How many husbands and wives have been doing each other's bad critics for a lifetime?

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This is a thought about marriage.

The way couples get along is the process of running into each other.

Love cannot live without marriage.

Marriage must never be the end of love

But a new beginning.

Run out of life and do each other's bad critics

Glimpse marriage becomes a siege that cannot be approached

-Mutual appreciation, mutual ridicule is love.

The winner of life depends on the business, not the waiting for the ride, marriage is the same.
My friend L and P, although a male and a female gender difference, but they have two things in common: first, they are particularly good at finding ugliness from the truth and beauty, a little big things can find slots, and then began jutting forced jutting; second, their partners look bad, L's wife perennial, sallow face, P's husband is always depressed, eyelids are drooping all the year round.
At first, I could not understand the reason, until the two couples contacted a few times, everything seems clear. L like to ask friends to eat at home, because the full-time housewife Mrs. L Cooking, West Point and Chinese food each have a surprise, I suspect her family's most common vinegar and shredded potatoes with chicken soup.
When Mrs. L washed the dishes, I walked to her side and heartily praised: "Sister-in-law, you are very good cook!" "She was surprised:" Really? Ordinary home-cooked food, l can never boast. "I am trying to make up a" he is not in the blessing of the blessing "and so on, only listen to the voice of L resounded through the living room:" Baby's pants how dirty a chunk! " "We ran out of the kitchen, see L son pants dyed a painting paint, L uphold complained, wife stay at home all day, incredibly this did not find, how to be a mother."
Mrs. L was very tolerant, quite to the husband face, silently take out clean trousers, to four-year-old children to change. I looked at this respectable family, the living room comfortable clean, the baby toys piled neatly in the storage box, the food nutritious and delicious, these, need a woman to pay how much patience love and meticulous. However, a harmless dirty trousers, it is enough to all the advantages of written off, in exchange for a huge bad comment. How can a woman be elated and rejuvenated in such a day?
P's husband is a polite warm male, love hillock dedicated also very family, is a little road blind. On one occasion, I took their ride to the house not frequented by the hotel, is personally experienced a miserable world, p almost from start complaining, has been denounced to arrive at the destination.
"Ah, just now clearly the elevated, you do not have long eyes ah!" "There is a one-way street Hey, you still ready to turn in?" "That fool actually rushed us to die honk the horn, hurriedly surpasses him!" "You are the most-driven person I've ever seen!" "However, even so, p also do not let the husband installed GPs, because too noisy."
As soon as I got to the destination, I jumped out of the car and thanked the P-couple, who reluctantly squeezed a smile from the face of almost depression. How can a man feel confident in such accusations?

-Love her/he's all over her/he's shining
Between husband and wife, there is no great man, no beauty.
We face all the day, is the pillow of the ordinary people. The Goddess in the eyes of others, but scuffed past slippers in the pajamas hair casually in the face of the woman, the man who looked up to the male God, will also squat in the toilet foot across the Yangtze River hand hold important documents, while smoking hard.
However, such a real person, but we have to work together through the long life of the partners, not praise not encouragement, light criticism of the light blow, I married you to marry you for what? Is it to use their own life, find a lifetime of bad judge disgruntled?
To a certain extent, the understanding of the philosophy of life and the soul of chicken soup has long been understood, do not need a always badgered storey husband or wife.
The faith is different for those who are loved and praised.
Republic of the famous Praise Division, male god Hu Shi, married a well-known non-literate small feet wife Jiangdongxiu, but, people do not picky not blame, but also encourage Mrs. Foot "do not like people", start "put feet", in the male God's guidance, wife learn culture, see classical novels, "Red Mansions" in the servant girl's name, can very familiar Also learned to write letters. Master Hu stranded Island in his later years, still lose humor, accidentally saw a commemorative coin engraved with p.t.t words, then said is "Afraid of wife" (first word pinyin PTT) association issued, but also made a series of new "three from four to", wife go out to follow, wife to willing to spend money and so on, self-proclaimed "P.T.T Association" member. A lifetime, Mrs. Hu was coaxed to outlet flattered, the master Hu to take care of the appropriateness of the full blessing.
A pair of men and women, the encounter has been fate, love more difficult, arduous struggle to become husband and wife, it is the timing of the opportunity and emotional. The love of the young, cocoon general filament winding, dense meaning, like to poke broken screen for each other to praise, middle-aged, but as if moths broken pupa, lazy, gray flutter, can less to the other side, has not been easy. And most people, less than seven years itch, go halfway has become a stranger.
That year love his flying personality, but now covet is the new mansion of the boudoir honey, so, his unruly become irresponsible, need to jicisanfan complain, once love her simple kindness, now like is Smile hundred Mei Sheng amorous feelings, so, her simplicity into a dull, really even looked at is superfluous.
How many couples, in the long years, abruptly broken the advantages of each other, into each other, to fight against each other, in the arena of marriage, exhausted all the life to do each other's bad judge. Stable marriage all kinds, once loved the death is not unusual, not even important, the most rare is, the passion retreat, time flies, still for each other to praise, still feel that everything is the best arrangement, everything is the best choice.
Therefore, behind each sweet woman, most of them have a generous man's silent support, and every happy man's side, but also a tolerant woman's silent supports. They appreciate each other's strengths, tolerance of their own shortcomings, each other to praise each other. Such admiration, like a magic pen of gold, finds the potential and talent that the other person is unaware of, transforming the other half into a treasure trove, rather than a garbage heap. How can marriage, which is like each other, not be a virtuous circle?

Surface damage to each other

and admire each other from the inside.

Even if you have a little complaint

And he knows it.

It's just your little emotion.

How many husbands and wives have been doing each other's bad critics for a lifetime?