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DN primary school students buy "sets" on the side of the road. Parents are embarrassed. Experts say that parents and schools are equally responsible.

Recently, some netizens posted a post on a website saying that the son of the sixth grade in elementary school purchased a condom on the side of the road. She wanted to tell her son that it was hard to tell her story, then, I asked a netizen for help.

In fact, talking with primary school students is a problem for parents and schools. What is the status of primary education in Guangzhou? How should we face up to sex education? To this end, the reporter visited the municipal education department, some schools and communities in the past few days. Let's hear how teachers, parents, and experts think about this issue.

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Recently, a netizen posted a post on a forum in Guangzhou, saying, "My son told me in a whisper last night that he and a few of his colleagues had bought a condom study with a 1-dollar coin in a contraceptive box near the school, he knows how it is used and where it is used. I am speechless. He is only a sixth-grade elementary school student ." Later, the netizen asked the netizens for help on the Forum, asking them how to tell their sons about the issue.

Coincidentally, a female who has been engaged in primary education for many years also told reporters her similar experiences. "Isn't there a condom vending machine in many places outside? When my son saw it, he felt very curious and ran to ask me what the condom was. All of a sudden, I am very embarrassed ." The senior teacher and mother said that they do not know how to explain the most appropriate, but do not want to be too clear.

Parent

The sooner you face it, the better the effect.

The reporter interviewed several parents on the issue of sex education for primary school students. They all said, "The sooner you face it, the better the effect ". Ms. Chen, who lives in a residential area in Guangzhou Avenue, shared her parenting experience. She said that her daughter Fan was in the fifth grade of elementary school this year, and her sexual education to her daughter began from birth. It was initially to teach people to be different, and then to teach her the names of various organs in her body. Because she was afraid that her daughter could not be accurately expressed even if she was hurt, she first described it in a scientific language, "no pediatric language or representative name ".

"Never fool your child ." Ms. Chen admitted that there are more and more ways for children to come into contact with sexual knowledge. If they are as concealed as they were before, their parents will wear colored glasses to look at this problem, and their children will only absorb sexual information from other places, this is definitely not good for children's education.

Schools

Multiple lectures on youth health education in primary school

The reporter learned that Guangzhou elementary school basically sets up physiological health or youth health education content, but not a permanent course, but mostly in the form of special lectures.

According to teacher liang of Peizheng elementary school, since the fifth grade, the school will arrange school doctors to give physiological and Health Knowledge lectures every semester to teach children to know their bodies, especially the development of secondary signs. When I went to agricultural school next semester in the fifth grade, another lecture on youth health education was held separately by male and female.

Li Huiyan, president of Guangzhong Primary School in Yuexiu District, said that in the fourth to sixth grades, A adolescent education will be conducted every semester, with both men and women working in different classes, as described by doctors in community health centers. Li Huiyan believes that sex education is an indispensable part of school education, but he must carefully consider what to say and how to explain it. If you have not answered your questions, you may have to be curious. If you are too careful, you may have to think too much about it.

Experts

Parents also need to learn the corresponding courses

It is understood that at present, some primary health education in Guangzhou adopts the form of separate teaching between men and women, that is, the male teachers teach male students, and the female teachers teach female students. In this regard, Hu pecheng, professor of the Medical Psychology Teaching and Research Section of Peking University Medical Department and sexual expert, said that this teaching form has advantages and disadvantages: men and women receive sexual health education separately, "It is not easy for children to be embarrassed ", it makes classroom teaching easier, but separate teaching is not conducive to mutual understanding and classroom interaction between men and women. Compared with attending classes together, this will reduce the effect of classroom teaching to a certain extent.

Professor Hu stressed that parent and school responsibilities are equally important to primary school students' health education, but their roles are more special. "The parent is the first teacher of the child ."

Professor Hu admitted that mainland parents often avoided or did not answer their children's sexual questions positively, and lack the ability to correctly guide and help their children in their daily lives. Therefore, Professor Hu suggested that a school already offers parent-oriented courses, from which parents can systematically learn how to perform proper sex education for their children during their growth.

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