How full is your bucket life

Recently saw "Your bucket is full" this best-selling book, quite touching, on the up nagging.

Each of us has an invisible bucket, a bucket of water how much, depending on what people say to us and do, our bucket is all the time and water, and when our bucket is full, we are elated, when our bucket empty, we nutation frustrated.

Each of us has an invisible spoon. When we add water to someone else's bucket, we also add water to our bucket. But when we use this spoon to scoop water from someone else's bucket, we are also draining our own bucket.

When the bucket overflowed, we were energetic and high-spirited. Every drop of water in a bucket makes us stronger and more optimistic. An empty bucket will cause us to be dispirited and exhausted. Because of this, every time we get someone to scoop water from our bucket, we're all hurt.

Aide Dina, a renowned psychologist, points out that we feel the bottom line of happiness, just like our weight. Just like our weight. Some people are born thin, no matter how they eat. Similarly, some people are born happier than others. But the experience of our life, will let our bucket sometimes full of empty, we are constantly adjusting our bucket, we always let him fill the water, so that we can be happy to treat each day.

Bucket with water, we need help from others, our spoons can only make our bucket of water less, we want to increase our bucket of water, we have to let others use their spoons to give us water. The care and help of others is so important to our life.

The author receives a unique education from the bottom. Every family member is concerned with his advantage, the more he is interested in the things, the family is also interested, the family is not sparing their praise, their affirmation for the author filled with water, he also has a good life, even if the discovery of the tumor, did not make him frustrated, because the family's sincere love and encouragement to produce a magical help, Even if the left eye is blind, he is still optimistic that my right eye is far more powerful than the average person. The author's life is very simple: his 30 years of life, is in the kiss people constantly add water to live. When the author shared the story, he was also adding water to the bucket of others.

People's life, do not let their bucket is always dry, you have to constantly add water for others. A drop of water is very small, but everyone is added to others, not sparing praise others, bucket will often full.

We too need to be praised, remember "slam dunk" inside the Ling Nan team of 13th, when the coach back to his praise, he is so good, may be more than you praise the outstanding. I never begrudge the virtues of others, everyone has advantages, we have to use their own spoon, the other people's bucket to fill.