How to chat with girls without entering the friendship zone

Learning to speak is not to make every word beautiful, but to give the girl you want to give her the feeling .

What are the feelings you want to give her?

(1) Self-confidence

(2) interesting

(3) Happy

(4) Elusive

(5) have a definite opinion

(6) Never panic

So giving her what it feels like is the core .

(a) Do not proceed if you are not asked at any time :

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(b) Be sure to watch girls ' ioi when chatting

If you do not see the girl's IOI signal, the girl will think you this person does not understand the board (our dialect)

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The girl volunteered to ask: Is the holiday?

That means I'm at least not annoying .

I invite girls to dinner, girls say too much , show interest is not very big

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Girl: What kind of work do you like to go everywhere? ( the girl saw my circle of friends )

The indirect statement was of interest to me (though not very large)

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It can be seen that girls are very interested to know my career, has already said "that forget, I also want to cross the year"

In fact, is not " forget ", still curious, so the second question "strong and boring, say no ah, or can not say "

So, no matter how conservative, looks cold girl, have a very strong curiosity .

Boy: Sell me a cute I'll tell you quietly

Female: refused

This is the "no Interest indicator", should not continue this topic .

The boy said, "I don't Want you to Kiss Me" ( wrong )

Throughout this chat, the girl's words do not have any expression, indicating that the girls (1) One is not familiar with me (2) very traditional rigid

So you should not use too much "sell Moe", "Kiss Me" "Do not want Me" this kind of tune to chat

Can not open too "excessive" "warm" joke.

(c) Want to be a girl friend, chat not too seriously

Boys to dominate the topic, and properly introduced "washing dishes" "should be a good daughter-in-law", "is not thinking of me" this kind of warm * ignorant topic.

Otherwise there will be no suspense to enter the friendship zone.

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"Kneeling and rubbing board"

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"Into the bridal chamber."

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and to implant the picture of the two of you together.

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(d) To clarify whether a girl's refusal is antagonistic or true refusal

First look at the example of false refusal

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Examples of true rejections

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How to chat with girls without entering the friendship zone