818 diaosi programmers look at this year's it path, work, life, and feelings (1)

Preface

I wrote this article as a memory. Today, I saw a dating story on csdn. I was prepared to write down my feelings, the reason is that programmers are born to be emotional and those who have been black and black for many years has made outsiders feel that the programmer group is born with feelings, but they are not. In the end, I thought it would be better to write my feelings together with my work and life. But today, the story of the buddy really looks sad, and even the girl's hands have never been held, asking a girl to have dinner, it's a cool smell everywhere. As a programmer, I want to take it as a warning. Haha, I'm sorry to ridicule that guy. You are very admirable and cute. Go to the topic.

I. I decided to talk about feelings first. After all, this is sensitive to it men.

The landlord, Android developer and single dog, has completely fallen into an authentic cool-force programmer. I accidentally graduated from college for three years. After 26 years, I feel that I am getting old. To be honest, I am very envious of what I saw after the 90 s. In fact, before entering the IT industry, my feelings were still very good. I talked about two times of love, one university, one job, but it was all about my own nozuonodie, finally, I broke up. Although I did not go on in the end, I once fell in love with each other. However, after entering the IT industry, the landlord felt like a new person, and all the girl skills were lost. I have been dating for nearly a year in the last six months. I have been introduced to many girls, but I always feel that I am not enough. Some time ago, someone introduced me to a very good girl, after playing in Shenzhen for a day, I had no problem with my meal and asked me to take the initiative, but I didn't know where to start when I came back. Nima's, I used to look like this. Although I don't have to die, my favorite girl will still be bold enough to catch up with me.

Forget it. The first feeling of the landlord was in college. It was too long ago. The first love was too beautiful to remember. Let's talk about the past year's emotional experience. Let's just hear it as a story, they love to listen to these things, haha.

At this time last year, I was immersed in the sweetness of love. I did not expect that one year later, every day, I had to write code and blog in a small room, and I was helpless in a big city. At the beginning of 13, I met my ex-girlfriend in Hunan. I graduated from a medical school. I was a nurse. My hometown was from Sichuan. I grew up in Hunan and combined with the characteristics of Sichuan and Hunan girls, it was gentle, beautiful, and cute, it is the ideal girlfriend type of the landlord. What is the process of understanding? It is also a fate. As for how to know the ground, we will explore it by ourselves. I finally got to know each other and talked for a long time. I thought it was good and I met you. I asked her to go to the western restaurant on our side to have a meal for two-person private rooms. When I first met you, my roommate asked me to put some perfume that he bought at a high price. The effect was really good, and my sister said it tasted good for the first time. She praised it for many appointments. Later, I made an appointment several times, especially when her aunt came, and the landlord was very concerned about caring. She was deeply impressed. Finally, she promised to be my girlfriend, so we can get together. To be honest, she is a type that I like very much. She looks sweet and cute, feels good, doesn't like to lose her temper, and occasionally acts as a coquetry. Sometimes the landlord is angry with her, and she also responds with a smile, it will be okay if you are playing the game. I like this best. At that time, I went to work in a very famous company in the city where her house was located. Her mother-in-law invited me to her house for dinner as soon as she felt unreliable, she told her mother-in-law that we haven't talked about it yet. I just chased her, so her mother-in-law wanted to help her with her reference. So the landlord went to her house for a meal. As a result, her mother-in-law certainly asked her about her family's income. Later, she heard her say that she thought that my small engineer had a poor income and was not ideal. Although she was not very tall, but it's nice to be with my girlfriend. But no way, my girlfriend doesn't think I'm short, but my old lady thinks I'm short, sorry. However, this does not prevent us from falling in love. During that time, we visited the streets and alleys of the city, had a lot of delicious food, and had a lot of fun places. Every night, when my girlfriend went home, we are all reluctant. I spent more than half a year on shoot together and traveled all over the city where my work was located. I don't have to say that I have to eat, drink, and play. Now I am back in that city, but I still remember what I was doing together.

But in the end, we broke up. The reason is that we are so bloody that I don't want to stay in a promising state-owned enterprise. So far, I want to switch to it, I felt that I was mentally handicapped at the beginning, but to be honest, I have been unhappy with my company and want to enter the IT industry very much, and I was very dissatisfied with my salary, in small cities, the salary is about 5 k a month. The old lady thinks I have no future and I have a reason. For these two reasons, I decided to resign and move into the IT industry. So I am leaving my girlfriend's city, and I am going to the imperial capital. I am going to spend a few months in the imperial capital and return to Hunan, although my girlfriend said that she was supportive of me, she didn't want me to leave, but she couldn't. At that time, she had a strong attitude. She didn't know which rib had been extracted, and she went to the North, before she left, she stayed for two days at the place she rented, made some delicious hairy crabs for her, and then left Hunan. She said she asked me to go to Beijing to study hard, when I returned to Hunan, I did not expect this was our last farewell. It's almost a year and I never saw her again. When the landlord went to Beijing, he knew that we certainly had no hope. When they came to Beijing, they broke up peacefully. There were too many people chasing her, and she finally made a compromise.

The second paragraph of the landlord's feelings ended. Since then, the landlord's emotional life has become a mess. As for how bad it is, let's introduce it one by one.

In February last September, a girl she met on Weibo suddenly told me to introduce her to me. She was a senior girl from a university and would like to introduce her classmates to me, in fact, her classmates were also good, but at that time, the landlords had decided to resign and would not stay in Hunan, so they refused at that time, however, my girl said that she could go to a big city to find me later. I was not moved. Now I think how high I feel (SHA) wind (BI) Bright (SHA) this is a good opportunity for the results.

I didn't know her classmates, but I didn't get anything. I got familiar with this girl. It was also a good thing. I chatted and talked about it as soon as I went there. During that time, the young girl occasionally encouraged each other during the postgraduate entrance exam. In the end, the young girl was admitted to a very awesome University in a cross-disciplinary examination, which impressed me.

Didn't the landlord say he was going to Beijing before? At the end of October, he went to the imperial capital. In fact, it didn't take long for him to stay in the imperial capital. It would be four months, in addition to being particularly impressed by the smog and blue sky of the imperial capital, there is actually no other impression. Although the landlord is 26, he occasionally plays with the brainless things like QQ space, saying that one day he sent a piece of geographic location to talk about installation force. As a result, a sister contacted me, this girl was a girl who was dating me during the Spring Festival. I forgot when I came to the emperor. Before she said she was working in Beijing, and she went to work at yonyou software. She said she was very close to the Software Park, so my sister asked me to go to her and finally took the time to go to yongyou. My mom, there's a big park, my sister-in-law invited me to have a meal, chatted about their respective situations, and finally went back. When I went back, I also prepared to invite my sister-in-law. As a result, when QQ asked her, she said she had returned home early. Later, I learned that when she went to dinner with me, she was already taking the process to go home. It really surprised me, but the bigger one was behind me, during the Spring Festival, she told me that she was married and contacted her again later. This time, she was promoted to become a mother and she was pregnant. In fact, this girl was very interesting to me at the beginning, but I never felt at ease. At that time, I was always chasing my girlfriend from Hunan. At last, my sister was disheartened. Now she often told me that I was not active enough to catch girls.

Here I have to mention the girl from the previous postgraduate entrance exam. She has a girl who went to college in Beijing and is also a senior. Then the girl liked to introduce people everywhere and made another mistake, I also told her girlfriends and Weibo accounts, but the landlord was focusing on learning and didn't worry about it. I didn't talk about it with that girl, but in August, A few people have created a group chat and talked a lot, especially one time. The two have played tricks on me in partnership and asked me to cook steak for them to eat. All of a sudden, they feel a lot closer to each other. Then she matched me and her girlfriends again, just as she was coming to Guangzhou during the summer vacation, and asked me to receive her. Then she came with her friend a few days ago. Then she asked me where to live. She was sitting in a building with me, her aunt's house, and a community with me, then I went to my house to play for two times and bought a bunch of mangoes. Because her girlfriends like eating mangoes, they eat mangoes and chat with each other to watch movies. Haha, she is also a beautiful girl, it is a little tall. The landlord is very embarrassed. The girl's height is 168, and the boy's height is 170. She is also admitted to graduate school this year and is still studying in Beijing. It's a pretty good girl, strong artistic atmosphere.

I feel that I can't accept it as soon as I write it. Continue 8.

In last August, my aunt ran to my house and said that there was a girl over there who was very nice to introduce to me. My parents went to my aunt's house and saw the girl, in addition to low diploma and high school graduation, other aspects are particularly good, which is very suitable for me. So I went to my aunt's house with my girlfriend. The result was a little different from what I imagined. It was a little mature and not the cute type I liked. They all said that they were particularly important at the first glance. It was really not my favorite type at the first glance. Even though I went out to play together for an afternoon and had a meal, however, I had no heart-warming feeling, and I had a very fond girlfriend, so I didn't agree. I would like to add that the landlord was not greedy. He was looking at the pot in a bowl, but his girlfriend was not planning to get married yet. However, the landlord's family was so anxious that he went and looked at it. Everyone said that the girl was good, but I didn't feel it at all. I don't know whether it was my own high vision or what was going on. I just didn't feel it anyway, so I haven't contacted you later. Maybe everyone will think that's all done. No, it's not done yet. When I was in Beijing for the new year, this girl suddenly added me and chatted with me to stay with me, she even said that she could come to Beijing to stay with me. Of course, the landlord refused her because of Yayi (SHA) Zheng (BI) Yan (SHA). I don't like others, why delay. In August March this year, I saw the photo she had taken in the circle of friends. She was married. The groom was a tall and mighty man. She was very cute and really suitable for her. I wish her a blessing, why are you looking for a thin program like me.

After the New Year's home, the landlord became the target of the father and mother who spoke up. 26, there is no girlfriend. It is better to bring the son of the Old Wang family next door, and the beautiful girlfriend will take it to the house one by one, next door old Zhang's son, 22 years old, son has, next door old Yang's son, find a rich second generation girlfriend ..... Various brute-force attacks. On the 4th day, a New Year's greeting was suddenly called back, saying that a distant relative from the family next door was visiting the New Year, and a niece was quite good. Let me walk next door, as a result, I went away with my scalp. I still don't feel it. It's no wonder that I talked about some pretty girlfriends. The threshold is high. To be honest, it's really high. Sorry, I'm not handsome again, the threshold is high. What should I do later. The meeting was very embarrassing. The two parents were both at the scene. They asked me a few questions and left us there. They didn't know what to say. They simply watched TV. After a while, the big brother next door asked me how, I said it was not suitable for me, and then there was no more.

Let's talk about the girl who likes to help people introduce their students to the postgraduate entrance exam. It's almost two years since I met her. She is coming to Guangzhou to go to college in March, near our company. In fact, she is also my favorite type, and all the conditions are good, but people who have never talked about love have a characteristic, that is, they either have a person in their hearts, either it is very demanding, and the landlord hinted at her twice. She said that the landlord did not know what Shenma liked and joked that I was a few years older than her, well, I also talked about two pieces of love, which is a very profound person. I was told by a girl that I didn't understand. It's hard for you.

Let's talk about another girl. A few days ago, I was a junior high school girl (there was no pressure on this girl to write thousands of words separately, so I won't say much here ), she is also a female who has been in contact for so many years. Some time ago, she posted a friend in her circle of friends to marry her friend, diaosi programmers replied with a joke, and when I went there, my classmates took it seriously and invited me to Shenzhen. She invited me to dinner with her friends to see if it was successful, taking a look at my classmates and taking a look at the mentality of introducing objects, I went to Shenzhen, where I missed the fact that I haven't met each other for several years, the moment I met in Shenzhen, I was a little excited. To tell the truth, when I waited for her, I felt nervous. Fortunately, after meeting, my nervousness disappears immediately. My old classmates are still so pleasing to the eye. I stayed with her for a day, took a day, and took a bus. I was not tired at all. I often felt tired when I went downstairs, maybe this is the power of Shenma. Now, let's continue with the introduction of objects. When I arrived in Shenzhen, I made an appointment with the girl. Three of them had an early tea together. They went to the vicinity of Shenzhen University in the afternoon and went to Happy Valley to eat Korean food at night, of course, in addition to the first morning tea, it is good for the students to treat, and I will treat the guests later. The landlord is a cool programmer, and there is no pressure to eat and eat with income. After a day together, I was chatting with my old classmates more often, watching her become fascinated. I also talked a lot with the girl who introduced it. It feels good. When I finally came back, my classmates asked me to take the initiative to chat with other girls. As a result, I actually went to see my classmates. As for the girl who introduced me, I would like to see it again, the next day, I talked to the girl, and I felt that I had nothing to say. I didn't know what to talk about. This also confirmed that the girl's skills have deteriorated since entering the IT industry. After chatting for a day, I will not talk about it later, and then I will not. The landlord is still struggling to continue chatting with the girl ....

I feel like I can't stop it, but it's not too early. It's time to go to bed. You need to develop good habits and exercise better. Please join us as soon as possible, you cannot continue to be self-defeating. Okay. Continue tomorrow.

If you think it is interesting, just give it a compliment. If you want to learn experience, come to the landlord. How can I leave such a good article without a diagram? Put a few pictures and I feel that the article will be more attractive.

I don't know if it infringes the authority of the client. No matter what, let's take a look at it.

Landlord ex-girlfriend:

Girl:

Girl girlfriends:

Junior high school students: (right) (introduced to me on the left)

Girl to introduce: