderate degree of tension and compression will ensure permanent elasticity and beauty. Principle 30: Avoid public debate and confrontation 86 when you are in a situation where you argue with others, the best practice is to avoid. Once you argue with others, even if you win, all you get is anger, resentment, and other bad emotions. A public debate will only make the other party stick to their own points of view and will not help solve the problem at all.

Principle: always maintain a normal heart. Life is not always smooth sailing. If you cannot have a normal heart, you will be blinded by secular things and various desires in your heart, and you may be wrestling in the ups and downs of life. And if you can always maintain a normal heart, You can calmly pass through the peak and low point of your life.

Principle: Do not fight against old people. When you first enter a new environment, you will always meet old people, and they may discriminate against you and sneer at you. At this time, do not fight with them, But conquer them with your sincere and practical abilities, so that they can accept you and agree with you voluntarily.

Principle 33: others' opinions should be "as sweet as others ". Successful people are people who are good at listening to others' opinions. Even some people take the initiative to ask others to express their opinions. Because they understand that a person is smart and his abilities are limited. Others' opinions are the embodiment of others' wisdom. If you can carefully filter the information, learn the good opinions, and enrich your thoughts, it is like borrowing others' wisdom.

Principle 34: Be good at listening. Some people say: "the highest level of speech is to say less and listen more ." This is also true. The reason why God gave us "two ears and one mouth" is to let us speak less and listen more. Being a good listener will attract more people and build harmonious interpersonal relationships for you.

Principle 35: make friends with people to "near Zhu yuanmo" 1. If you want to fly up, you have to join the e and become a member. If you just mix up with the chicken and duck, then you will not be able to fly up on that day. Keep a clear mind, polish your eyes, and choose friends that really deserve your contact. This is your right choice. Principle 106: Do not "Look at that mountain" if you are always on the way to "higher mountain", you will never get a life of enthusiasm and hope, because there will always be higher mountains in front of you, and you don't have time to stop and take a good look at your life. In this way, you may only get nothing.

Principle: self-restraint will make you superior. On the road of life, you will get a lot of burdens and burdens-property, name space, habits, interpersonal relationships, what you should do, what you must do ...... The more you move forward, the more you get. If you cannot restrain your desires, you will be constrained by them, so that you can only survive for the rest of your life. Many people prefer to stay in the familiar hell rather than entering the unfamiliar heaven, because they do not know how to restrain themselves.

Principle 38: Stick to your position and do not participate in the factional struggle. The implementation of the same distance diplomacy means that you are able to face the faction struggle with detachment. If you can stick to this state for a long time, you will not be disturbed by the struggle between factions, nor be affected by it. If you are not willing to watch it, just do your own work.

Principle: do not be too smart to be confused. If you are too smart and always fond of playing tricks when you do things, you will not be able to taste the "sweet" but the "bitter" of your own cleverness ". This is what people often say: "being intelligent is not being intelligent ". Therefore, you should not be smart in the face of your own experiences, but learn to be confused as appropriate.

Principle 40: Spread the seeds of friendship and build your own network. In today's society, we need to work together to make everything happen. It can even be said that, without cooperation, it is very difficult to do things. How can we better cooperate? You need more friends. If you have a lot of friends, you will have wealth. These friends will make your connections more smooth.

Principle: if you are not a good person, you must be able to cope with all kinds of people. In real life, good people do what they want, but "Good People" cannot. Because no one wants to be the one who is ignored and "sacrificed" forever. Therefore, when you are close to the edge of "Good Guys", you must prove to others in time that you have the opinion and will resist unfair treatment.

Rule: Give up the "chicken ribs" in your hand ". There are a lot of things in life, just like "chicken ribs". It's tasteless, but it's a pity to abandon it, so that people can't help but suffer. "Chicken ribs" takes a lot of time and energy, but it cannot bring you any practical benefits. Instead of being left empty, we should give up. Give up. In some cases, it is the best solution.

Principle forty-three: a gentleman loves his fortune and uses his fortune. Obtaining money is an important way for people to maintain living conditions and improve their quality of life. Therefore, making money has the most practical significance for everyone. But as the saying goes, do things first. Only by doing well can one thing be done well. To make money, you must be honest, honest, and diligent. It can be said that you can earn money with peace of mind and spend money comfortably only when you are a good person and have the qualities that most people should possess.

Principle forty-four: Do not take evil for it, or do not take good for it. Life has good and evil, and career has success or failure. Whether it is good or evil, or success or failure, it is from a small matter, this is the details. Only by grasping the details can you take the proper path in the success or failure of good and evil, so as not to lose.

Principle forty-five: Put down the "shelf" to increase the "value ". There is a saying in China: "The bigger the shelf of a horse, the more valuable it is. The larger the shelf, the more mean it is ." If you always feel that you are superior to others, you can use your abilities and status to talk about things, or physically isolate a large number of ordinary people from your interactions. You will be "abandoned" by more people because of your "shelf ".

Principle 46: insufficient compensation is beyond the limit. Instead of spending time and energy on filling your own weaknesses, it is better to develop your strengths. It is difficult to fill in the short part. However, if you are willing to persistently work on your strengths, it is easy to succeed in this regard.

Principle: priorities should be prioritized for everything. No matter how many things there are, always the first thing. Differentiate priorities, put the most important things first, do important things first, distinguish the Primary and Secondary things in the process of doing things, and try to eliminate the secondary things that interfere with the advancement, you will get close to the success of your life without knowing it.

Principle forty-eight: shoulder the responsibility and make your journey more stable. There is an old saying in China: "In its position, seek political power ." When a person is in a position, he has the corresponding responsibilities. Each of us has a position in our society. Therefore, we must shoulder the responsibilities we should assume. To do a good job within a shard is to take responsibility. When an error occurs, you do not need to make excuses for yourself. If you are brave enough to accept the punishment, you are responsible. A person can be more stable in his life only when he can shoulder his responsibilities.

As a respectable person, this is a more appropriate way to be human!