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Go home on the train, accidentally heard next to the little girl crying while calling family, she said: "Mom, sorry, originally said to make money to go home ..." she curled up in her seat and tried to suppress her cries, "but I did my best, mom, I don't regret it." ”
Reminiscent of a previous reading of a log, some people say he has never believed the meaning of hard struggle. But is the meaning of hard work really just for the sake of making money, or for the success that society recognizes?
I suddenly remembered my best friend, who was upside down day and night, M.
One day on the weekend, he sent his own cover design, not waiting for my evaluation, he said, no, I have to change again. In fact, I think it is very good, but he is always dissatisfied. The next day at noon he gave me a look at the modified design, and then the voice on the other side suddenly sighed.
"You say, we are so day and night upside down, so busy, in the end is for what?" "he asked me.
At that time, I remembered a sentence, said to him: "In the final analysis, we drift off to accept hardship, because we are willing." We are trying so hard to give ourselves an account. ”
Like the girl I swiftness to impress me with the words: "But I tried, mom, I do not regret." ”
I do not know why the recent emergence of a lot of words do not believe the meaning of hard work. However, this seems to me never a problem, effort is never equal to success, and success is never the ultimate goal. The ultimate dream, in fact, is very difficult to achieve. But when you chase a dream, you will find a better self, a silent effort to enrich the quiet of yourself, you will feel fulfilled because of what you have done.
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I always believe in the meaning of hard work, because that is the essence of the problem.
My friend once asked me: "If one day your dream has not come true, you will not feel very scary." ”
I said to him, there's nothing to be afraid of.
He looked at me and said, "even those efforts are not rewarded?" ”
I think the effort is the return of effort, pay is to pay the return, writing is the return of writing, painting is the return of painting, singing is the return of singing, as my best friend said, although every time feel very tired, but when he saw his work, the excitement and excitement of the heart and nothing else can be replaced.
If your efforts can make yourself do what you like, why should you give up your efforts? If people can do what they like, who says it's not a reward?
I believe that anyone, whether he is a big man or a small person, as long as they do what they like to do, it must be happy. As long as you strive for what you want to do, you will feel fulfilled. Conversely, if your efforts are for something you do not want, you will naturally feel frustrated and unhappy, and then doubt the meaning of the effort.
If your efforts are not for your liking, you want to, then please stop and ask yourself if you are too impatient.
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Once in the mountains have seen innocent children to study the situation, as the text said, these children may be able to accept the parents in the future, in the mountains to continue his hard life. But they are much happier than many people who are better off than they are, because for them, studying is the reward of studying.
Once a friend floating in Beijing told me that he may not be able to attack the life, perhaps those high-rich handsome people do not need how to pay and can make better results, but he still decided to continue to drift, do a struggle of the cock silk, he felt this is worth, failure will not have an excuse, but also to himself an account.
Why do you think mountaineering people want to climb mountains? It is because the mountains are there because they cannot speak of the longing that is difficult to satisfy.
Why do you know that dreams are hard to come by or chase? Because that is our desire, because we are not reconciled, because we want to our own life can be colorful, because we want to give ourselves an account, because we want to after we are old can say to the children, your grandfather I once for the dream of no hesitation to work.
True, perhaps the struggle for a lifetime of the cock silk is just a cock silk, perhaps the fish turned over is just a turn over the face of salted fish, but at least they have a dream of self-esteem, rather than abandon the next sentence to live without conscience.
You should not worry about the end of your life, but fear that your life will never begin.
In fact, I was in pursuit of the dream, I have long realized that those dreams will probably not come true, but I still decided to chase. Failure is nothing terrible, terrible is never tried to comfort themselves, even a little bit of remorse is covered by numbness.
No fear, nothing more terrible than self-betrayal.
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Nine knives in the book said: "Some dreams, even if there is never a way to achieve, even if it is even said out of the luxury." But if you do not say to warm yourself, you will not be able to get forward momentum. ”
Why do people have to bear feelings? It is because only when people are confronted with these pains can they become powerful to comfort others in the face of the natural laws of powerlessness.
Why do people have to bear dreams? It is because of the dream that, even if you are vulnerable to fall at any time, no one can take him. Even if you are really a salted fish, no one can take away your dream of freedom.
All the glory and greatness, must accompany with setbacks and falls, all the cool behind is a hard-pressed wall. Who does not have a restless youth? There is no one thing can take you down suddenly, there is not one thing can let you skyrocketing rise, slowly walk, slowly look, life is a gradual accumulation of the process.
There was a sanitation worker who had worked for decades and finally retired, and a lot of people thought he was very humble, but he was always gentle and smiling, and I thought that although he might not be able to make a lot of money, he was also great.
The fulfillment of living is more important than the success of living, and that is the meaning of effort.
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I often say, you are a kind of person, you will hear what kind of song, see what kind of text, write what kind of words, meet what kind of person. You can hear the healing songs, see the warm text, write stubborn text, meet the right person, you will believe those warmth, beliefs, dreams, adhere to such a look of the old words, is because you are such a person.
You believe in dreams and dreams will believe you. True.
However, the feelings and dreams are special Lengnuanzizhi, you want to describe with others, it is not necessarily able to describe the good, perhaps your depression in the eyes of others seem inexplicable. Like others is you are not other people, how to advise others, the final decision is not you, your dream is your own and not others, may appear in your eyes meaning significant, in their eyes boring is not worth mentioning.
In a large part of your time, you can only rely on yourself. So, tube him, what other people think, do what they want, and strive to persist.
Maybe you want the future in their eyes, perhaps you have been falling down and tell yourself to climb up, perhaps you have been very hard, but still someone is not satisfied, perhaps your ideal distance from you never closer, but please continue to walk, because others do not see your hard work and pay, you have always seen yourself.
The reason why I try so hard is not to despise myself when I am old, because I always see myself.
Because I want to give myself a chance, while I am still young, because I have to give myself an account.
Because I am such an old-fashioned person, I believe the dream, I believe the warmth, I believe the ideal. I believe that my choice is not wrong, I believe that my dream is not wrong, I believe that regret is more terrible than failure.
I always believe in the meaning of hard work