Mature life, never complain

 

Met him at a dinner.

As soon as he got his seat, he complained endlessly. He complained that the company was not good, he had to fight for a month, and he had not paid much for his salary. He complained that the boss was not fair, and he was good at flattering people; those who complain about the bad work of our colleagues make a fierce fight all over the world ...... finally, when he paused his complaint, I cautiously asked: Why don't I quit my job? He glanced at me strangely and seemed to be watching an alien. "Job-hopping? Where is the current economic downturn? "Now I understand that his job is not useless.

After the meeting, although he said goodbye with enthusiasm and deliberately left his phone number, I did not contact him. For me, it is not worth communicating with others.

It is true that his work is indeed unsatisfactory, but in this world, which job is perfect? If you want to earn a high salary, you have to take over the labor workload. If you want to make a fortune, you have to meet the discerning eyes around you. Even if you want to keep yourself confidential, you have to accept some inexplicable accusations ...... in the face of unsatisfactory life, what a person has to do is to try to change the part that can be changed. As for the part that an individual cannot do, accept it with confidence.

If, after a person complains, his dissatisfaction and depression can go with the wind, and his mood can become cheerful and bright, then his complaints are valuable. But the problem is that a complaint is like a dark, wet, black fog, which is enough to hide his eyes and confuse his eyes to confuse his mental barriers and his growth, in the end, he became more and more frustrated.

Life is a journey, a journey from Qingxi to maturity. And I believe that the true maturity is that it never starts to complain.