Grace is a success

Success does not necessarily mean Grace, but Grace is a success.
What is Grace? Elegant manners and elegant manners are only part of the iceberg's water. The essence of demeanor is: you can maintain a calm attitude under pressure and control your emotions well in the face of emergencies, can be good with others-sincere, tolerant, generous, not careless, not angry with others.
Grace is a success. Why? In the current highly competitive environment for survival and development, temptation and pressure are everywhere. After people's desires are stimulated, expanded, and then frustrated, the psychological germs are produced and expanded.
Scattered and cross-infection are inevitable. In such an environment, it is very challenging to require a person to join the board rather than be fascinated by the Board. Those who face powerful competitors can still
The handsome man in the towel, talking and laughing room, who are under sharp survival pressure, can still shout for the masses, "well, there are tens of millions of hosts, and everyone in the world is happy, I am frozen to death!" Poor books
Although the world is different, the mature and open-minded character is equally respectable and desirable.
Strong wins, strong wins. Being able to maintain the demeanor under pressure means conquering the psychological weakness of the self and improving the personality. This is of course a success and a great success.

The "Winner" with a lack of grace is only half successful, because he only wins the outward expansion, but not the inner conquest. Obviously, the outward expansion is only a means, the conquest and sublimation of the heart are the destination. One
If people have gained some benefits in fame and fortune, but get along with the surrounding area, they cannot be good with others and treat others with extensiveness. Instead, they often release negative factors to the surrounding area and become an infectious source of mental illness, leading to evil in the Social micro-environment
. He -- can he be a real winner?
Those who do not conquer themselves are slaves of desires. Can a person without spiritual freedom be regarded as a real winner?
Human nature is good, but it also has its fragile side. In social psychology, There is a famous "cat kick effect": When a manager receives a complaint from a customer, he immediately calls a phone call to get angry with his subordinates who are on a business trip.
The store gave a foul speech to the waiter. When the waiter went home, he scolded the child for being naughty. When the little boy was not able to scold him, he kicked a passing cat.
Looking at this "Kicking cat effect", in fact, the transmission of mental illness can be prevented at any stage. If managers and subordinates are more mature and have strong immunity to the spread of social and psychological diseases
Will the spread of the disease affect innocent waiters, children, and cats?
How can we achieve our demeanor? There is a sentence on the wall of Shekou FengHua cinemaFamous saying: A great personality has a great style. The perfect personality is obtained by strengthening self-cultivation. Reading good books, making friends, engaging in socially beneficial occupations, and participating in good spare time activities with a passion for life are all excellent paths for self-cultivation.

Not everyone can succeed in fame and fortune, but everyone can succeed in cultivation.
The ancients said: self-denial, compound courtesy, for benevolence. Benevolence is to be good with others. Criticism in this mindset must be a sincere help; competition in this intent must be conducive to the common development
Mutual Promotion. This kind of upright and unforced manners, like the golden leaves swaying in the late wilderness, provide comfort and encouragement to the tired soul around, and demonstrate the value of existence and the meaning of life.
How can this be a success?
Let us achieve our demeanor.