Men and women after March 1980s ..

Tell me Work LearningSome PerceptionNo matter whether it is good or bad, I actually express it, because it is safe, no one knows me, I said, there is no psychological burden.

I belong to the kind of person who once had ideals and aspirations, but now is willing to live in ordinary ways.

In fact, for most people, it takes a lot of courage to admit that they are ordinary. if he/she is willing to admit it, it means they start to mature. I recently began to admit that I was not reluctant and thought it was quite good.

The road to life can only be taken once without looking back, so the choice of every critical moment is very important, and it is often the way you will go next, however, there are several people who can choose the path that suits them with great foresight. Most of the time, they choose the path that best suits them.

I was born in a well-off family,LifeA child who is under little pressure will not have too many ideas. His mind is simple. I am such a child. When I study, I am not very careful, but I am also very disciplined. The Division of Arts and Sciences in high school is an important choice. Unfortunately, at that time, I chose science and ignored the fact that I was very suitable for learning texts.

In a College of Engineering, the University has many male, fewer female, and more beautiful women. I talked about a romantic relationship. The other guy was a handsome boy, and he was not very close to me. I don't know how we talked about it at that time. It is estimated that there were too many hormones in adolescence, so when I look at each other's eyes or something, my heartbeat is excited, sweet, and shy. Two children are holding hands to talk about things for a lifetime, which is very idealistic, but this is the most pure and true feeling in my life. Now, every time I look at the hot TV sets of Wang Lihong, the young man and the heroine look at each other in a sweet way, I think of him. Only him makes me feel this way. It is estimated that this will not happen in the future. It is not a human problem, but a stage problem. I have already passed that stage. He is actually very good to me, because I did not cherish it, but did not cherish it, but because of his character, there is no way, not me. I miss you so much, but now the cloud is light. If you meet me again, I will say to him: Thank you for your love. When I broke up, I had a very bad demeanor and had a hard time entangled him for a long time. In the end, he went away and forgot how to chase me. Hey hey, but I don't blame him.

After graduation, I am unemployed at home and have nothing to do. I feel that I have failed. I don't have a head, I can't see the front, and my boyfriend doesn't know where to go. Bored for a few months, I started to submit my resume. A fresh graduate with no work experience should be difficult to find a job in the absence of campus recruitment season. But I am lucky and take it easily. In fact, I have nothing to do with it. The only advantage is strong plasticity. At that time, I was too young (not old now) and very proud, I think I must be very good, so those strong companies will want to ask me. I chose one of them. This option should be correct, at least for the moment. This company is very hard to train people who just graduated. People like me are actually very dependent on the environment, the environment is good, I am good, the environment is not good, I will also abuse. In that company, I developed well, suffered a lot of hardships, was willing to eat, and grew fast. At that time, my status was very good, an idea is a typical young man with an ideal passion. I talked about this kind of relationship. The other guy was a good guy with very. He was working in a company that many people dreamed of. We were soon done by each other and began to fall in love sweetly, it is a pity that the feelings of rapid development have declined rapidly. At the beginning, it was the advantages of the other party, and then it was all the disadvantages after the quarrel, and according to the eyes of his family, I don't deserve him, nnd. I believe that he has paid a lot of real feelings for me, and so I wish him a happy career and life in the future.

Slowly, I don't have that ideal anymore. I'm not so energetic in my first company. I don't want to work overtime or be passionate, so I quit. After I resigned, I invested in a company that I once dreamed of but never dared to expect. After a month, I got an offer. This company is indeed a very comfortable place with a good working environment. I am in a group of gentle and actually cool people.Technology.

Next I will talk about a very critical "bad" period in my mind. During that time, I was very impetuous. Although I did not have stock trading or stock trading, I was quite impetuous. I have met some people in the finance and real estate industries. They are very talkative and confident. They feel much better than the people I usually engage in technology, during that time, my mind was excited. It was definitely not the kind of technically strong boys enjoyed by the student age, but the boys who were very good at making a lot of money, that was the most impetuous period of my time. During this period, I began to despise technology. I felt that doing technology is the lowest level, and I could never have a bright day. During that time, I had been thinking about this transformation. I wanted to work with people or money, and I thought I would be very suitable for doing it. I contacted those who worked as professional managers, consultants, and analysts to talk about career planning. I imagined that I would become an MBA and meet successful people ...... During that time, my mind was full of such ideas. To be nice, I was motivated. However, it was utilitarian. These ideas have made me lose myself for a moment, stimulating a pure kind girl into a utilitarian family. I don't know why I am doing this, because I am rarely so utilitarian. Maybe it is because the people I come into contact with, their thoughts and words have given me a lot of influence and stimulation. They make me feel that in China, to make a lot of money, we need to have contacts, backgrounds, and means, imagine the feeling that I could grasp a lot of resources one day, but I didn't realize that I was just a girl.

Now I have finally come out of that "Ambition" status, because in fact I am a very common technical girl with a comfortable life and stable work. Life must be hard-working and hard-working, but never have to look down. For most people, down-to-earth is king.

We have been discussing too many people in 1980s. What I want to say is that girls in 1980s are definitely not as vain and capricious as everyone thinks. We also know how to work hard, you also have dreams and self-esteem. Boys in 1980s are under a lot of pressure. Currently, the life pressure of the damn house price makes it impossible for many people who can do things quietly. When they get to the age of their girlfriends, but there is no money to buy a house. Even if I buy a house, I still need to be a house slaves. This kind of life is really uncomfortable. As a girl, no girl will think about marrying a person with a house and a car when she is in her first love. At least I don't have one. The boyfriend I met after work, there is no room and there is not much money. I am still very happy with him. Later I separated the house for many reasons, but it is never because I suspect that he has no room and no money. But now, I won't say that I don't care. If I have a choice, I will definitely choose to have a house. However, a house is definitely not the most important and talent is the most important, it seems that I have not yet bowed my head to reality because people who have a car room are pursuing it. In fact, I don't have any worries physically. Now I don't want to endure hardship with a very poor boy. I always have to find a right guy, sigh, I have come up with this idea. Two years ago, I must despise myself and despise myself. If I were a boy, I went to soak up the young and beautiful student mm. People would certainly not have too many practical ideas. When talking about love, they also felt boring, so I hope that I can think of it now. Do not go deep into reality, and I will feel overwhelmed by it.

I am still quite young now. I have been working for two years, and I am still looking at it with big eyes, now it's more calm. I must have kept a heart of mine, and have gone through an impetuous stage. This is the most comfortable thing for me, because the impetuous status is really painful.

In terms of feelings, I am actually quite traditional, but I still talked about two failed relationships, not what I hope, and I don't think I am a girl with rich emotional experience, never go to those places in the bar, nor compromise because of loneliness. Life is very simple. In order to enrich your life, that is, go to fitness, dance, and buy beautiful clothes, sometimes I feel that I have no friends, and my friends who are knowledgeable can work in other places. After work, it is difficult for me to feel at ease. Sometimes I am surrounded by people, but I feel very lonely in my heart.

In fact, every day is very happy, and the environment for life and work is very good. If you encounter your own real life, it will be more than perfect, which is not a very worried thing, I still have a good yearning and expectation for my feelings. I should work well, enjoy my life, cultivate my own morality, and grow up one day.