How to Be a person

How to Be a person

Air to be soft, not hard

When the grass and wood are alive, they are soft and hard only when they die. When people are alive, their bodies are soft and hard when they die. So soft is angry, hard is dead.

To be a person, we need to be gentle, conflict with others, argue with others, and have a tough attitude. We can be angry and prolong our life.

The good man does not argue, and the discerning man is not good. It's not a good argument.

 

Warm, cold

You can think about why spring is the time to restore everything? Because the spring is warm back to the sun, the warmth represents the vitality.

For us to be human, our hearts should be warm, our hearts should be cold, and our hearts should not be warm. This is not angry. For a person, it is cold to die, so cold is insufficient to get angry, and there is a problem with his/her life.

Emotional, heartless

In the wind water, a straight flow of water, called heartless water, is a broken grid. A curved and winding river is called an emotional water, which is a good image of the Tibetan wind.

As we are people, we are doing things for people. Pay attention to the wan expression, so that the air flow can be rolled around, this is called emotional.

We must learn how to express, speak, and do things without breaking our destiny. Let us take into account the positions and feelings of others, especially when talking. Speaking is the easiest way to increase forford, And the easiest way to cut the profit. You cut other people by talking, that is, breaking your own destiny.

Qi yicong, don't want to lag

The medical book says: pain is not a problem, and general rules are not painful. This is also to say that people should be well-rounded and treat people around them, so that they can be well-rounded, understand, don't feel awkward, don't mean to be embarrassed, and don't give up. If we do not block others, others will not block us, and we will not be suffering from such problems ".

It is often used to help others fulfill their wishes and help others get through, such as working at work. If they have the opportunity, they should help their colleagues do well, help their superiors share their responsibilities, and help them smoothly get through;

For example, they can throw less garbage on the road, help the cleaners reduce their workload, and maintain the fruits of their work;

For example, the intersection follows the traffic rules to make the vehicles and pedestrians more convenient ....

These are all very subtle practices. In this way, we can achieve the convenience and convenience of others, without the intention or intention to block others, so that we will be able to communicate freely and fate will be accessible.

 

Gas to rise, not to settle

If you drop it down, it will be frozen, and the rise will have a life. This is to say that if you encounter difficulties, you must maintain optimism. Optimism is like heat. if the gas is hot, it will rise.

But you can't be proud of it. If the gas is heated too much, its volume will expand. Like a hot air balloon, it can't stop and float away.

This is why proud and arrogant people cannot keep their blessings. It cannot be excited and happy. Joy also hurts the five dirty gases. "anger hurts the liver, happiness hurts, Thinking hurts the spleen, sorrow lungs, fear hurts the kidney", the most raises the five dirty, it is to maintain a calm heart, do not turn around with people, as people do nothing.

Temperament

If you do not want to be thin or thick, you must first have the space to accommodate. This capacity is also the capacity to accommodate foru. A person must have an empty cup of mind, a mind that can accommodate others and things, and a mind that can accommodate others, not just evil deeds, good deeds, thoughts, and positions, even if you think it is very naive, a person-in-one angle, a kind of wisdom.

The following is an idiom: modesty means that the mind is as big as the valley, so modesty is a good way to expand the capacity of the gas.

If you have become a general, thieves do not, scammers do not, villains do not, or have shortcomings, you will become the commander of the light pole.

 

Brightness and shade of Qi

Clearly, we do not do anything. The dark is the opposite. But we can't ask others, or we will become a three hundred-watt lamp.

Some people are fair and honest, but why is there a disaster? Because he shows his wisdom to set off others' ignorance, cultivate his own clean conduct to show others' foul, bright and prominent looks like walking with sun and moon, to set off others' darkness, in this way, there is no middle-end deaf-mute blind hacker, so it is very good, so we cannot avoid disasters. Institute

The old man said: "If it is mixed, it is turbid. He mixed himself in a dirty environment, just as he was. This should refer to the meaning of adapting to the environment. In this book, the Saints do not think that they are noble and clean people, so they can become Saints. The mortals are noble and clean, and they cannot be clear to others, that's why we become more like a mortal.

 

Clear Air Turbidity

Clear gas increases, and turbidity decreases. The sky is clear, and the Earth is muddy and carries all things. The gods live in the sky. They are blessed by people and blessed by immortals. The gods cannot be blessed by mortals, nor can they be blessed by immortals. Therefore, people in Taiqing often become monks and cannot enjoy the blessings of ordinary people.

Being a person cannot be too clear, too clear, and should not be slightly smaller than others, so they may feel stabbed in their eyes. Such a physical constitution will not be able to inherit the blessings of ordinary people.

Everyone has their own expertise and ways to make a living. Some people have special skills in relationship, some others have special advantages in beauty, some others have special skills in parents, some others have special skills in reading, and some others have special skills in doing things, if you are not competitive, they are the talents granted by heaven. They compete with you. Although it is not just a legitimate competition between knowledge and you, everyone is competing with your strengths. but it cannot be full of turbidity. Otherwise, it is like dirt. There is no clear gas in the soil, so nothing can happen and no anger. the soil has a blocking effect, so it is full of turbidity and wisdom is blocked.

It is often a bad idea to be human, and wisdom will become increasingly difficult. for example, the popular program is to expose and approve others. It is very lucky to promote the defect of others. Every promotion to a person is to cut 1 Lu, the network traffic is too large, and the traffic is cut fast. Uncover the shortcomings of others, make minor mistakes, and publicize them everywhere. This will be like the mildew on the official website, and gradually corrode the official website, not just yours, but your entire family of immediate blood.

I. Modesty

The reason why the great ocean is the king of water and Sichuan is that it is in a low terrain. High IQ and low attitude are the characteristics of becoming the king. A humble person, God will not give him a disaster, and God will not obstruct him, even the villain and the wicked will not, and all disasters will be avoided.

If you are able to educate your child to be modest and gentle, his life will be always negative. Educating him to be modest is not to educate him to understand his insignificance, but to educate him to see and think about the composition of this wonderful world and to see all the creatures on the earth, listen to the words of nature and life in the world, and appreciate the beauty of life. never hurt any life from an early age. Because you know how to appreciate life, you respect life. Because you respect life, you are modest.

It is very important to educate children not to hurt the lives of the Child spirit, not to catch the Dragonfly, step on the ant, catch the fish, catch the frogs, dig the river clams, dig the worms, and catch all kinds of worms. Otherwise, when he was a child, he hurt these creatures, and fluke was cut by half when he was ignorant. This cannot be done in any way in the future. Then try not to extract flowers and step on the grass. These creatures also have feelings. Flowers may not be for you, but they may not be for you.

2. Respect

Respect is the most noble soul of a person or even a god. The so-called respect means that, whether talking or doing things, you have a mature attitude. When expressing your personal feelings and positions, you must take into account the emotions and positions of others. Respect others' ideas, comments, beliefs, hobbies, and content to be refuted. Do not swear at anyone in any situation, or scold you for others.

A dead mouse can break down a pot of soup, because it turns around with the dead mouse. The sea can hold thousands of sewage streams, but it does not turn dirty with the sewage flow, but the sewage flow turns clear with it. This is the difference between a pot of soup and the sea. For example, if someone else is angry and scolded you, if you are also angry and scold him, this is to turn around with him, your clean water, he turns dirty, every dirty stream comes, and you turn dirty with it. It only means that you are a pot of soup, so a dead mouse can damage you.

Iii. Instructor courtesy

Do not deliberately collect the mistakes of xianxian and post a new saying, which will defeat both yourself and your children and grandchildren.

If you are angry with your parents, your work will inevitably fail, because your parents are willing to [work] Your official website;

The other is marriage, which must be a great obstacle. It is very painful to suffer. As long as you change it immediately, the work and the marriage will immediately turn, and never turn around, when to start to change, and when to start to change.

 

4. Not angry

The voice of an angry man is as ugly as a wolf. The angry man and resentful man are the fastest, because it is the fastest. If a person is angry, his or her parents will not be able to perform well in his or her life. If the person is angry, his or her life will be full of wealth.

Sakyamuni said: You believe in Buddha but you still don't do things well. One of the important reasons is that you love to lose your temper and swear. Yin Everbright said: If you encounter adversity without complaining, then your future and future generations will flourish.

Temper is called the fire of gongdelin, a anger, your accumulation of good fortune report burned out, this taboo is the biggest. Yao was deeply influenced by Lao Tzu's Taoist ideology and a good tutor. He never lost his temper when he was hit and injured by his opponent on the court. Therefore, the Chinese values and culture represented by Yao Ming set off waves in the United States.

5. Remember to send an email

Some people do things easily and often encounter obstacles. Why? This is because he reports to his parents, superiors, elders, and others, and does not report to those who have such kindness. If you don't report your favor, you will be in conflict with us.