Forget your dwelling efforts for 10000 hours

Don't worry about dwelling

 

"Dwelling" Hot play. A diligent and steadfast girlfriend came to the phone and accidentally started to work very hard. Because of the high housing price in Beijing, she and her husband at the working class can only buy a room in Shunyi District near her husband's unit, it takes her six hours to go to the crowded subway and bus to work in Daxing district every day. After hearing this, I asked her, "Why don't you change your job ?" She reluctantly replied: "It is too difficult to find a job because of the economic crisis. It is too much pressure to change jobs. I have been in this unit for four years and everything is used ."

I think I can accept adding 6 hours of work to my favorite job every day, but I cannot accept spending 6 hours on the road for the last 8 hours of work, if we calculate an account, you will find a big problem. According to my knowledge, her unit is working six days a week, and the time on the road in a week is 36 hours, excluding 2 to 52 weeks a year ~ On a 3-week holiday, there will be 1800 hours in the last 50 weeks, and 7200 hours in the 4-year meeting will be spent on the way to work. Imagine what kind of achievements would be made if I spent the past 7200 hours working? In the past four years, we will never take more time to use it.

Under normal circumstances, if a well-known undergraduate graduates work hard for 14 hours every day for four consecutive years, they can be department managers if they cannot perform middle-level management. Traffic and house problems cannot be solved easily, or at least not in this embarrassing situation. From the perspective of Dr. Lang Xianping, it is a false proposition to change jobs and give up everything we have, it is not worth the effort.

On the contrary, some of the other middle-and high-level managers I know quit their jobs or took off leave in the financial crisis and went to an MBA or other professional courses. The big environment is not good. Of course, the pressure on their mortgages and car loans is even greater, because they buy big houses and high-end commercial vehicles in good locations, and their salary is also reduced more than usual, but they are not worried about the loss.

Most people think this is a learning opportunity. The global economic crisis cannot be reversed by one or two people. It is better to take this opportunity to increase their value. When the economy recovers, their value will multiply immediately.

Some people may say that they have enough money to receive further education, but we are not ordinary people. As a matter of fact, I know a man who is currently on the bright path of "Qian". More than a decade ago, he was also a North float and fully integrated into this society through his own efforts. He was born in 1970s and started as a salesman in the market. The difference was that he did not buy a house in the suburbs when he had enough house to pay the first MBA in China, after developing a higher level of interpersonal relationships, we were recognized by a group of like-minded people and reversed our ideas with them. Therefore, our career has gained greater development and has taken a new step.

He lived in a rented apartment or "dwelling" in his wife's unit for many years in Beijing. Most of his income has been invested in interpersonal communication and career development. During the SARS period, housing prices in Beijing were unstable and everyone was holding a wait-and-see attitude, but he did not hesitate to borrow debts (he has accumulated a network of people who can borrow debts through graduate students) he quickly bought a house near the third ring road in close proximity to the organization. His family said the pressure was too great-because he was far less powerful at the time. He replied, "If you are under pressure, you will be motivated! If you use the wasted time on your way to work to create value, you will find that this account is very valuable. In addition, it is an indisputable fact that houses in the third ring road will only rise and fall, and its appreciation chances and speed will be even greater ." Facts have proved that he is not overwhelmed by high mortgages, but his life is getting better and better.

When the 80 s and 90 s are angry and worried about the state of life as "dwelling", few people have his courage and ambition. He once warned me that:

"When you determine your own direction, don't be impetuous. If you stick to it, you will surely have a result ." I followed his ideas in a very low starting position and persisted for many years before I found that the sentence he gave me in that year was more useful than the success theorem of any successful masters. He also said: "The average position and level of the six best friends around you are an embodiment of your level and ability, therefore, a good mentor or team in your work and study is the key to determining your quality of life. To be able to stand with them, what you need to do is to strive to improve yourself, not to brag about yourself in a group of people with lower capabilities, or to gain or lose in the immediate interests ."

This is the train of thought in the popular "rich father and poor father. In many cases, the problem we are struggling with is a pseudo-problem. A different idea may have a different way out. If you don't have a rich father, at least you have to have a rich father's idea of creating wealth.

 

 

 

 

 

Critical Point of success

10000 hours

 

I think the comparison between "Qian tu" and "future" is a false proposition in most people's eyes. If you can love one line, all the major roads will go to Rome. If your job is just a means of making a living, and you have not invested enough passion and talent, it is estimated that it is difficult to make a living.

The post-80s post-90s proposition that "houses are more important than love" and "Buy a house first and then get married" is actually a pseudo proposition. Any high-sounding reason is not enough to be an excuse to betray love and faith.

Instead of complaining about high house prices, it is better to turn off the TV as I did here. First, I will take bengravel's "heterogeneous" from the shelf. let's see what it will reveal-his "heterogeneous success learning" clearly states that success can be quantified by time, and the critical point of success is 10000 hours-whether you are a composer or a computer program engineer. Athletes, writers ...... To reach the world level, the exercise time must be over 10000 hours (generally 8 to 10 years ). This is the bottom line or standard. Anyone in any industry is no exception. Bill Gates, Joey, and the Beetle are no exception.

Most people cannot be successful. First, they do not have to make too much continuous efforts. Second, they may not be able to pay for these exercises. (Or most people put the money on buying real estate first) If you agree with his point of view, you will be made up of enterprising determination, continue to find Ben Peter Drucker (effective manager) to learn how to manage your time correctly. Even if it is esoteric, you must read it with a strong scalp. It has no interest in novels or TV series, but is definitely more valuable. If you spent 10000 hours on the way to and from work, watch Korean soap opera, indulge in online games, it is estimated that you have to take a "shortcut" to get rid of the dwelling state-of course, you 'd better weigh the advantages and disadvantages first.

"The mind determines the vision, the Vision determines the pattern, the pattern determines the fate, And the fate determines the future ." People are used to measuring your success using cars and houses as standards. If you fall into this impetuous utilitarian judgment, it is estimated that you will hate it.

Young people after the 80 s and 90 s must first have the courage to shoulder the pressure of external society, overcome the impetuous mentality, and always warn themselves to be patient and confident to fight for and wait for their success. In my opinion, in the S, I had to learn to manage my time correctly, accurately grasp my work direction, and strive to find a breakthrough to get rid of difficulties. In addition to silent patience and hard work, more people need to increase their own height and change their thinking perspectives.