I don't know the top ten private terms in China.

1. "That thing ."

"What's the matter ?" "Isn't that the case !" Chinese language has a subtle beauty. It is a common pronoun. It can be used in a specific context to have some special meanings, the reason for not directly saying "That thing" is "What thing" is usually because it is inconvenient to publicize it. As a result, there is a large amount of information and a large space for imagination, such as office
When talking about the "That Thing" between Director Zhang and Secretary Liu, 10 people may have ten versions, and their privacy will be exhausted.

2. style issues

　
Style issues refer to abnormal phenomena in the relationship between men and women. For a long time, in the Chinese concept, style issues are almost the only content of privacy. The "style of work" statement is very ambiguous, and is not at work.
However, people often take personal work reviews into consideration. Leading cadres often have an impact on their future due to style issues. Perhaps at this point, the attitudes of Chinese and foreign citizens are the most consistent.
All hope that the leader's privacy will be exposed.

3. What are you busy?

When a foreigner meets and says hello, there is no need to ask questions. Just say hello. Medium
Chinese people used to ask "Have you eaten ?" Now I want to ask, "What are you doing ?" It may be a simple question, but it is also difficult to answer. "Not eaten yet" or "not busy" are all nonsense. It is silly to report carefully. Root
Source: China is a country that focuses on interpersonal communication, and its roots are the sign of a good friend. It doesn't mean that there is no privacy at all, but in the concept of everyone, it seems that only matters involving men and women are considered as private.
In other cases, both parties have the "right to know"-whether you love talking or listening.

4. What do you belong?

Now I know the age of a woman is inconvenient to ask, but I still want to know it, so I will try again, and the average person will not be 12 years old in appearance, similarly, "in which year did you graduate from college?"

5. The treatment is okay.

　
The psychology of Chinese people's mutual comparison is mainly reflected in their curiosity about others' income. In foreign-funded enterprises and enterprise-managed units, employees are not allowed to ask each other about salaries. Even in the street, "you earn a month
How much ?" Such a direct question has become blunt and abrupt. As a result, some people with language skills hide their curiosity under their concerns. "Is your treatment okay ?" "Are you satisfied with your salary ?" Therefore
The vague "okay" and "pass" are definitely not satisfactory. The more detailed the answer, the more accurate the better. "3000 or 4000" is not a good attitude.

6. Where are you from?

　
Among all the frequently used questions, this is the least scrubs. when you first get to know each other, you can ask. If you are familiar with it, you can ask more questions. No one ever thinks anything is wrong. In fact, this sentence is really annoying. One is the Chinese nationality.
Complex, it is hard to make it clear that many people who grew up from an early age have no influence on their parents' place of origin. The other is that China's place is too big and people in some places will inevitably suffer from poor reputation, even as a local, I do not think
However, I am not proud of my family. Naturally, I don't want to mention it from time to time. Some people say, "Where do you think I am like ?" Then smile.

7. No comments

　
This diplomatic statement, which should have appeared in formal occasions, has now been used by many ordinary people to protect their privacy. Generally, to reduce the severity of this sentence, the speaker will take a joke attitude,
Give people a sense of lack of skills. I remember one time, in CCTV's focus interview, the township cadres who were chased by reporters put these words on their lips.

8. Male or female

　
This is the easiest sentence to hear in the office. When a gentleman was absent, a colleague answered the call for him. When he came back, he asked, "Is it a male or a female ?" My colleagues started to say that you didn't show what happened recently.
The phone number left by the other party will not be told in the form of an affair. In the modern era where privacy is the most important, the office has become the least private place. seemingly isolated small grids are completely exposed under the boss's eyes,
Sleep, eating, and speaking on a private phone are highly risky.

9. Do Not Disturb

Many Chinese people know this when they first stay in a star hotel.
But there are not many people who consciously use the brand provided by the hotel. Most of the people who came from the "cultural revolution" era have the experience of staying in the hostel and staying in the hostel without being greeted by waiters.
In this case, it is boiled water. Sometimes it is just a look. If you don't speak, your expression is indifferent, and it is confusing. Maybe it's the opposite of things. Now, when a person lives in a hotel, the card is displayed, and when he leaves the door, he forgets to pick it up, making a mess.
He still complained about poor service.

10. This is my classmate.

When a man is dating a person of the same age (but certainly not a wife) at a bar, when an acquaintance hits him, he simply introduces "this is my classmate, even a classmate is not a common student, so I guess it is a bit curious. Modern students are listening like cousins in ancient times.