What is the principle of "high hope "?
When A and B are playing mountain climbing games, A is under the mountain, and B is on the mountain, we give them instructions to let them look at the front at the same time, and then the two tell them what they saw, the answer from the two people must be different. said Jia from the bottom of the mountain, there is a forest or a row of houses in front of him. B from the mountains said that he was in front of a tall building, and the beautiful city was in full view, is it true that A is right or B is right? Undoubtedly, both parties are right. Because they are in different positions and different perspectives, they can draw two completely different conclusions on the same issue, if you do not understand the differences, Party A and Party B may argue that Party A and Party B have incorrect opinions, they all have good reasons to prove that their points of view are correct, but they are also correct if they do not think of the other party's point of view.
No one will understand the simple principle of "reaching high expectations", and no one will make such naive visual errors. However, in real life, there are many examples of this phenomenon, almost everyone has different opinions and reactions to the same stress event, including husband and wife, friends, family, and work unit, each person's opinion is influenced by his or her position, situation, thoughts, or emotions, and his or her personal culture. Influenced by education, growth background, and experience, all these complex factors influence different people's views, opinions, and opinions on the same stress event, some people only admit their own opinions and reject others' different opinions and opinions. Isn't it just a naive mistake that A and B are mutually exclusive? My opinion is correct in terms of my situation, position, and conceptual position, but why should I deny others' opinions? Do you understand the situation, position, concept, and actual position of the other party? There is nothing wrong with standing down the hill to see the woods, but why should people standing on the mountains admit that what they see is also the woods? Is this imposing a sense of human consciousness and concept reasonable?
The psychology text above is intended for friends who encounter similar difficulties in life!
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On the ridge side, the distance is different;
I don't know the true colors of the mountains, just because I am in this mountains.